I'M REALLY CONFUSED...I DON'T KNOw WHAT TO DO.....PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

There is a guy in my school that I like and his name is John. He called me ugly twice but after that he stopped.He always finds some excuse to mess with me, even if its stupid or not. For example, on Friday he asked me where I was from and on thursday he was joking around with one of his friends and he said that I took his friend's jacket (as a joke). Whenever I see him, hes usually looking at me and smiling and talking to his friends at the same time. Yesterday he was across the street from me and he was staring at me pratically.He came to the park yesterday and was near me.Today my friends gave him my myspace and they told me that he ripped it. And then he was looking for me but he couldn't find me. It seems that he does and then it seems as if he doesn't. WHAT IS GOING ON?Does he like me? Thanks!

I asked this question before but I didn't get good answers:)

Answer 1

yes he does! But u have to remember he is a teenage boy and there not so good at expressing how they feel especially with his friends around. luv xx kh

Answer 2

YES he does like you. The only way he can show it by picking on you, most guys are immature and instead of them coming out and saying they like you, they tease you instead. He probably doesn't know how to talk to girls or he's scared and he doesn't want you or anyone else to know that he likes you. He might want to be in control of his feelings and everything, that has happened to me in school about a guy that picked on me and I thought he hated me and I didn't find out he liked me until a few years later. So, my advice is to you if you like this guy try to go up to him and talk to him, break the ice and if you are afraid to have a friend talk to him for you, I would say you can write him a note, but, if he's like you say he might tear it up, so, maybe you can use my other suggestions or make gestures at him like stare at him, smile at him, wave at him or eye contact where he would know you are interested in him. They always say the look, because, you could never say the wrong thing with the look! I hope I was able to help you out! Good Luck!

Answer 3

Darling, you have posted this question 59 TIMES. I think you just haven't gotten the answer you are looking for. Why don't you tell us what you what us to say, and just save the space for someone who really needs our help? Cause 59 times is ridiculous. Have you been checked for OCD? If not I suggest a visit to the doctor. Good luck! And no one likes someone who keeps asking the same stupid question after same stupid question and rejecting the good advise you got on all 59 questions.

Answer 4

hmm you know i'd feel the same way right now. i mean i've had guys before like call me ugly but thats their way of flirting. i mean if dey start to teas you or say something to you they usually wait for you to response so they can start flirting. and i also think he's playing hard to get. he probably wants you to make the first move, like adding him on myspace. hmm these simple moves are ok for you to do..but let him do the rest like ask you out or something. but NEVER expect anything from this guy because from what i see he CANT make up his mind :D .. let him stare and smile ... if i were you ... play hard to get with this guy and i bet he'll give up and hopefully give u signs if he likes you or not ;) ... just dont expect anything for now :D .. have fun with him staring at you and exchange smiles with him..you never know what might happen if you show him that sweet smile of urs ;) trust me..a girls smile is what gets the guys the most :D

Answer 5

Okay we have a lot in common! This guy in school did that to me a lot. But one of his friends is my friend and he tries to calm him down a notch. Maybe you should get a connection with one of his friends (of course this friend of his has known me for 2 years). But sometime later somebody told me that he liked me and then he started trying to get away from me like he feared me. Try lying to him that somebody told you that but dont wait for hus response just walk away. Later, he was his mean old self again. One day we met in this thing called clubpenguin. I had told him my username because he had one. He told me he really liked me and he was sorry forall that he did. Then he was really secretive. You should talk to him but not to his face. You should go in some type of chatroom and if this guy is sensitive he'll tell you. Make sure its on a Friday so you wont have to face him the next day. Or go out with some other guy John will get jelous and he'll confess sooner or later. But the guy I'm talking about, I didnt like him like him. If John is mean he doesnt deserve you.

Answer 6

Ok, if he does like you he has the maturity level of an eight year old, the age where boys push girls down on the playground. Don't even mess with him. Even if he does like you, imagine what else he would be immature about. Are we talking about burping and farting jokes, do you want that? This guy seems like an idiot. Find someone else.

Answer 7

Honey Girl....Men that mess around like this are a pain in the a$$ so just move on...if he likes you it will drive him mad and if he doesn't then you are all set up now aren't you? You need to make him confused....remember that......... always keep the upper hand and only be with people who like you more than you like them....doesn't hurt when it ends and if you go for the long haul it will be so much better to be 'worshiped' instead of being the ''worshiper"

Answer 8

It seems like he does. The problem is, is that he is not clear about what you think of him. When it seems like he is trying to get your attention your not giving it, so when your friends went up to him, he probly thought it was a joke and they were trying to make a fool out of him, so he didn't take the bait. If you really want to know what's going on, be the bigger person and go ask him what's up.

Answer 9

Of course he likes you everything you said points to that...it's obvious.
Take him aside alone and talk honestly with him about what you want and then let him respond.
LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO MUCK AROUND... if I was in school again I would do it different and be more confident of myself.
SORT HIM OUT AND STICK TO THE TRUTH.
Good Luck I know your on a winner.

Answer 10

Boys can be really immature when they want to get a girl. If I were you, I'd ignore him. Boys seem to like girls who act hard to get. Don't bother yourself over him and if he teases you or does something else just turn away and talk to someone else. He'll sense that you're not interested and try even harder to catch your attention. I have a feeling he likes you.