i think im in a love less relation ship, however i and realy worried about her if i leave, what can i do?
2006-11-15 11:24:12 · 6 answers · asked by origamix60 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you really care about her (and it sounds like you do), then you need to be up-front with her. The longer it goes on, the more hurt you will cause. She will definitely be hurt, but you can't prevent that. In time, she will heal and meet someone else. You need to be honest with her and tell her what's happened/why you don't feel you love her. She will move on and so will you. There's nothing worse than leading someone on. Good luck!
2006-11-15 11:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no pain-free solution. She is going to be hurt no matter how u tell her. The worst thing to do is tell her and then leave her in her state of disbelief. Stay with her and let her be angry and sad and answers questions of "why" that she will have. Whatever u do if u don't see a future with her and u don't love her anymore don't go back out of pity when she cries and pleads and promises everything under the sun to keep u. Avoid lines like........"u deserve better than me", "it's not u at all, it's me".....lines like that make it worse. Ackowledge her hurt and just be there for her to vent on u for abit. She will get through it like we all do, it just takes time.
2006-11-16 02:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to discuss your feelings with her. There is nothing you can do to make it painless for her. Telling her honestly and gently and taking the time to explain and answer her questions is the best way. It will be hard for you both, but that's much better than staying in a relationship that isn't right for you. You care about her feelings even though you want to break up, and that says a lot about you. Good luck.
2006-11-15 12:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by redhairedgirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is unfair for you and her to ,tell her that your feeling has change and you need your space in order to sort things out., sometime the truth will set you free
2006-11-16 06:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of he does not completely apreacite you. you will desire to be with somebody who loves you for who you're. you will desire to no longer would desire to teach your self or be somebody which you're actually not. i think of you will desire to pass on and date human beings. i think there is somebody perfect for all human beings and you will eventualy locate that individual
2016-10-15 14:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i dont love you anymore"
2006-11-15 11:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋