I am a guy and i am in 9th grade. I am a real shy person that all the freinds i have are guys. i have never had freinds that are girls and i dont know why. i am a little over wieght. i want to get techniques from you people on how i can do it so i have more freinds that are girls. in school i do to talk to girls but like when they need help or something or i ask them something but it doesnt go far beyond that. i want advice on how to get girl's telephone numbers or at least just be freinds with girls. please help.
2006-11-15 12:28:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
join groups or clubs after school insted of being on the pc or netendo
2006-11-15 12:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Alex, the 9th grade can be a very troubling time, being between Mid and High Schools. I do feel for you. Here's my pointers, OK?
1. Be very confident in yourself. Girls love to see a guy with self-confidence, at any age. Uh, can you do something, ANYTHING--in front of the gals, which would convey this attitude?
~~(I have a talent for catching things thrown high into the air, the Jr. Hi gals loved it, watching me casually catch stuff thrown so hi)
just an example....
2. If you are overweight, then make some overt (noticable, shown-0ff) effort to lose some of it, to get slimmer~~girls fall for guys who take a challenge, and achieve it!! Especially this one!
3. Alex, why are you so shy? Do you have the chance to ask either local, neighborhood girls, OR, close girl friends, in some class, that you can ask to help YOU to understand that class???
(((notice, you don't help them with the class, they must help U!)))
4. Finally, begin now to think "SEXY". You are sexy. YOU are sexual, and desirable. Think, act, and believe yourself to be a sexual being, exuding sex, and demonstrating your masculinity, OVERTLY!!
Best of Luck, Bro!
2006-11-15 12:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha how cute. just be nice and kind to them. start little conversations here and there with girls at school and hopefully you'll find a girl willing to conversate back with you both find interesting and relate to each other. dont be afraid to ever give a girl a smile or a friendly hello. there's no hurt to it and girls think it's nice, but dont be creepy about it where you look desperate. Conversation wise, start out with small things like what you think about the class you're in or make a comment about homework in class or something; if the girl is nice, she'll make a comment on your comment by agreeing or disagreeing with you. Or something random like how stupid the weather is. but mainly, dont be scared to give a "hey what's up" here and there.
good luck.
PEACE
2006-11-15 12:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by kay.ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show them that you feel confortable around them. Make them feel like you treat them just as you would any one of your male friends, (without making all the nasty jokes). Also, maybe if you open up to them first, and ask them questions or opinions about things, they will open up to you. Dont give up trying. Its hard at first to get acquainted with us girls, but it gets better and easier after a while. Mainly try to feel comfortable first. Good luck.
2006-11-15 12:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo User 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend lots of money on them. Buy them food and presents. That's what girls like, a guy that will spend money on them.
2006-11-15 12:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never had that much girl friends, till I was senior year so take your time and learn. Just go say hi to one of them
2006-11-15 13:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice ,try to understand there problems, and be funny.
2006-11-15 12:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by sandradmoore@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to over come ur shyness were gurls we dont bite
2006-11-15 12:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by CHRISTINA Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them like they are people, and listen to what they have to say, and don't rush into anything.
2006-11-15 12:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by dahorndogd013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act gay, they will love you, and you will have all the girl "friends" you want
2006-11-15 12:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋