2006-11-15 10:35:56 · 37 answers · asked by RNM 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
depends on how bad it woz
2006-11-15 10:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by dr_gonzo_1974 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not that I know of. Why would you want to tell about your bad past life to your wife anyway? There are no benefits to telling all the bad stuff for your wife to hear.
2006-11-15 10:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. My husband told me and although I hated it I am still with him cause I love him to death and none of it matters. We all have things we aren't proud of and she should keep that in mind before she tries to get upset, if she does try. She is your wife. If she loves you things will be fine in then end. If not then she wasn't the one for you.
2006-11-15 10:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lovemykids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her, she is your wife and you shouldn't have secrets. The only question she will have is why you haven't told her before you got married. She might not be able to trust you for a while, because she will wonder if you have more secrets that you haven't told her about.
2006-11-15 10:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by Wednesday 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what it is. If it's something that has a potential of affecting your relationship (huge debts, bad credit, an STD, infertility) - then yes. If it's a personal issue that is done and over with (old relationships) - leave it be, don't mention it.
2006-11-15 10:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't specify what kind of history. If she loved you enough to marry you, maybe you should leave the past in the past.
2006-11-15 10:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by cjworks29 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the worst thing u could do is not to tell her because if someday she finds your secret past she wont worry about it she would worry because you didn't told her
2006-11-15 10:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is really Love why bother I dont need to know every sorrid detail and neither does he... be mature and tell her the past is the past and if she is mature she will agree.. my thoughts...
2006-11-15 10:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to know, I heard that my husband had a lot of one night stands and it killed me, to know about another one's past should stay in the past. Tell her to think about the future when she asks you
2006-11-15 10:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it's good when she knows almost everything about you. If you don't feel too comfortable telling her, don't give too many details. Try to tell her whatever it is in a short version.
2006-11-15 10:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by Fiesty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she's your wife she should already know but since she does as your wife she promised to love you no matter what right? just tell her
2006-11-15 10:37:43 · answer #11 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋