I'm always thinking of what other people think about me at school....?

Question

Any tips on how I can loosen up and just relax? It seems like I'm always worried about what people think of me, and start getting nervous and sweat sometimes..........like I said....any tips on how to just loosen up and relax?

Thanks....I'll award a best answer.

Answer 1

Just don't worry about what other people think. As long as you are doing the right thing and are being a good person then don't let them bother you. You don't have to impress anyone but yourself. I bet that you have a lot of good qualities that if given the chance others would appreciate about you. I had this problem when I was young but now that I am older (33) and married and a mom I don't worry about what strangers think about me. I do the best I can to lead a good life and if someone doesn't like me before they even take the time to get to know me then it's their loss.
Just go into school tomorrow with your head held high and know that you are a great person and there is no reason you have to do anything but be yourself. You can't be anything else right? I think that if you just show confidence (even if you have to fake it for a while :) in yourself others will notice. I wish you all the luck in the world and just remember to just be yourself because I promise, that's good enough!! When my children are feeling this way we have a favorite saying to help them feel better, "God don't make no junk"!!
Good luck and have a blessed day at school tomorrow!

Answer 2

Everyone thinks different, and thats life. You know? I know I used to have the same kind of problem.. And all of a sudden it took about a year after grade nine in highschool.. I could seriously care less... I used to be worried about what my hair looked like and now Im like... Whatever... I know its hard.. and yes.. I do sweat..whether or not you believe me.. its normal... Its our body... for a while, at school I was a loner, so I was like "Oh what will people think of me??".. first of all you will never know unless you hear it straight up.. about what they think of you.. and us girls.. truly have to stop thinking so much.. Try to focus and have fun with you friends... Its hard to relax.. but one day.. you will feel more relaxed... You probably won't be relaxed from that day on.. but its a start... Hope that helps

Answer 3

i was the same way untill i realized what i was becoming... a prep i mean no affence to ya(if ya are 1) but thats not who i was and thats not what i wanted to be! so i just wore what i felt like and kept my head held hight and then it slowly relaxed.its mostly the ppl i hang out with they are set back and dont care what they look like(dont go crazy with ugly clothes,cause that would just make you the laughting stock of the school) but just relax step back and be your self ok when i herd be your self i had no idea what that ment so i just thought what my personality was and just took it from that hope it helps

Answer 4

I personally don't think it's wrong to care what other people think of you. It's called "self-respect". People who don't scare me because they are unusually rude and ignorant.

As long as you know that you're not doing anything wrong or mistreating anyone, what's the problem? Do good things and know that you're setting a great example for them to watch.

Answer 5

just have some self confidence..u can start smiling ..u dont have to change ur looks but if u do..some mite be surprised and notice you..juss start talk ing to people even though u are shy..dont be to nervous play it off...

Answer 6

i have the same problem with my two friends. here is the main thing to know in this problem WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK ARE WRONG WHAT U THINK IS RIGHT. don't let other people judge you.

Answer 7

Just realize that you can't impress EVERYONE.

Might as well just impress YOURSELF.