Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

About 3 months ago i directed my trouble disciplining my step daughter, in an emotional outburst, where i used foul language and made the huge mistake of saying "you don't like that **** you can leave"... I know i errored big time, but i loved my step daughter more than anything in the world. My wife also told my parents that her daughter worships me. My wife trusted me to watch her all day while she was at work. In the morning my step daughter would crawl into bed with me and we would watch cartoons. She was my world, but i only had less then 90 days to adjust to the living situation. I knew what i was getting into, but i stumbled once and it was big time. My wife has sinced moved out and filed for an anullment, and has also cut off all communication with me. I know i pushed her as far away as i could and crushed her heart. I loved my step daughter so much she was my heart and soul. What do you think she is feeling or thinking, and can i still get them back????? I love them

2006-11-15 09:34:29 · 12 answers · asked by john d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I gave her the dildo, a bottle, and a porn dvd in a box as a joke for her birthday. The old bat was embarrassed and claimed it ruined the party. Should I just dump my girlfriend? The daughter may end up like the mother.

2006-11-15 09:34:04 · 29 answers · asked by Ratzo 1 in Singles & Dating

ok there is this guy on myspace and he says that one of his friends want to go out with me should i believe him or no cause sometimes he plays tricks on me so what do i do?

2006-11-15 09:33:06 · 13 answers · asked by bored 2 in Singles & Dating

last semester there was this girl in my 6th pd class. my friend knew her so, he unexpectedly introduced us to eachother. i said hi and she said hi taken in by the shock of it and talked to someone else quickly. the next day her friends and her were looking at me smiling and mentioned my name. my friend then told her that i liked her without my knowing. then we got switched around and was then seated next to her. i was to nervous to even talk to her so i didnt. she flirted with me alot and smiled looking at me and studying me. but the thing was she had bf,22 yrs of age and shes 17. they broke up over the summer. and when i approached her she lied and said she had a BF the same guy she said shed give me her number "later" and she avoided me the following week. d u think i had a shot or was she just playing?

2006-11-15 09:33:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a bind, me and my father and stepmother do not get along for very personal reasons. They emailed my boyfriend and basically b!tched him out about his and that, and basically said that he wasnt good enough for me, and he was a no good sob and deserved his life to be hell, in which is already is. He is trying to get his life back together, well after reading all this and having time to think about it. He decided that it would be best if he just break up with me. Meaning everything that we worked for as a team to prove to my father just went down the drain. My stepmother said that he wasnt worthy enough for me, and it some how brainwashed him into believeing it as well. Basicaly my stepmother got her way what she wants she gets its always been that way, any advice on how I can keep him and what to do with the father and stepmother besides wanting to k!ll them. (figure of speach)

2006-11-15 09:32:48 · 3 answers · asked by Snowflakes 2 in Family

Is once every two or three weeks bad? We're both fit, healthy, and attractive. We've been married for a year, but it's been like this since we first started dating. I don't think it's enough, he thinks it's fine. In your opinion, is something wrong?

2006-11-15 09:32:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If your partner asked you to do something that was a bit kinky or unusual/bizarre how would you react ? And would you go along with it ?

2006-11-15 09:32:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Afro-American male in maryland having a hard time finding a
good spanish women. Where are someplaces i can go to.I
love spanish women, they're really passionate women

2006-11-15 09:31:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He knows it won't and everyone else knows it won't. so why is he setting himself up to be heartbroken knowing what she is going to do to him? and why would he leave something good that he already had to take this risk?

she's already screwed up his credit and his car and taken his money and who knows what else. he knows she is using him. so why would he continue being in this relationship knowing that one day she will leave him like she already did several times before? and why is he so determined to hurt me while he is doing this? are all guys like this or what?!

2006-11-15 09:31:46 · 10 answers · asked by pikachu 5 in Singles & Dating

HI girls ! Well some of you may have seen my Question before this. Today This guy im completly in love with ( Nick ) is now dating Jordan ! DO any Of you guys have ADVICE ON A BROKEN HEART ??
( Notice i capitalixed that ? thats cuz i dont really want you guys saying "why should you keep chasing a guy whos gonna half break your heart ?")

P.S Please dont say anything like " Oh Stop being a wimp get back out there !"
i dont like that !

well thank you very much for your help !
sincerly hannah

2006-11-15 09:31:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my husband. But I recently met this guy who is 10 years younger than me and from a different country and I feel like I did when I was in high school! Is this normal to get crushes on people even though there is not a possibility for anything in the future? Is it wrong?

2006-11-15 09:30:46 · 25 answers · asked by Allison W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In all honesty....does the saying
" The truth comes out when ur drunk" have any truth to it? or do you think that what comes out of someones mouth when they are drunk shouldn't be taken seriously? what is ur take on this?

2006-11-15 09:30:33 · 7 answers · asked by sweet_bfly02 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you had a two seater and a storm hit and you were only alowed to take 1 person you who would you take out of you best friend favorite family member and significant other? remeber you can only take one person

2006-11-15 09:29:51 · 12 answers · asked by tari j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was dating a girl who had gotten out of a 3yr relationship, then went out with someone else, and then me. We were really happy together, yet i was going thru a sexual harasment lawsuit against my boss, and she was still having trouble getting over her 3yr ex, so things were difficult, we broke up last week, and she said that she still cares about me alot and its really difficult right now, but she wants to be good friends now, yet its really hard for me to just be a friend to her, how should i show her i care about her, but not cross the boundry as a friend, is it still okay to take her out places and such? Or should i just leave her alone for awhile? IM so confused.

2006-11-15 09:29:38 · 6 answers · asked by Bailey 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 09:28:58 · 27 answers · asked by Tobe D 1 in Weddings

he is quite experianced and im not as experianced.
i am worried that he will expect me to do all sorts of positions and things he is used to where as i am not.
????

2006-11-15 09:28:56 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am thinking of doing "a Mrs. Robinson" with a boy 18 years old (I am 32). He is in university, in the sciences, away from home, who rents a room from my neighbor. He seems very shy but has what seems to be a great body and he has told my neighbor he rarely dated and feels a bit lost now. The thought of befriending him, seducing him, teaching him the erotic arts just excites me no end. I'd like to stop masturbating over this and follow through but I hesitate (it would be my first time for such a thing). Those of you who have done it (or thought of doing it) or who have simply deflowered a teen-aged boy a decade or more younger than yourself please tell me how it turned out (or why it didn't). I need guidance.

2006-11-15 09:26:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you find it strange for a 30 yr old man to be intrested in an 18 yr old as a serious relationship??or age shouldn't be a factor when you both like each others??or is it just plain weird?

2006-11-15 09:26:08 · 25 answers · asked by flyinghigh006 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were just married, and are talking about having kids. Once in a while we come up with ideas for names. One time he told me that he wanted to name a girl Celeste. I like the name but, what he didn't tell me(I found out later) was that Celeste is the name of one of his crushes/ex girlfriend. I know how it feels to be named after an ex. My dad named me after one of his ex girlfriends, and I found out when I was 15. It makes you feel like crap, being named after someone like that. How do I tell himthe truth without him knowing that I don't want him to name our children after his exes?

2006-11-15 09:24:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k so 2 years ago i liked this guy alot. he wuz on my bros sports team. well my bro quit after a year n i neveer got 2 meet him and i liked him 4 a long time. well 3 years later (this year) i saw him in high school 1 day and i got 2 meet him at lunch!! he asked me how i was doing and told me he remembered me!. well he keeps asking my freind if i like him. but he has a g/f who is drop dead gorgous. i like him still and dont know wut to do!! heres my questions: was it fate that i saw him again?
was i supposed 2 meet him finally?
y does he keep asking my friend whos friends with his sister if i like him?

please help me!!! should i go 4 him??

2006-11-15 09:24:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A good woman needs a good man to provide 100% of his heart in order to make it work. It is just a shame that weakness and cowardness attacks the brain, and aggressiveness becomes that man's answer, too bad his friends are just the same and can't seem to get it or else they would not side with him referring to your answer of blah blah blah earlier

2006-11-15 09:24:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

men cant live with them but can live without them

2006-11-15 09:23:58 · 12 answers · asked by ali_3ys 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm starting the shopping for a Christmas gift for my girlfriend. We've been dating for 7 months and Christmas is fast approaching. Although im not the richest guy in the world...but who is at 17. I really want a good gift, from my searching I have found the a Forever ring would not only be affordable but a great gift. Is that a good idea? If your significant other got you that, would you be pleased? Feed back would be much obliged as I really want to find that special gift for my special girl this Christmas.

2006-11-15 09:23:44 · 6 answers · asked by Matt777 1 in Singles & Dating

I BOUGHT SOME CANDY BARS TODAY AT LOCAL INDIAN STORE AND KID BEHIND ME PLUMP...HE BUYING PORN SNACK...INDIAN GUY COMMENETED: 'HERE YOU GO MR. PORKY PIG"... THE FAT BOY KINDA LOOK AT HIM DUMBFOUNDED...AND CHUCKLED A LITTLE...THE GUYS BEHIND HIM SORTA SHUFFLED THEIR FEET AND STIFLED THEIR LAUGHING SONG....ANYWAY, THE FAT BOY SWEAT A LITTLE FROM HIS FACE..AND HINDU GUY SAID "I'M JUST JOKING, BUDDY, TAKE IT EASY." THE BLUBBERY BOY LEFT AND I CAN TELL HE WANTED TO SHED HIS OILY TEARS OF SHAME. SO, ARE FATTIES MORE SENSITIVE THAN US SKINNY, PERFECT PEOPLES?

2006-11-15 09:23:43 · 8 answers · asked by whenrainbowscry 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

After many years after divorce, I have met some one very special. Her body language is positive most of the time and we can kiss and cuddle. But I want more. I want to marry her and have her for my soul mate.

She has had had bad problems with men in the past and withdraws when I become serious with her. How can I make he understand that I am in love with her.

For those of you who wish to answer as if we were a couple of youngsters enjoying the midnight moon, I would add that she is 62 and I am 64.

2006-11-15 09:23:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always see white girls with black guys but never the other way around. How much attraction do you feel for white or latin guys for example? (I dont mean celebrities either) how would you react if a white guy hit you up? I went to a black university and no girls checked me out and Im good looking and have no problem getting attractive white girls. Im really attracted to balck girls sexy figures but they never even look twice in my direction. Is it a personallity thing?

2006-11-15 09:22:56 · 19 answers · asked by linguist 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 09:22:25 · 3 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever recieved oral from someone while they were underwater? If so, how was it?

2006-11-15 09:21:58 · 20 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

This boi is really nice and everything but he isnt that attractive to me, but i've been waitin so long that i dont think i should just pass up on him just b/c of his looks. He really has a kind heart..

2006-11-15 09:21:24 · 11 answers · asked by spectacularphillychick 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a girl at an old job of mine, we have since both moved on, but within the first couple days of hardly knowing one another, she gave me her number, would call me for close to two hours at a time and just talk to me continously.

She would also call to see how I was doing. Now she has a bf who she tells me she is faithful to but basically has a lot of pain in his life and gets insecure. So we'd talk alot about the job we were at, random things then we stop talking for a long time, then she'd call me on Thanksgiving to wish me the best, and then we'd stop talking then she called me and we talked for 5 hours long!

Then a couple nights later, for 2 hours long and when I'd miss her calls she'd tell me to call her whenever that night because she'd be up late. Now she hasn't called me in a while....and last time we talked she told me about her bf, how she couldn't stand him sometimes.

What's this?
Should I ask her to my work's xmas party?

2006-11-15 09:20:54 · 12 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating