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i think i'm falling..for my best friend?
i've never told anyone this but...heres the deal...i met my best friend freshman year..we are now juniors and very close....but the thing is over the past years...i think something clicked inside me..and i've developed feelings for him..strong feelings...i dont know what to do...we do everything together...he tells people he loves them and hugs just about anybody including me..but the thing that makes me wonder the most is..we went with my family on vacation for a week and we stayed at my aunts house for 2 days..when we where wathing tv..out of no where he kisses me on the temple....???..i didnt say anything..but i reagret it everyday..how do i know it he feels the same?...things havent been the same since..its real awkward...WE'VE STARTED TO ARGUE..over silly things but he always ends up hugging me or we just laugh about it...the other night i hugged him and he kept bragging about how good it was???. read the rest please ~V

2006-11-15 11:52:53 · 5 answers · asked by cubs_gurl97 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

wait theres more...ok so we're best friends but we dont hang out together at school...i hang out with my friends and he hangs out with his...prom came up in class meeting today...my friend asked if i was going..i said maybe..then she says i should go with him...he was right behind me and i shook my head because..she asked him before me and he said if i go ill take trish "this other girl" i'm like his best friend...and he never even told me this..im not jealous..but do you know where im coming from...i just dont know what to do...

2006-11-15 11:56:44 · update #1

im really shy to ask him...its the what ifs that is bothering me..im not one to go out and just say personal things...

2006-11-15 12:11:01 · update #2

5 answers

i think you should talk to him about it. just say that you've been feeling this and you wanted to know his feelings about it too. if he's as good as a friend as you say he is, he'll understand and still be great friends with u even if he doesn't feel the same way.

2006-11-15 12:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I have been in your situation before and this is what I did. First I would sit down with him and let him know how you are feeling. It's always good to get out your feelings to see if he feels the same way you do. If all is good...I would take it to the next level (going on a date) with no other distractions and see where that takes the two of you. 'cause you never know where this friendship could go...it could go either way, but at least you will still have a best friend in the end. I had gotten too serious and on the rebound and lost a real good friend 'cause we moved way too fast and now I don't have a best friend. Just take your time with him and all will be well in the end. Pls. let me know if this answer helps you in any way. Candi

2006-11-15 20:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hi, You have not given your age but i am guessing 16-17 maybe ?
Correct me if I am Wrong !
Let Me ask you something !
WAS IT NICE JUST BEING THIS GUYS BEST FRIEND !
If the answer is YES , Then why not leave it that way !
and LET HIM MAKE THE MOVE !
If he is serious IT WILL HAPPEN !SO Do Not Worry !
My Kindest Regards to You.
Nick.

2006-11-15 20:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by nick h 1 · 0 0

your'e falling for him unfourently when he kissed you ,you didn't say anything so he probaly thought you didn't like it and probaly moved on or he could be trying to make you jealous by saying he's going with someone else

2006-11-15 20:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

don't do anything, if it happens it happens and vice versa

2006-11-15 20:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon 3 · 0 0

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