What should I do?........Help!?

Question

Some people in my school do not like and I really don't know why.Someone went around the school telling people that a was a rolla(ho) and people are really believing this.I am really upset because I am not a rolla and people are talking s*** about me behind my back.Yesterday,people asked this girl if she wanted to fight me and she said "no" she must be scared because she should'nt have been talking s***.Today I went to the guidance counselor and told him about this situation and he said there is probably some boy who likes me and doesn't like her and she is upset so she tells lies about me.I really don't know if she started the rumor but I know there are some other kids who don't like me.I am a quiet girl and I hardly say a word to anyone so why are people talking about me.My friends say they are probably jealous and ant everyone to turn against me.What do you think?.How would you feel if someone went around the school saying you were a rolla?.How would you handle this situation?

I am not allowed to have a boyfriend or talk to boys on the phone but some how someone wanted to tell lies and say I was a rolla.I am upset because now boys will think I am easy and I feel like I'm being ignored by the girls.

Answer 1

Ok, I don't know what that means, but clearly they are trying to get a reaction out of you. School is for learning so I wouldn't pay attention to it. If no one is coming in your face and trying to hit you, let it go. When they see you aren't reacting to it they will stop because they will start to feel foolish.

Answer 2

I don't understand, the girl said she didn't want to fight you so whats the problem? Someone has a big mouth and is telling lies, what else goes on in school? If all the people in school had to only tell the truth, the halls would be quiet like a grave. Don't go looking for trouble, mind your manners and try and keep from starting trouble with people until you know for a fact not cause he said she said stuff either, but cause you heard them say it. Never rise to the bait baby and you might get through school without a mark. Just be you, your friends know you and anyone else can just guess. Don't ever let them see you sweat, if they think they can upset you, it will get worse! Good luck! GAWD I'm glad I'm not in grade school anymore!

Answer 3

This happened to me about twenty years ago. I know that a lot of things have changed in schools since I was there, but I think something like this is still due such things as jealousy or just plain meanness. I would suggest trying to ignore it for a few days longer and see if things quiet down. If they don't, go back to your counselor and try to talk to him again. Does your school just have a guidance counselor, or do they have a counselor for people with problems? If they have the other kind of counselor talk to him or her. If you attend church, try talking to your pastor. If neither of these things work, you might have to talk to your parent(s) and see if they will get involved with you and maybe talk to your principal. Usually though, if this is all because of someone making stuff up, your true self will eventually shine through and everyone will see that the things that are said aren't really true.

Answer 4

I think that high school is a crazy place. The best thing to do is to just ignore what's going on. While this sounds like a big deal right now, in a few days this is going to be old news.

My sister had a similar experience. Note that my sister is one of the more pure girls I know--she wouldn't even kiss before marriage. Her friends spread rumors about her all over the school--she was a slut, she was pregnant, she was having a relationship with the teacheter, etc. We're talking terrible stuff. My sister was hurt for weeks.

Turns they were just jealous because she was so gorgeous and many of the guys had wanted her as their girlfriend.

Answer 5

My parents won't let my sisters and I have boyfriends either.
Maybe they are mistaking your quietness for being stuck up. I am quiet and people think that about me. I am not shy around my friends but when new people are around i am.
I was going out with someone at school but I broke up with him and now he is mad and spreading bad rumors about me that weren't even close to being true. But my real friends know how I am and they know the truth and thats all that matters to me. Don't let those other people make you feel bad. You are always going to have people saying bad things about you for stupid reasons. It's up to you if they bother you or not. Just try to hold your head high and ignore them and they will get bored and move on soon. Good luck. This is my moms account but if you need to talk then you can e-mail her and she will let me know.

Answer 6

First of all, it doesn't matter why they are doing it. It's hurtful and it's wrong. This is a form of bullying.

Your guidance counsellor should have done more for you! Keep telling people in authority that you need help with this! Someone with some authority has to talk to these girls - even just to educate them about how hurtful it is to spread rumours, without mentioning your name.

Tell, tell, and tell some more. Tell until somebody gives you some REAL help! If you can't get help at school, tell your parents, if they can't help, tell your priest, tell every adult that you can find until somebody helps you.

What is happening to you is WRONG! And it's not your fault!

Answer 7

There have been rumors about me which are not true, but I ignored everyone and in 2 days everyone forgot everything. People mostly pick on the quiet ones and the nerds because they know that the quiet ones will get mad or annoyed easily.
Plz answer my question 2!!!

Answer 8

Man, I'm so glad I'm not in school anymore! I forgot about all the stupid s*** you have to put up with. Just remember, in just a few years you will have forgotten all about this crap!! None of this will even matter!! Good Luck!

Answer 9

just try to ignore it if you can . This is exactly what the person wanted for you to get so much upset . If you diss it then soon there be no more talk , just be yourself nice and sweet .

Answer 10

your friend is right. they are jealous. girls only start things with other girls who havent done anything because they are jealous. just ignore it. people like that are encouraged by reactions.