so there's this guy from last year who was in like 3 of my classes and i started flirting with him and he thought i was stalking him and all this crap and now he talks to my friends and tries to tell them crap(that isn't true) about me... what do i do........
2006-11-15 12:12:40 · 8 answers · asked by las_vegas_is_the_place 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk sh!t about him i had the same problem but he apolagized.Make up lies about him you know.P.S Do u live in vegas cuz i do my email is mariananvegas@yahoo.com
Im in middle school!
2006-11-15 13:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so awful! Rumours are hurtful and ugly.
If he knows that his antics are working, he'll keep doing it. If you say anything to him, you'll only fuel the fire.
Okay - this is hard to do, but is what I'm suggesting. Don't bring up his name or the subject of him in conversation. If someone else brings him up, say that he's spreading lies about you and it's upsetting and you don't want his name mentioned. If they try to get you to talk about "what lies" or "why" or whatever, simply repeat to them that you do not want to talk about it. If someone comes to you and tells you that the guy has said something, tell them it's not true, and then move the conversation on to something else.
You'll have to do this, oh, about a billion times - the gossip mill will eventually run out of fuel from you and move on to somebody else.
Wow - good thing you didn't actually date this guy! Could you imagine?!
2006-11-15 20:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by majorquota 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that he's dumb enough to realize that the purpose of you flirting is to attract him... I beleive that he is spreading bad rumors around about you because "he does not like you in a sense that he may think that by scarring you off...that you would eventually be pissed off"
> I would never fight back because it may look like "you are defending yourself" when you have done nothing wrong. So don't fight back and just be yourself...he may be purposely waiting for you to fire back at him...so don't get angry..and don't look embarressed too..because you did nothing wrong..he should have nothing to prove himself right.
If someone asks you if what that guy is saying is true..just laugh and say.."oh, he's just trying to make me angry at him..he likes the attention"...when that guy hears you...he may stop..or continue doing other things
BE PATIENT..YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE
2006-11-15 20:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront the guy and tell him that you are not interested in him.
the best thing a person can do to discourage him fr doing something bad is to confront him and make him feel that he cannot intimidate you. and a person who does that is afraid of anything confrontational. once he knows that u are aware of what he is doing and that he cannot intimidate you, he will stop.
someone like him is a coward who just cant handle confrontations.
2006-11-15 20:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by Gina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's not true then ignore it and don't let it bother you. Confront your friends that all the stuff is not true that he is the one with the problem not you.You can also let him know how you feel about how he is telling your friends stuff.
2006-11-15 20:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try pissing him off. Agree with whatever he says and pretend it's a joke, I bet that will tick him off a lot.
2006-11-15 20:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by sakura7blossoms 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk crap about him to his friends
2006-11-15 20:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by mihaela z 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
smack him and tell him to f**k of! i mean if you dont like him any more. if you do still like him you can try to flirt with him and talk to him and see what happens!!
2006-11-15 20:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋