I don't want to be rude and just tell him, i don't know how to make him understand we're just friends.
2006-11-15 13:06:38 · 20 answers · asked by anna c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him up front so he doesn't get sore behind .If he can't respect you hes not the person for you. Don't get caught in something youe not ready for or don't feel comfortable with. Good Luck .
2006-11-15 13:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by joannaduplessis@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what you want out of the 'date'. A free meal?
There are two things a guy might want. A girlfriend or sex, or both.
You better figure out what you want and what you have to offer the guy, otherwise all you are going to get out of it is drama and confusion.
2006-11-15 21:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just telling him is not rude. It's never rude to voice your expectations and requests. You can be polite and tell him that you don't want a commitment and you are just having fun.
2006-11-15 21:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure that's possible!! Best to make sure you don't give him the wrong idea make it clear from the start. If you're gonna go out with him make sure there's someone else with you, don't go to romantic places like a nice restaurant or dark cinema!!! But words may well be your best bet so he doesn't get the wrong impression...
2006-11-15 21:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by honeypot56000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not rude to say you don't want this to get too serious.
You want to see other people and it's OK if he does too.
He'll understand & if he wants more than he has a decision to make.
2006-11-15 21:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its cause now, a girl and a guy cant play together without being bfs and gfs
2006-11-15 21:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Yasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you ma have to either tell him how you feel or just back away a little. He will soon get the hint.
2006-11-15 21:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically you are asking why he is tolerating you using him. You like the perks but being a "user" is degrading and you won't like yourself. You can't just "date". Every potential DATE is a potential MATE. Don't lead him on...............freak.
2006-11-15 21:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by WDS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you just want to be friends why would you want to date him? i mean i understand dating before making it official. but not dating to simply be friends
2006-11-15 21:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you dont want to be his gf, just friends with benefits or whatever you're pulling, be rude and tell him
2006-11-15 21:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by Mooshak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋