Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for close to 3 years. I've always been attracted to good guys. When we first started dating he never drank to my knowledge. But now that he's in college he drinks all the time. I don't like it and I don't want him to drink but he just says he does it moderately. Yet when I call him during one of his drinking spells he can't remember the next day that I called him the day before. What do I do? I never wanted to be with a guy that drinks and now I happen to love one.

2006-11-15 12:40:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We all know being unique is ok but Im TOO unique! Im 11 years old and I have intrests and wonders about how people really came to be and sometimes the world feels like a dream. I am HORRIBLE at making friends because Im EXTREMELY SHY. I mean- I must be the shy'est peron in the history of the world! I can barely get the courage to say something at lunch to my own friends! I feel like people dont really like me because of some special reason that I dont know about.. HOW CAN I STOP BEING SO SHY!!??

2006-11-15 12:39:56 · 7 answers · asked by jacumps 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

does a man who is 42 and still married but living with his girlfriend who is 21.........will their age difference effect them or will they be able to have a life

2006-11-15 12:39:11 · 7 answers · asked by kelly h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Soo my crush just turned 19. And he's been calling me, and talking to me a lot more than usual. I'm 15. And i don't know what I should do. He told me he loved me the other day and I laughed. He said a lot of other things like, if we were dating what he'd do. If hes 19, legal, and im 15, underage, isn't that considered like rape?

2006-11-15 12:39:10 · 14 answers · asked by xorenée 7 in Singles & Dating

ahhh, how can you feel comfortable showin` your legs ?
& PLEASE, please don`t say anything like, 'if you don`t feel comfortable, don`t wear them'
i WANT to wear them so i`m looking for advice on wearing them & feeling confident [:

i have ugly legs hahh. my knees are nasssstty.
but i still love skirts ! & i TAN my legss. <3
its the only thing iLike about them, LOL.

kthankssss!

PS; how do you add additional information !!
i`m new here & i have no cluueee =(

ty so much cutiess*

2006-11-15 12:38:20 · 9 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 12:38:07 · 7 answers · asked by kkahn9dodge 5 in Friends

I want to be lonely sometimes and then, sometimes, I just want to be with a really attractive girl who has a great personality and will listen to me. I know several nice girls who are very attractive. I love girls, and sometimes I am obsessed with one, but I'm shy around girls. I think it's because I'm afraid to say something stupid in a conversation and make a fool of myself, because I get embarassed easily. I am told I'm attractive, and I have a pretty good body, but how do I get confidence? When I get angry at myself for not getting a girlfriend, I just hate love and want to be lonely. Why is this?

2006-11-15 12:38:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 12:37:45 · 17 answers · asked by alan m 2 in Singles & Dating

Now he'll have to pay late fee, Should i tell him ? How might he react to this ?

2006-11-15 12:37:02 · 16 answers · asked by lady F 1 in Singles & Dating

what do u think i should i on my 1 week off to impress a guy i like

2006-11-15 12:36:37 · 10 answers · asked by yessie 3 in Singles & Dating

I only like the missionary position. My girlfriend is perfectly happy with it but I wonder if it makes me a boring lover. So how many different positions to people use regularly and what are girls' favourites (guys can answer fro their girls)

2006-11-15 12:36:10 · 17 answers · asked by superscorer2003 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married and right now I don't feel settled in my life.

Both my husband and I work very hard and we are living with his family until we relocate.

I feel like a fish out of water because I don't have my own place, I LOVE to entertain and cook and practice hospitality.

My husband does try his best but I have to work in order for us to eat and it takes two income not out of lavishness and extravagance but out of pure neccessity.

January we relocate, what is the best way to make the best of feeling uprooted? I don't feel safe and secure and I have been irritable lately.

I know the marraige vows say for better for worse for richer and poorer in sickness and in health,but sometimes
it is really hard.

2006-11-15 12:35:49 · 3 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Marriage & Divorce

have ever smelled???

2006-11-15 12:33:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but when an older woman has a much younger boyfriend, their relationship is constantly judged and frowned on. Why is that?

2006-11-15 12:33:11 · 2 answers · asked by txflowerblossom 3 in Singles & Dating

There is a guy in my school that I like and his name is John. He called me ugly twice but after that he stopped.He always finds some excuse to mess with me, even if its stupid or not. For example, on Friday he asked me where I was from and on thursday he was joking around with one of his friends and he said that I took his friend's jacket (as a joke). Whenever I see him, hes usually looking at me and smiling and talking to his friends at the same time. Yesterday he was across the street from me and he was staring at me pratically.He came to the park yesterday and was near me.Today my friends gave him my myspace and they told me that he ripped it. And then he was looking for me but he couldn't find me. It seems that he does and then it seems as if he doesn't. WHAT IS GOING ON?Does he like me? Thanks!

2006-11-15 12:31:40 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love him completely, we have known each other since May 2003. His ex really f'''d up his life. We had a really good start to our relationship, I then became ill and he resigned from his business partnership... I am now in a good job and have bought my own place, he is now on the up in his consultancy... I want to have a warm and physical, relationship, but he has become scared of anything physical. He hates me being let down by this and has opened up on occasion. He seems to get his happines from committing to his new business enterprise, his winter activities and his girls, who I have to agree, are the best! He says I deserve better... I say WE deserve better. I understand the need for friendship, but for soo long I thought we had more, and physically for a while we did. I noticed when I used his computer the other day his history had over 300 hits to specific sites, this has left me feeling low in self confidence... He good at putting his head in the sand.. What do I do???

2006-11-15 12:31:38 · 47 answers · asked by wifieinstrife 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend has seen them at Spensers which gives me some idea that maybe they are legal to buy at a lower age then 18. Does anyone have any idea what age you have to be to buy any kind of sex toys (Vibrators and sexual stimulants in general)

2006-11-15 12:31:25 · 19 answers · asked by Babo C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 12:30:23 · 22 answers · asked by candy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 12:30:02 · 14 answers · asked by sandradmoore@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

my X and i broke up about 3 weeks ago and like hes unhappy and i want to show him hoq much i love and care for him!!! i want to show him he can have a hhappy life with me and i just need help and im 14 years old and im in 9th grade so will someone help me!?

2006-11-15 12:29:55 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Jessie♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

why do blokes do it say hurtful things or cheat, or dont care bout your feelings only think bout their lil friend in their trousers, y do they do it, it really hurts i have yet to find a genuine bloke. please help

2006-11-15 12:29:27 · 4 answers · asked by tamzynsian 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Also,We never dance together, which songs are best for slow dancing? please help.

2006-11-15 12:29:24 · 7 answers · asked by NB_VN 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a guy and i am in 9th grade. I am a real shy person that all the freinds i have are guys. i have never had freinds that are girls and i dont know why. i am a little over wieght. i want to get techniques from you people on how i can do it so i have more freinds that are girls. in school i do to talk to girls but like when they need help or something or i ask them something but it doesnt go far beyond that. i want advice on how to get girl's telephone numbers or at least just be freinds with girls. please help.

2006-11-15 12:28:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay..i been going out with do0ode for like 3 weeks now..i like him, i mena he treats me rite and all but i alwaiz get this bad feeling that tells me that i should break up with him..what am i to do...go with my inner thoughts or my love feelings.

2006-11-15 12:27:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know my family doesn't want me too but i want to move in with my bf and his mum and dad.. he is 19

2006-11-15 12:27:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 12:27:13 · 2 answers · asked by Carli C 1 in Singles & Dating

I am repeating because some people didn't get the questions. This is not about reconciling. This is about whether to FILE now or not.
Everyone I talk with about this has an agenda so I am asking complete strangers for neutral thoughts on this issue. Wow!
Should I file for divorce or are the benefits worth it?
If I file, I lose all health insurance, life insurance and pension rights if something happens to him. He is now paying the mortgage (almost $2000) and all of the tuition for the two kids ($1800) without an argument. He left me and is involved with another woman so it feels that by not filing I am saying that it is OK. My son has cerebral palsy. One marriage is enough so I am not looking to marry again. Any thoughts?

I would like to hear from people with experience. Thanks

2006-11-15 12:26:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so my brother is 17 almost 18 and i dont think he has ever been on a date in his life. he is a little over weight but hes a really nice guy and hes really shy. i want to help to get him out of his shell. i know that if maybe he wasn't so shy and if he lost a little weight he would be a ladies man. haha. but i honestly don't know what to do. got any tips?

2006-11-15 12:25:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so my best friend, KK likes this guy named nick. ive alwys thought nick was kinda cute but i nver really new him.. so KK introduced me 2 him just last week! he was really nice & me and kk have been talking with him on the phone [3-way] for at least 3 days now. but on the phone, i don't relly tlk that much, i juss hear them talkin 2 eachother :) & thers nuthin wrong w/ that.. i actully enjoy listening to their convo. but kk told me today that she liked him...like "like him, like him" but the thing is, i kinda like him 2 just not as much as she does..but still, a little bit. but i HAD 2 support her since shes my bff and all..so i said wut the heck u should go for it...he'll probably like u 2! at 1st she was hesitant & didnt realyy wanna do it but after 5 mins of convincing she asked ME 2ask him if he likes her..i was sure he was gonna say "just as a friend.." but he said, "i like her 2.. && he agreed 2 ask her out 2morrow!! agh i dont know wut 2 do. i dunt wanna b jealous but yea i am

2006-11-15 12:25:14 · 6 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Singles & Dating

i got accepted into a really great school.......but should i go???? i have all my friends here and a boyfriend should i leave it all behind??????i dont want to....i really need advice!!!!!!!

2006-11-15 12:24:39 · 19 answers · asked by °~°sØccer_GÏrl°~° 1 in Singles & Dating