This is a hypothetical question. I would appreciate your opinions and your ethical reasons
Thank you.
2006-11-15 12:14:00 · 20 answers · asked by toietmoi 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
HECK YEAH!
nah i would just go up to my father & tell him to tell my mom cuz i wouldn`t wanna hide that from my mom & then if he doesn`t tell i would tell her but that would make things BAD between my father & i. but he was the one who had the affair.
so i would :
give him time & if he doesn`t tell then i WOULD tell.
2006-11-15 12:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Then I'd watch the fun as he tries to talk his way out of something that never happened. His confusion would reach a level of tragi-comedy that would make me both laugh and cry really hard at the same moment. If my mom and dad were alive, yes! I would definitely tell her he was having an affair. She and I would both know I was doing it for fun. He would figure that out when she and I couldn't stop laughing.
2006-11-15 20:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. I would talk to my father and tell him to make a decision, either end it with the other woman or with mum.
This is not hypothetical for me ... I discovered my dad was having an affair 7 years ago and confronted him. He made the decision to end it and stay with my mother. We then discovered that mum already knew about it.
2006-11-15 20:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes,no hesitation,even if it was my mum having an affair.....(i know it is a hypothetical question,but women have affairs to ya know!)
2006-11-16 06:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to the said person first.
You might otherwise be responsible for the break up of your family and either one of them might hold resentment even though the affair itself was not your fault.
2006-11-15 21:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by The Mole 2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i would!!i knew someone who knew their father was having an affair and said nothing to their mother but i could not live this lie!!there is no way my parents would cheat on one another thank god..but i would not keep it secret if i knew!!x
2006-11-15 21:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife had an affaire and my 2 kids new and never told me.
2006-11-15 20:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually I've been there before on Friday Jan 13th of this year and I didn't tell my mom because I didn't want to believe it myself, I wanted us to be the perfect little family like we used to be . . . . I had told my older brother and he confronted my dad abotu it but my dad lied and lied that he wasn't doing it he looked into our eyes and lied to our faces.. and on the day that my mom did catch him I told my mom everything i knew right in front of him and he straight out called me a liar, he would rather save his butt and call his own teenaged daughter a liar than to admit what he did...
2006-11-15 21:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would confront the dad and let him know you know, give him a chance to come clean with the mom. If he doesn't, I would definitely squeal. If the dad gets mad, that's his problem, that's your mom man and if your dads not gonna take care and look out for her like he's supposed to, someones got to step up.
2006-11-15 20:19:43 · answer #9 · answered by melody g 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to my father first. if he keep seeing the other person then i would tell my mother.
2006-11-15 20:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by mike n 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋