2006-11-15 11:13:25 · 9 answers · asked by lexi D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask that question on here, you are by no means ready for the consequences of having sex. Grow up, get an education, then think about whether or not you're ready for this HUGE responsibility.
2006-11-15 15:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself first, how old am I? Does he have the finances to take care of a baby if I get pregnant? What diseases does he have? Will the condom break, assuming he will wear one? Why on the box of condoms does it say 99.9% safe? Why doesn't it say on the box of condoms, will not protect from genital herpes? If I sleep with him and he then moves on, will it hurt? Do I want my parents to know that I am not a virgin, If they care? Last but not least, I have said it once and I will say it again, Have him spit in a cup of your favorite drink, and then all the girls he has slept with, then down it as fast as you can while imagining all the germs going down into your system. If you can handle that, and you do not care about yourself, go for it! In fact go buy a t shirt to get his attention, like, slu, or future slut, or visit me in the hospital when I am 7 years into hiv, or even better full blown aids. Yes, it is still out there and the cases are growing everyday. Since you are on the net, go onto your favorite search engine and type in std's. Read that then come back another time and let us know what you decided.
2006-11-15 11:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by meonhere 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the other person. DOnt tell him, this will turn him off, having sex with a guy is so easy you cant imagine. You have to find a moment when you are both alone, and then talk have fun laugh and start getting closer and closer, it wont fail
2006-11-15 11:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by linguist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just bring up the conversation about it. Say "what is your opinion on sex?" Ask him if he feels he's ready for it in your relationship. Just bring up the conversation and it will either happen or not, but then you'll know.
2006-11-15 11:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like your to young for sex and not mature to handle all the responsibility that comes with it, I suggest you wait till your older, and it will happen naturally.
2006-11-15 11:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just hang out with him and have fun. things would lead up to that if he wants the same. like just ******* tackle him and start kissing him
2006-11-15 11:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont just come right out sure some times it works just work your way up to it you come to fast he mite think you just want to **** and thats all don go there just work it out
2006-11-15 11:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st make sure he has a good job so he can buy all the things you will need for your baby and pay the hospital bills......
2006-11-15 11:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if hes single, ur attractive, ur single, and u ask him... he will say yes
2006-11-15 11:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋