Let me just say that I am a girl of few so please do not take this in the wrong way. I am 16 by the way.
Today, I was asked out by my ex(a friend now)and I said no. The reason we broke up in the first place was(I broke up with him)I thought that he was using me to get another girl. I don't think that anymore but I cried my eyes out for like 3 hours the night that we broke up. I really want to got out with him but I don't wanna get hurt like last time. Please give me some tips to help me figure this out.
2006-11-15 12:14:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then just be friends but I'm wondering what kind of friend would use you in the first place
2006-11-15 12:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still think that he's trying to use you? You say he's a friend now. Maybe what you should do is sit down with him and just tell him exactly how you feel, and what you're afraid of. Tell him you do still have feelings for him, and therefore to please not ask you out if there is any motive other than wanting to be with you. If he is a good friend to you, then he'll care about your feelings. I hope things work out for you. Getting hurt in love is the worst feeling, but unfortunately, it happens to us all--and usually more than once. Chances are you probably will go through a few more painful breakups before you meet the right guy. It's one of those things that we all need to endure.
2006-11-15 20:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jess H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you'll only go out with you if he promises to not hurt you...and to be totally honest with you. You may break up eventually but tell him to be honest with you all the time..weather that means break-up or he loves you. Let him no you don't want to be hurt...if he really cares about you he will do anything for you.
2006-11-15 20:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by Got_a_question? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing is to let go of him ! this is hard to do letting go , but in the end it's better . find another cute nice guy to go out with and you'll be ok .
2006-11-15 20:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl 4 get his sorry butt he he have fun with that
2006-11-15 20:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by ROCKSTAR IN LOVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blah blah blah shut the f**k up!
2006-11-15 20:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by Emo_Gurl™ 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋