My hubby loves video games and that is fine with me. What bothers me is that he plays them constantly. He is in the Army and we live in Germany. This is pretty much the first time I have ever lived with anyone other than my family. I am very family-oriented and I love everyone in my family and I would give anything to spend time with them. I have 9 aunts and uncles and 30 cousins who I am very close to. Yes I know my family are horndogs. Anyways, my husband usually works about 4 days and then off 2. When he gets home, he starts to play his video games and he will play them from the instant he gets home until he goes to bed. All I ask is that when he is off work, I at least get one day. Not even the whole day, just some of it. I have told him this about once a week for the last two months. It doesn't seem to matter. I love him very much and don't want our relationship to end but I can't take much more of this. He also will go out with his friends on the days he is off.
2006-11-15 11:38:07 · 2 answers · asked by Taunia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am so lonely and he doesn't seem to understand. I don't work right now, but I am planning to get a job. I don't know what to do? Do I continue telling him how I feel? Or do I ignore it? I don't think I am asking too much, guys am I? Please only serious answers.
2006-11-15 11:41:08 · update #1
I myself love video games. He likes video games that aren't two player like rpgs. He also likes to go hang out with his friends by himself.
2006-11-15 11:48:18 · update #2
try to get involved maybe when he is not home practice playing those video games and when he comes home play with him if you beat him he will think that the game was weak so he will stop playing just so that you wont play. or you can like it and challenge eachother with new games.maybe some Sex games would be good. and if he goes out with his friends go along
2006-11-15 11:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by cosita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are headed for trouble. I am divorcing my husband for abandonment, and it started with vidoe games. Guys that play vidoe games are pretty much brain dead. Divorce him now and save yourself the trouble!
2006-11-15 19:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by motherpeanutbutterbutinsky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋