i got accepted into a really great school.......but should i go???? i have all my friends here and a boyfriend should i leave it all behind??????i dont want to....i really need advice!!!!!!!
2006-11-15 12:24:39 · 19 answers · asked by °~°sØccer_GÏrl°~° 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need an education. You can find and make new friends. If you don't think you can, that's all the more reason why you need to go to the better school. It's about life and growing up. Don't be a child all your life.
2006-11-15 12:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to school. This is something that everyone who goes away to school goes through. Yes, there will be some friendships that will dissolve over the years you're gone, and chances are, the relationship with the boyfriend will too, but the true, strong friendships will stay, and you will meet SO MANY new friends that will be with you for LIFE! I promise--you will remember your college years as some of the best years of your life. I still miss my college days, and I'm still great friends with the friends I made there.
2006-11-15 20:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey , something like this does not happen every day to get accepted into a great school !you still have your whole live ahead of you and so many things will change !Go for your education and make something good out of yourself !
Friends come and go ! The true ones will be with you no matter what
2006-11-15 20:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is your future we're talking about. Go to school. Keep in contact with your friends and boyfriend. Don't throw away a potentially great future for people who MAY ( and I only say MAY) not be there in the long run. Congrats on your acceptance.
2006-11-15 20:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by PisceKween 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious you wanted to go to the "great new school" or otherwise you wouldn't of applied so, I say go...nothing stopping you.
Friends will come & go but only some will last a lifetime.
Remember nothing lasts forever.
YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE AND WHY NOT TAKE SOME RISKS.
Good luck at the new school.
Prioritise...education and family comes first not friends and boyfriend.
2006-11-15 20:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to school. Your friends will still be there and so will your boyfriend. If any for some reason they're not when you come home for break they weren't your friends. anyway. Besides the experiences you will have are MORE than worth it. New friends, new experiences, new challenges, and the opportunity to find out who you really are. Do NOT turn down the chance to go away to school. You will regret it if you do.
2006-11-15 20:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, It is a very tough desicion. Your friends you'll always make more and never lose your friendship with them and can always call and IM and visit. Your boyfriend...u can try a long distance relationship but it might not work. But you have your whole life ahead of you...you'll meet new friends and keep old ones and you'll have different boyfriends. But going to a new school (i'm guessing college?) can change your life...I say YES
2006-11-15 20:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by Got_a_question? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because it's a GREAT school doesn't mean it's a great school for YOU. If you don't want to go then don't. Do what makes you feel comfortable. You can always transfer if you decide you wanna do later on down the road. Good Luck!
2006-11-15 20:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by Brandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great friends do produce great memories, but great memories do not give you a good job, put money down on a house. Go to school, get an education...
2006-11-15 20:28:29 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may not be applicable to you.. Or you've never even thought about it before.. But my advice to you would be to pray.. Pray that God will help you..
Its truly up to you.. whatever you feel to do.. you can always move back to the other school right? You can make more friends at the new school.. then if you dont like it.. you can move back.. if its okay with your parents.. if not, then I'd stay at the school you are at.
If you have friends... and like your school.. then stay.. But Pray about it first..... Thats my advice...
Hope that helps
2006-11-15 20:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋