my mom and dad talked me in to it i never cheat on her she is my best freand so i could never hurt her what do i do
2006-11-15 10:39:17 · 17 answers · asked by arc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and how do you start to talk a bout this with out sounding like a jurk
2006-11-15 12:42:16 · update #1
Your Mom and Dad talked you into what? If you aren't in love...what's the point?
2006-11-15 10:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
then why are you with her???????????
I understand that she is your best friend but, there is much more to a mirage than being friends... hey who knows maybe she feels the same way, I think that the both of you should sit down and talk about this because it's a real serious thing. i believe that you should married the person you choose and the person you love, not the person you like, because one day that person that you like will live you for the person whom she or he loves... Another thing, sex is a great deal in a ma rage because with ought good sex a relationship never works because once you don't feel that attraction for that person who you have to sleep with it really hard...and that's when some people star cheating on their partner and ma rage falls apart.. so you should defiantly talk to he about all of this so the both of you can come up with a solution.
2006-11-15 10:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by mamasita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u think u can make it work but don't be with some 1 for the sake of any 1 its not them haven to live this life its u happiness means allot when your with some 1 u love u have a reason to get up in the morn en
2006-11-15 10:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by hotmail 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Though you are not in love w/your wife, and you are not the first to feel this way. Sit down and think about her reactions towards you, maybe they are the same, but if not there is nothing better than the truth, If you really mean that she is your bestfriend, tell her the truth, because a true friendship is better any day than a long lousy marriage,
2006-11-15 11:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by miranda1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move on when you feel that way because eventually you will meet someone you will have feelings about and you need to talk to your wife and iron some things out. In this case there will always be someone who gets hurt, but it's better for her to know this now then if you meet someone else and then be unfaithful.
2006-11-15 10:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by shellybear0925 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Allen if your not in love with her why did you marry her. Your parents may have talked you into it but no one forced you to say I do. Your really not being fair to her and in time she will get hurt more then you want. Maybe if your were honest with her she may want the marriage to end.
2006-11-15 10:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by mtd29485 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if it's love your looking for, some one is going to get hurt, no matter what. If your happy with your wife, then stay, if your unhappy then tell her and file for a divorce. There's no easy way out of this one guy.....
2006-11-15 10:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by P-Nut 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you've had these feelings for a while,you need to ask yourself,"Why did I marry her in the first place?", "What did i originally see in her?". Be honest to yourself and her,don't play games,prolonging this will only make the situation worse and hurt not only her,but you.
2006-11-15 11:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by Ellie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should break it to her very kindly. If you didn't love her you shouldn't of married her no matter what you mom mom and dad said, no disrespect but is your mom and dad going to be there for her when you tell her. No probably not, you should probably tell her as soon as you can. It will probably break her heart but you need to tell her that you still would like to be friends with her.
2006-11-15 10:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is not a feeling or emotion. Love is an action. Its all about sacrifice and commitment. Best wishes.
2006-11-15 10:42:34 · answer #10 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋