Okay, so I have this friend--we've known each other for 12 years or so. I used to have a thing for his bro, but about six years ago he started hanging out at my desk at work, sharing really personal stuff that he wouldn't even tell his family. Before I left for college he made a pass at me. Since then things have been weird. One summer he told me "I want to take you to lunch", ten times in fact, but he never does!!!! Ahhh...! So I ran into him on Friday after not seeing each other for three years. There was tension, there was chemistry, there was a "hey call me sometime and I'll take you to lunch". I told him to call me when he's ready to go. What the heck is this boy trying to tell me!!!
2006-11-15 11:55:09 · 3 answers · asked by kerber22 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is good you asked this question. You are going to like this answer. I can tell you from experience that he wants to take you on a date. Lunch is just a starting point. However, he is not calling you because he is not sure about your feelings. If you just indicate no then it is a big risk for the relationship to ever happen again. He will simply have to write you off.
It is also possible that he is not that serious.
Why do not you tell him that hey, where is my lunch? Then if he really feels he will take you.
2006-11-15 12:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sam P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya hun! I ran into my ex the other day and he was like "give me a shoutout and we can do something" when I just looked at him, he said, we can go see a movie. I dunno this guy sounds the same. Maybe he is just trying to be nice, I mean he needs to get some balls and ask you already. Maybe he just sees you as a friend.
2006-11-15 11:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm I don't know, just call him
2006-11-15 13:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋