Soo my crush just turned 19. And he's been calling me, and talking to me a lot more than usual. I'm 15. And i don't know what I should do. He told me he loved me the other day and I laughed. He said a lot of other things like, if we were dating what he'd do. If hes 19, legal, and im 15, underage, isn't that considered like rape?
2006-11-15 12:39:10 · 14 answers · asked by xorenée 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not going to do anything with him, Just curious to what would happen.
2006-11-15 12:51:06 · update #1
Yes it is under the law of the land, statutory if you really want to know. 1st he better watch out because if you 2 are having sex and you get pregnant he could go to jail and maybe get sometime and then on top of that he Will have to register for the rest of his life as a sex offender, so the 2 of you better think what will happen.
2006-11-15 12:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by get the facts right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, that is considered statutory rape even if it was consentual. If you say no, that is rape which is more time for the guy. My advice, having a relationship does not have to have sex in it. He sounds like he just wants one thing from you. If he really loves you, he'll wait. Remember, it's rape.
2006-11-15 20:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, well would you date an 11 year old? Ok, I know you say that's gross, but aside from that, think about WHY you would want to date an 11 yr old. What does a 19 yr old want with a 15 yr old. Nothing against you or your age, but I don't know a single 19 yr old, girl or guy, who would want to date a 15 yr old. He wants fresh meat, a virgin. There are a lot of guys who only have sex with virgins. If this would be your first, PLEASE don't let it be him. Of course he's hot, he's older. But don't!
2006-11-15 20:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what state your in,but in most states its 16,and a few 18,yes it would be considered rape. Why don't you think things over,guys like having girls they can fool with,doesn't exactly come out to them, truly meaning their words. Your young,any decision you make,make sure its right. Alot of people regret things,live life with no regrets.
Besides you can have sex with him,and the men in jail can have sex with him too,be smart about. If he was truly an adult he'd real ize he was messing with jailbate
2006-11-15 20:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is called statutory rape...and yes it is a form of rape. That is if you two have sex. I am a little skeptically that his feelings are genuine for you simply because you say hes talking to you about what he wants to do to you...If this guy really liked you and wanted to be with you for genuine reasons then he wouldn't be doing that it sounds like he wants to get some...and that's kind of sick considering he knows it's wrong.
2006-11-15 20:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by thereis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 15 this is my mom user name! ok yea he is 19 wich is nat a legal age to be dating a 15 year old! and is consider stachatory rap! and if your parents do not know and find out he could be charged for rap!
2006-11-15 20:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by Crissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is considered statutory rape - if you guys have sex.
You know, it is possible to date without having sex :)
You guys could wait three years!!!
2006-11-15 20:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can be rape.Your parents can prosecute.19 year olds are thinkin way different than 15 year olds.
2006-11-15 20:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by migamw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he has to perform the actual rape in order for it to be rape..your too young anyway, thats likely ALL hes after !!! tell him to get lost,if he keeps contacting you,have him charged with sexual harrassment !!!! take care.
2006-11-15 20:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's considered illegal. it's called statutory rape and he could go to jail. Better not mess with him.
2006-11-15 20:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋