My girlfriend of over a year have recently entered college, and instead of being 5 minutes apart, we are now about 2 hours apart.
The problem is, I just find myself less and less interested, and at the same time she is becoming less and less independent. Even the slightest comment, which has no negative meaning at all, can set her off into a fit which leaves us both worried sick. Then the next day she'll calm down and apologize, and things will go back to normal. We ran through that cycle for a few weeks until I said I'd had enough, and had to think for a while. Soon after she apologized and said that she was just scared and that it wouldn't happen again. Then I saw her this weekend, still unsure about the relationship, and everything just felt off. I felt like she as just making sure not to upset me, in order to not lose me. And I was just sort of wearing a mask. We talked tonight about this, and it ended with her in tears and me unsure of myself.
2006-11-15
12:19:32
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nowayman72
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