Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

I found out something shocking about my wife sisters boyfriend.......What should I do?

Earlier today I saw a post on here where a woman was talking about hiring a private eye to investigate her daughters boyfriend. Somebody mentioned the link http://background-records.net/ as a good place to find info online. Well I checked out the site and entered my sisters in law's boyfriends name and found out that he was convicted of armed robbery in 1999. I know this is him because the name, date of birth, and address are all the same. I am sure my sister in law doesn't know (and I am damn sure her dad doesn't know).......should I tell my sister in law or her dad? I don't know how to handle this situation

2006-11-15 11:26:47 · 24 answers · asked by phx_oil 2 in Weddings

I really like this cutter girl, but most people don't know she cuts. We were friends , but i slipped up and told alot of people ( including this boy she likes) and now she wont even talk to me.... I needed to warn my homeboy ( the guy she likes ) about the cutting she does... But he went and checked her arms and saw the cuts, and he kinda dissed her. I feel really bad now and I want to find someone else , but I can't get her off my mind. She wont even talk to me now....She was really mad I told my homeboy about the cuts....I'm still in love with her.... What should I do.

I feel so bad on so many levels right now. I didn't even mean to diss her , but she keeps on messing with my mind and even my homeboy said (she really doesn't like you). She's got me confused cased she really acts like she likes me.... What to do.....

2006-11-15 11:26:02 · 16 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex's bday is this Saturday.I only see him occassionally at the grocery store where I work and he used to work.We went out 10 months ago but it wasn't the right time cuz I had jus gotten out of a bad relationship.I was his first g/f,maybe his only 1.He used 2 avoid me cuz of awkwardness but now he's been recieptive. he did say he saw how attached I was 2 him and even though he really liked me,I think that scared him off. But now things seem kool with us.I wanted 2 make him feel special on his bday so he knows I care and I want 2 hang out wit him again. I probably won't see him this week at the store,so is calling him good?any advice or sujestions? I don't have his address so I can't send a bday card.

2006-11-15 11:25:37 · 4 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 11:24:52 · 2 answers · asked by jon P 1 in Singles & Dating

..in my town the people i know dont refer to me as hot or anything, im just the smart girl that is really christian.
well i went away for the summer to a couple of places and was referred to as hott and a sexpot and stuff all the time. i didnt dress differently, but is it possible the people here dont find me attractive bc "blossomed" here and they knew me when i was well, less than attractive? cuz im super confused...it really doesnt matter but i overanalyze.

2006-11-15 11:24:46 · 3 answers · asked by britt s 1 in Singles & Dating

My oldest child has sickle cell anemia and has to be transfused every two weeks.We have to travel two and a half hours away from home for these appointments.My other children are ages:11,4,2,and 1.My oldest is 16 years old.She had a stroke at the age of six and since then she has had to undergo transfusions bi-weekly because of iron overloads and sickle cell crisis!We live in a very small rural area and they don't offer much assistance for poor families as myself.Every Christmas for the past few years they only give her a board game and a boy's remote car.It's so hard to provide for them but I'm doing the best I can because God gave them to me and I will never turn my back on them but I must be honest it gets very hard at times because I can't do things as I would like or should.So I ask if anyone knows of any programs or sponsors please share so my childrn can have a joyous Christmas! Thank You All

2006-11-15 11:24:14 · 9 answers · asked by ebonyangel_33 1 in Family

i think im in a love less relation ship, however i and realy worried about her if i leave, what can i do?

2006-11-15 11:24:12 · 6 answers · asked by origamix60 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My oldest child has sickle cell anemia and has to be transfused every two weeks.We have to travel two and a half hours away from home for these appointments.My other children are ages:11,4,2,and 1.My oldest is 16 years old.She had a stroke at the age of six and since then she has had to undergo transfusions bi-weekly because of iron overloads and sickle cell crisis!We live in a very small rural area and they don't offer much assistance for poor families as myself.Every Christmas for the past few years they only give her a board game and a boy's remote car.It's so hard to provide for them but I'm doing the best I can because God gave them to me and I will never turn my back on them but I must be honest it gets very hard at times because I can't do things as I would like or should.So I ask if anyone knows of any programs or sponsors please share so my childrn can have a joyous Christmas! Thank You All

2006-11-15 11:23:42 · 2 answers · asked by ebonyangel_33 1 in Family

And what is your personal experience?

2006-11-15 11:23:30 · 2 answers · asked by NoName 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

They are scummy bastards who yieled MOJO and then ended up coming last in that leg anyway. They came last so many times and still managed to slimily scrape through and win. I HATE THEM WHO ELSE DOES TOO? P.S. Has anyone else seen those very strange photos of the hippies with Eric and Jeremy, what was that all about?

2006-11-15 11:22:56 · 4 answers · asked by alias_47 3 in Singles & Dating

i have no idea how this happened, really. i just got to know him through theatre around august, and then i tried out for an improv comedy team (not knowing he was on it) and didn't make it, but my friend did!

now i just started to like him and he told a lot of us after school that he liked my friend. she doesn't know if she'd go out with him or not, but that would kill me. KILL ME!!!! i think im in love with him i really am. my friend though...he likes her cause they're on the team together and now their in a show together too.

she says she doesnt like him but i dunno....i seriously am gonna die though!!!!!!!!????? HHEEELLPPP???!!!!

i cant tell him. that would make me seem like im breaking them apart. but i cant sit here and think about him knowing him and my friend are playing two single good-looking people who meet eachother on a bar and kiss!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HHHHHHHHHHHEEEEELLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!

2006-11-15 11:22:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some examples Would you allow them to go in front of you in line.Would you help them shovel snow.Hold doors open.
Reach for something they cant. Help them walk. Go out of your way to make a difference in their lives?

2006-11-15 11:22:30 · 10 answers · asked by John 5 in Family

Okay so my best friend in the whole wide worlds boyfriend just asked her to marry him and she said "YES" I used to go out with his best friend and earlier he asked me to marry him !!!!!! What should I say !!!! PS: We do not go out I think he only did it cuz his best friend did and he just wanted to keep up with him I also go out woth a guy named Michael and I really like him and I don't know what to do!!!

2006-11-15 11:22:06 · 16 answers · asked by ROCKSTAR IN LOVE 2 in Singles & Dating

i love my boyfriend of 2 years but i want to have sex with a coworker i dont know why i feel this way its just that everytime i see my co worker i just want to jump his bones is cheating bad ?

2006-11-15 11:21:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out something shocking about my wife sisters boyfriend.......What should I do?

Earlier today I saw a post on here where a woman was talking about hiring a private eye to investigate her daughters boyfriend. Somebody mentioned the link http://background-records.net/ as a good place to find info online. Well I checked out the site and entered my sisters in law's boyfriends name and found out that he was convicted of armed robbery in 1999. I know this is him because the name, date of birth, and address are all the same. I am sure my sister in law doesn't know (and I am damn sure her dad doesn't know).......should I tell my sister in law or her dad? I don't know how to handle this situation

2006-11-15 11:20:47 · 6 answers · asked by phx_oil 2 in Family

whether its in a cafe, online, in the bahamas..etc....

2006-11-15 11:20:26 · 2 answers · asked by Lauretha 3 in Singles & Dating

My Fiance is in Japan because he's in the army and thats where he was stationed...He has only been gone not even two weeks and its so hard already. He's not going to be home until June when we are getting married.... does anyone know anything that helps it not be so hard to be away from him?

He was gone for three months and came home for 12 days...I thought that might make it a little easier at first but i think it only made it harder...

2006-11-15 11:20:06 · 22 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean in most cases, it's get married first, then have children. They are instead, needing babysitting for their family at their own wedding. It just seems so wrong to me. What's everyone elses clean opinion?

2006-11-15 11:18:43 · 16 answers · asked by Potato 5 in Weddings

My friend moved to south africa and we lost touch. All I know is that he has his own reserve. Although I dont know if he owns it or just manages it. I dont even know which part of that country he moved to.

2006-11-15 11:18:30 · 6 answers · asked by kimshelsher 1 in Friends

The occasion is a 50th Wedding Anniversary celebration.

2006-11-15 11:18:01 · 9 answers · asked by Golden Annivv Celebrant 1 in Weddings

I'd like to have my mother walk me down the aisle at my upcoming wedding (my father is deceased and my brother can't make it) -- is this done, and any advice (how it's different, linking arms, etc.)?

2006-11-15 11:17:48 · 18 answers · asked by SandyCheeks 2 in Family

2006-11-15 11:17:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im a skateboarder that has shaggy hair,wears glasses,and is 13 years old

2006-11-15 11:15:40 · 4 answers · asked by skaterboarder zachary 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been married 2 months so I want to make christmas special,but the problem is through the years I've bought him everything he could ever want and I am out of ideas for new gifts he likes baseball,football,fishing he's really an all american guy...help me

2006-11-15 11:15:33 · 7 answers · asked by kelly 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Does tickling and smiling and always saying hi means a girl likes you ????
i like this girl and she said she didnt like me. but she still says hi to me and is always smiling at me. one day she even tickled me and when i went to do it back she started to giggle and squirm around, and also one time i was playing my psp and she comes into class and says hi and tells me she was going to say hi at lunch. and she started to tell me that she could beat me at any sport she had a huge smile on her face. and sometimes i'll be standin by my class door and she'll tell me to get into class and try pushin me in or start trying to act tough with me. the problem is that when i asked her if she had her phone she said didn't have it on her. idk wat to do

PLEASE HELP ME !!!
PS : SHE ALSO SAID SHE SAW MY MYSPACE PICTURES WITH A SMILE ON HER FACE

2006-11-15 11:15:12 · 9 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this one guy and i know he likes me back . so who should make the first move?

2006-11-15 11:14:54 · 4 answers · asked by jen 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend whos a senior and im a freshman and i might be able to convince her to let me buy her 2 prom tickets later in the year should I, and how much should i buy them for.

2006-11-15 11:14:42 · 1 answers · asked by bob S 2 in Singles & Dating

fv

2006-11-15 11:14:09 · 10 answers · asked by eric h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 11:13:25 · 9 answers · asked by lexi D 1 in Singles & Dating

Serious answers only please. I have seen it wreck not only homes, but childrens' lives. May be I am not seeing the "good" divorces, but I can count about 15 of my friends who were involoved in divorces, most of them with children, in the last 6-7 years, and almost all of them ended up with lawyers, courts, custody fights, money fights, children torn apart.

I know divorce lawyers will disagree, but is it often them that goad the parties to fight and get the best of each other? I heard many people say most of them act like leeches.

2006-11-15 11:12:58 · 6 answers · asked by paanbahar 4 in Marriage & Divorce