Now he'll have to pay late fee, Should i tell him ? How might he react to this ?
2006-11-15 12:37:02 · 16 answers · asked by lady F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are too scare of your boyfriend. Always remember, where there's love there's only love....there's no room for prevarication or fear. Tell him the truth. If he loves you, he won't get mad.
"Where there's love, there's only love"
2006-11-15 12:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Razor 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with him... tell him you lost the bills then found them.. offer to pay the late fees... but it's good to let him know, because he'll probably get a nasty check mark somewhere for the late fees, so it's good for him to know that this has happened..
hopefully he'll be loving and understanding and won't be too upset with you..
only major consequence is that he won't trust you to pay bills anymore.. lol
2006-11-15 12:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just pay the bills and the late fee, you lost the bills, take some responsibility here. God bless*
2006-11-15 12:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well we know who is not very responsible! If you really like this guy you may want to tell him that you messed up and didn't pay his bills on time and while you are at it, you may want to offer to pay the late fees if you want to stay in good favor with him. Unless you've already lied about the whole thing?????? Which is why you are asking right?
2006-11-15 12:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell him about it, AND you should pay the late fees...it was your mistake...he trusted you to do this for him, and if you DON'T tell him, he will find out anyway from his next billing statement. Just tell him the truth, offer to pay the late fees, and apologize. He will likely be less mad if he hears it from you first.
2006-11-15 12:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know so that way he will know he will have to pay the late charges. If he trusts you again to pay any of his bills, put it in an old purse or something and keep it in a spot where you would be able to see the purse to remind you of it. That's what I do with my bills that need to be paid.
2006-11-15 12:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be honest with him. he is going to be mad, but you will destroy his trust completely if you don't tell him asap!
i like what pearl said, you need to know how he will handle this stuff so that you know if you can handle marrying him! oh yeah! so true!!! cause we all screw up sometime!!!
also, i suggest working to pay the late fees for him. or perhaps you can call and try to get the late fees taken off. just TRY!!! and see what you can do. a lot of times a simple call can take care of late fees especially when it hasn't happened before. you can try calling yourself, but often times they will not talk to you if your name isn't on the account. but do try to get the charges removed FOR him. that is more responsible.
2006-11-15 12:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the bills and you need to pay the late fees...he shouldn't be expected to pay for your mistake.
2006-11-15 12:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why are you expected to pay his bills. He should take responsibility for getting his own bills paid on time.
2006-11-15 12:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by Country girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll react the way he always reacts when something has become a nuisance.
2006-11-15 12:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the truth. It's good to know how a person reacts to things like this in case you decide to marry him.
2006-11-15 12:38:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋