In the beginning of the relationship she made several referances about her being frightend by me being "to perfect". She liked all of the attention(masssage, dinner making for her, bubble baths, flowers, ect) We enjoyed eachothers company several hrs a day, into many of the same things, same religon, ect.. During the breakup she brought up several very minor situations(her admissions). She claimed it was a fundemental differance in our personality. The breakup came about quite suddenly.
2006-11-15 12:15:37 · 17 answers · asked by monkeymustpull 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes has very high selfesteem.
2006-11-15 12:22:44 · update #1
If you're too perfect, you're too perfect...
You didn't seem real. Sure, the stuff you did was sweet and all, but perhaps a little too much.
2006-11-15 12:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by No O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey look man, obviously this girl has some issues to solve, if she says ur "TOO PERFECT" for her, then u know what? is either two things, 1 she either didn't like and made up that excuse, or 2 she's just pretty ****** up in the head and doesn't know what she wants, look man, what u need to do is find someone that will appreciate everything u were doing for the other chick, if she didn't appreciate all the attention u put to her, she's gonna find an asshole that's gona make her regret breaking up w/u, and trust me that is a fact man, so don't even waste ur time thinking about y this girl broke up w/u, move on bro, u can do way better than her.
2006-11-15 20:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by rocko1801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, unfortunately some girls are just so used to be treated badly that when they finally meet someone who treats them decently they do not know how to handle it. Some girls are actually attracted to guys that make them be the ones who have to chase after the guy. Trust me I cant understand why this is so, but it is.
2006-11-15 20:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Yahoo User 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did to much for her to the point where she took you for granted. Some women are drawn to men that are not as nice, Nice, in their eyes, can translate into boring. If it happened suddenly, there is more than likely another dude.
2006-11-15 20:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jim W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys finish last.
Now watch her go find some guy who takes her for granted or better yet abuses her, and he will have to be the one to dump her to get rid of her.
You see it over and over in real life, and over and over on this site. So depressing.
2006-11-15 20:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may have depression or self-esteem issues if she thought you were too good.
either that or she is using this as an excuse to not tell you the real truth about why she broke up..
2006-11-15 20:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she feels that u r more than her and that she
is too little for u so she broke up with you so u could have someone of ur own "perfectness" level
if u love her talk to her about it
2006-11-15 20:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by *Unknown* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be feeling gulity about something she did. do you guys still talk? in every relationship, both people have a right to know everything
2006-11-15 20:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by RAW DIVA™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound perfect but um yeah i dont c a reason except she probably thought she wanst good enough or she didnt like u n e more
2006-11-15 20:18:32 · answer #9 · answered by beautiful*~*luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she believes that she doesn't deserve someone as good as you. Move on and count your blessings that you dont have to deal with her esteem issues!
2006-11-15 20:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋