Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

what part would you change. No "be happy with what you have" answers please!!!

2006-11-15 13:20:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

http://www.petitionspot.com/petitions/nomoremarra please sign this petition to help out my friend's school!!!! No signup needed and doing this can save aschool from shutting down (a result of loss of students)

2006-11-15 13:19:16 · 2 answers · asked by Moody R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 13:19:05 · 7 answers · asked by sweet lovely02 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been together for 4 years. i had a suprise party last year... he really doesnt have many friends! lol.

2006-11-15 13:18:52 · 7 answers · asked by LaUrEn 1 in Singles & Dating

As a parent of a teenager, it seems the older he gets, I find parenting to be a painful experience. As he's gotten older he wants to spend less and less w/me, and to be quite honest, sometimes he's just downright mean. I know that this is something that comes in teenage years (we were all one at one time). I guess now it's alot easier to understand what my parents went through to raise their family!!! Sometimes its just so hard to heart wrenching to sit back , and have to watch him struggle w/ 'finding himself'. I guess as a parent, the last thing anyone wants to do is see their children hurt or troubled. Does anyone else out there have similar feelings?

2006-11-15 13:18:34 · 7 answers · asked by vaasam 2 in Family

Ok this is how it started...I had asked my ex, who is the father of my 3 children (who are under the age of 3yrs), why he wasn't helping me out like he used too, as far as groceries and stuff. His comment was "because my parents told me not to help you out that much" (as if they were helping me, huh yea right!) Well the following day I was still pretty pissed off, anyways he was on the phone with his mom saying that I was arguing with him cause he only bought $30 worth of groceries when he knows that kids eat alot, they're growing kids who eat all the time! So his mom was like "well then don't do nothing for her at all, if she needs something tell her NO" ..So I said "F*uck that b*tch" ..and she heard me. I was just so upset that she would tell her own son not to help out her only grandchildren, that I reacted and said them words...Should I apologize to her and if so, how do I even bring it up cause I'm not allowed to call her house...

2006-11-15 13:18:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently, I have moved to a new town and a guy has started persuing me. He calls, comes over, and says he has feelings for me. This has been going on for the past month. The thing is, he's black and I'm white. I've never dated anyone outside my race, and I like this guy BUT everything I can find on interracial dating seems to say that black guys only want to date white girls for bragging rights. Is this true? Can a black guy be interested in a white girl for more than just being white? Am I going to be hated by all the black girls (something someone said would happen)?

2006-11-15 13:18:32 · 7 answers · asked by jeepchick54 1 in Singles & Dating

When you like a boy they never like you back but when someone likes you, you never like them back ? it may sound confusing but people who know what im talking about will understand and if you have can u give me some advise ? thnx

2006-11-15 13:17:57 · 15 answers · asked by i_fly_high_im_ballin 1 in Singles & Dating

I know the most amazing woman in the world. She is beautiful, smart, and funny. Problem is that she is with a guy that treats her horribly. For example, he dropped his olive on the floor and was embarassed, so he picked it up and made her eat it in front of everyone so it would take away his embarrassment. When I talk to her I am shy and can't seem to approach her and she seems to love him.... do I just leave things as they are, or do I say what I feel?

2006-11-15 13:17:48 · 10 answers · asked by Lost 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know why.

2006-11-15 13:16:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Get a vocabulary! Or perhaps.......intelligence!

2006-11-15 13:16:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If u want to just add me to ur messenger. Im kinda tired of talkin to the same ppl. So if u want to just add me. Or email me if u dont have messenger. Im lookin to mix it up. The info on me is in my profile.
~*Jake*~

2006-11-15 13:16:09 · 3 answers · asked by The Jake 1 in Friends

my friend has liked me for a while and he has string feelings for me and he's in love with me. for my birthday he gave me a hershey kissess and 35 cents but he said that's all he had and for his b-day i gave him a bond braclet he thought it was cool of me. plus he wrote a note saying it would be good if we went together and he said i'm finer than my friend. once he asked me to go ice skating with him well that's when we went on this senior feild trip and he was trying to impress me with this street fighter game and he said" move over kid i'm a show you how i play the game" then he told me to hold his quarters. well he was in a relationship with his ex and they broke up 2 months ago & well he talks to her & stuff and she told him she loved him and i went to his myspace page today and he changed his deatails to single and the blog he posted saying till i go see his ex girlfriend he changed it to till enable java scrpit. why do you think he changed it. he was going to go see her in dec.

2006-11-15 13:15:42 · 1 answers · asked by marcyknndy 1 in Friends

It sounds strange, but I just helped someone with a refinance, who gave up hope, and planned to give up her house due to her divorce. She had bad credit and thought It could never happen. I was so excited to make it happen for her. I not only did my job, but helped a human being. I want to find more people who need help with refinance and are in need. It was a nice feeling. So, why do I care? I'm going through a divorce too, so I knew exactly how she was feeling. Thoughts?

2006-11-15 13:15:37 · 7 answers · asked by Herb S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 13:14:45 · 3 answers · asked by alice_chicana 1 in Weddings

My fiance is no good, selfish, and offer no moral, emotional, or financial support for me. I am thinking it would be best to have an abortion so that I don't have to deal with this man anymore and bear the immense burden of raising a child with a dead-beat father.

2006-11-15 13:13:23 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't belong to any specific church and I would like to know if there are certain ones that will NOT marry us because we live together.

2006-11-15 13:12:40 · 7 answers · asked by ashann85 2 in Weddings

2006-11-15 13:12:26 · 27 answers · asked by Francesco 1 in Singles & Dating

So, im going to my boyfriend's sister's wedding this winter and I dont know what to wear. I know what to wear to a traditional spring or summer wedding, but this is different. The wedding will be fairly small and not traditional at all. As far as I understand, she wont be in a wedding dress and the bridesmaids wont be wearing dresses... so, im confused about what to wear. any suggestions for a winter, non-traditional wedding (ps..its in idaho so it'll be cold there)

2006-11-15 13:09:49 · 14 answers · asked by now but not quite yet 2 in Weddings

I have the best bf but I dont get very much allowance.He gets me the best stuff.What can I make him.

2006-11-15 13:09:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Gals - Ever done either of these? How was your first time?

2006-11-15 13:09:33 · 5 answers · asked by Jim C 5 in Singles & Dating

I've got a 6 page research paper due in 3 hours and I haven't started yet. Am I screwed or am I SCREWED?
let me hear what u think :)

2006-11-15 13:09:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-15 13:08:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At the local weight lifting/exercise gym i hopped into the gang shower after the workout and there was this guy in there..it looked like he had genital warts and herpes and some kind of rash on his butt. Also, this big mole on his back and he wasn't circumcised and I'm not used to seeing that. I couldn't help but keep staring at him. He looked at me with this weird face but I just kept staring. I was thinking...man this looks really bad...He complained to the manager and I was suspended for a week.

2006-11-15 13:08:06 · 8 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Friends

Please choose ONE of the following.

1. You like men who depend on you for cooking
2. You like men who are just as good as you but not better
3. You like men who can teach you a thing or two about cooking.

Also mention if your choice is a deal breaker or not.

2006-11-15 13:07:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok! yesterday, I told my crush what I felt about him! And today his msn name said that a year has gone by! And then it all came into place....his dad died last year! Should I leave my crush alone because he is probably grieving right now or, should I talk to him about his dad, what should I do?

2006-11-15 13:07:40 · 11 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Singles & Dating

Today is Wed. and I leave Friday to head to his house for the weekend. I need to talk to him about me finding my own apartment. Originally we had decided that I would just move in with him in January but I am beginning to think that it would be in everyones best interest if I didn't. Its not that I want to break up or anything I just think that we should build more as a couple before we make such a huge step. Right now I live about 5 hours away from him so we talk everyday on the phone and I visit about every three weeks. Should I talk to him on the phone about this or should I wait until Friday and talk to him when I get there? I really need some feedback , thanks so much? ~ Rae

2006-11-15 13:07:35 · 5 answers · asked by rae 2 in Singles & Dating

well i like her and she likes me back. we've been too shy to tell each other i don't think she knows i like her. then the other day i find out she's moving and getting transfered to another school. what do i do? i really like her but just don't know what to do

2006-11-15 13:07:29 · 5 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

How come some people can just cut off all contact from you completely? I don't get it? How do they do that? It's like your driving and you hit a brick wall and BAMM no more communication nor contact what so ever? It's not even a gradual decline in a friendship. It's just WHAMM BAMM it's over man! I just don't get it.

2006-11-15 13:07:03 · 2 answers · asked by starz 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to be rude and just tell him, i don't know how to make him understand we're just friends.

2006-11-15 13:06:38 · 20 answers · asked by anna c 1 in Singles & Dating