Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

Okay, so I have this friend--we've known each other for 12 years or so. I used to have a thing for his bro, but about six years ago he started hanging out at my desk at work, sharing really personal stuff that he wouldn't even tell his family. Before I left for college he made a pass at me. Since then things have been weird. One summer he told me "I want to take you to lunch", ten times in fact, but he never does!!!! Ahhh...! So I ran into him on Friday after not seeing each other for three years. There was tension, there was chemistry, there was a "hey call me sometime and I'll take you to lunch". I told him to call me when he's ready to go. What the heck is this boy trying to tell me!!!

2006-11-15 11:55:09 · 3 answers · asked by kerber22 3 in Singles & Dating

do girls like a guy who asks a lot of ?s to try and get to know them more and better?...or is there like a limit or wat..

2006-11-15 11:54:36 · 11 answers · asked by cold_killa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 11:54:31 · 8 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

found out in 2005,my mum did not let me get married. then in 2006 i called my girlfriend a big peanut.

is this OK?

2006-11-15 11:54:00 · 7 answers · asked by Minami Iwasaki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend Charlie got in a fight today and he got hurt really bad people said the fight was because he was trying to protect me and i went to the hospital to see him and his step-mom wouldn't let me in then she went inside the room came back out and said i could go in but she wasn't happy about it, when i went in he just looked at me and smiled then he closed his eyes, when i talked to him i asked him why he did it he said i couldnt let any one hurt me like they did him, i thought he was joking because we had just got in a REALLY big argument before he left and i thought he had got attacked for no reason but he finally said it was for me but he said he was still "mad" and i cant figure out why he did it and i know for a fact he doesnt "love" me and he said im the only one he would do it for

2006-11-15 11:53:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

15 years Ive been with my partner. He's moody 90% of the time and very unsociable. example if a member of my family come round or a friend. He don't make any effort to make them feel welcome. If he don't have any thing to say he won't mean nothing. I get really embarrassed and friend's leave thinking he's just plain rude. So no one come's round when he's here. He's ok with me i guess, but i keep thinking when he's not home how happer me and the kid's are. then when he get's in from work it's like a big grey cloud walking in with him. Ive asked him to leave but he never does. What if i kick him out and want him back. and he relise it's being with me that make's him missable. and deside not to come back. The kid's say he 's always grumpy. But he's there dad, they love him, what should i do.?

2006-11-15 11:52:55 · 10 answers · asked by beverley 2 in Friends

i think i'm falling..for my best friend?
i've never told anyone this but...heres the deal...i met my best friend freshman year..we are now juniors and very close....but the thing is over the past years...i think something clicked inside me..and i've developed feelings for him..strong feelings...i dont know what to do...we do everything together...he tells people he loves them and hugs just about anybody including me..but the thing that makes me wonder the most is..we went with my family on vacation for a week and we stayed at my aunts house for 2 days..when we where wathing tv..out of no where he kisses me on the temple....???..i didnt say anything..but i reagret it everyday..how do i know it he feels the same?...things havent been the same since..its real awkward...WE'VE STARTED TO ARGUE..over silly things but he always ends up hugging me or we just laugh about it...the other night i hugged him and he kept bragging about how good it was???. read the rest please ~V

2006-11-15 11:52:53 · 5 answers · asked by cubs_gurl97 1 in Friends

im a male 15 year old. i heard from a friend that she likes me but im not sure if she really does. she flirts with me some days and not others but one of the days we were in a group together in a class and she would put her legs between mine and hold them their for a while. we did things like this for the rest of the class period and made some eye contact. Some days she is mean to me too. This girl is really confusing. she is single and extremely good looking. also we went to homecomming together. my only problem is she is sortof preppy and though i was voted homecomming rep i don't view myself as a prep. i just don't think that prep/nonprep border is crossed that often. What should i do?

2006-11-15 11:52:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I sometimes have a hard time communicating adverse situations, so instead I wrote him. The situation is that he is living in my home and would like to do some things here that i don't really want going on in my house. I wrote him telling him where I stood on these things. Now, he seems to have stopped talking to me, and really doesn't have too much to say. Why do I feel bad for taking a stand???

2006-11-15 11:51:19 · 9 answers · asked by prettydebutante 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay.
I really like this guy and I think he likes me too.
No big deal right?
The problem is that I've already gone out with him before.

We both agreed to break up but now I really like him and I don't know what to do. He seems to like me a lot and we are even talking more than we were ever before.
Is it better if my friends boyfriend( who is friends with him)
Set us up?
Or should i just wait for someone to come along and take him?

2006-11-15 11:51:00 · 10 answers · asked by hum x hallelujah 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 11:50:41 · 10 answers · asked by Bleaarg 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has the most cutest nickname for me, and i wanna give him one too.... W e are a young couple and i need help with a nickname!!!!!!!1

2006-11-15 11:50:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like for the same fitted, would a girl/woman pursue a man wearing a seven jeans than a guy wearing a old navy jeans?

2006-11-15 11:50:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 11:49:02 · 21 answers · asked by misskashmere 2 in Family

Well, I have to admit as a man I really don't like the idea of a man having to change their children's diapers and I really do think it is a woman's job. Then I came across this verse and I thought about telling my little lady about it:

Leviticus 18:6 None of you shall approach to any that is near of kin to him, to uncover their nakedness. I am the LORD.

Am I taking this out of context? If I am wrong, aren't I at least right about men not changing diapers anyways?

2006-11-15 11:48:59 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My bf and I have been together for 5 years. We were high school sweethearts, and I love him very much. He is my best friend, we have great chemistry, and I get along with his family well. The only problem is that his career is going to require him to be gone, on a ship, without a conistent phone, for t least 11 weeks at a time. I know he could get a shore job but he doesn't want to, and it is becming more and more apparent to me that I am having a very hard time being happy for him. I am supposed to see him for the first time since August, tomorrow. And I am supposed to go with he and his family for Thanksgiving... Part of me wants to run away and not see him at all- while he's been away, just slip away from it all, instead of seeing him again and strting over.... But I know that that will make me crazy. I miss him so. What should I do?

2006-11-15 11:48:27 · 13 answers · asked by nycgirl2003 2 in Singles & Dating

I love all Puerto Rican men for some reason. Black guys too but not as nearly enough as Puerto Ricans. Also, I don't know why I'm not attracted to white guys AT ALL. Someone explain to me why this might be and where I can find Puerto Rican guys at.

2006-11-15 11:48:18 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 11:47:51 · 6 answers · asked by deddrickk j 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and i think i wanna tell him i like him but i dont know if i'll have the courage to say it, does anyone have any suggestions??

2006-11-15 11:46:13 · 8 answers · asked by snowlily 1 in Singles & Dating

reason...Judge if you feel like you have to, I can take it...But I really just want one good reason not to go. I'm about to hop a plane, I need talked out of it.......

2006-11-15 11:45:46 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, this is really messed up. There is a girl in my history class who I really, really like. We have the following class together (spanish), so we study for it together sometimes before the class starts. Well, we were writing stuff out and she wrote out "yo te gusto" which i think means "I like you". She was talking to me alot that day, telling me personal stuff ( like about her drunken dad and her uncaring mom and etc.). I feel close to her, but i'm not sure if she likes me or not, please help me out!!!!

2006-11-15 11:45:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we lived together for 14 years. when he left he said he is not obligated to me for anything because we are not married. He has been seen with another woman.He treated me badly so its better for me that he is gone,but I still want a little revenge!

2006-11-15 11:44:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

but her mom wont let her what should I say to He has the biggest crush on her and she loves him too! They are the world cutest couple. Please help!

2006-11-15 11:43:00 · 7 answers · asked by нσℓℓуωσσ∂ ηєνєя ℓσσкє∂ тнιѕ gσσ∂ 5 in Singles & Dating

If wife had husband sign a Power of Attorney while he was under the influence of medication and she decided to reduce the price of the house by $10,000 to sell quicker- is he obligated even tho he doesn't want to? (The house belonged to husband before marriage and they haven't been married but 4 years)

2006-11-15 11:41:54 · 9 answers · asked by Silky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 11:41:26 · 26 answers · asked by dorro 1 in Singles & Dating

I AM 6'3 FEET TALL I HAVE LOT GOING FOR ME IS THERE ANY WOMAN OUT THERE THAT LIVE IN THE BAY AREA JUST FOR ME PLEASE LET ME KNOW I AM ALL BY MY SELF..........

2006-11-15 11:40:03 · 3 answers · asked by Lance F 1 in Singles & Dating

I have no intention of getting married. I have anger problems and problems with commitment. Plus the fact that I've never been close to anyone in my life. I am not gay, but just, I don't know. I hate the world, sadly in some ways. I hate love and I view it as pathetic.

2006-11-15 11:39:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby loves video games and that is fine with me. What bothers me is that he plays them constantly. He is in the Army and we live in Germany. This is pretty much the first time I have ever lived with anyone other than my family. I am very family-oriented and I love everyone in my family and I would give anything to spend time with them. I have 9 aunts and uncles and 30 cousins who I am very close to. Yes I know my family are horndogs. Anyways, my husband usually works about 4 days and then off 2. When he gets home, he starts to play his video games and he will play them from the instant he gets home until he goes to bed. All I ask is that when he is off work, I at least get one day. Not even the whole day, just some of it. I have told him this about once a week for the last two months. It doesn't seem to matter. I love him very much and don't want our relationship to end but I can't take much more of this. He also will go out with his friends on the days he is off.

2006-11-15 11:38:07 · 2 answers · asked by Taunia 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He always spank my a** and I think he really likes doing it so I let him. But if I was to spank his a**, he would say stop. (He thinks its gay)! But I like it! LOL

2006-11-15 11:37:43 · 8 answers · asked by Nema 1 in Singles & Dating

Well okay, theres this guy & he just moved to my school awhile ago, he's in one of my classes. I tried talking to him the first couple days and I could barely get him to say anything at all so I kinda gave up. Pretty recently though he's been talking a little bit, just about some random things.

He's really quiet though if he says anything & I dunno, it sounds kinda like he doesn't wanna talk or doesn't know what to say, but he's the one starting conversations with me now. I don't think I've ever heard him talk to anyone in that entire class except me. But then again that's just one class so I dunno.

The main thing is though, our conversations are kinda.. awkward I guess cause his voice is so quiet and he just sounds nervous or something. And it makes me kinda nervous cause he's nervous, lol. But I guess the main thing I'm asking is, how can I make it seem less awkward when we talk? Sorry this is so long, I guess I talk too much x_x

2006-11-15 11:37:21 · 8 answers · asked by faded_angel17 1 in Singles & Dating