I am thinking of doing "a Mrs. Robinson" with a boy 18 years old (I am 32). He is in university, in the sciences, away from home, who rents a room from my neighbor. He seems very shy but has what seems to be a great body and he has told my neighbor he rarely dated and feels a bit lost now. The thought of befriending him, seducing him, teaching him the erotic arts just excites me no end. I'd like to stop masturbating over this and follow through but I hesitate (it would be my first time for such a thing). Those of you who have done it (or thought of doing it) or who have simply deflowered a teen-aged boy a decade or more younger than yourself please tell me how it turned out (or why it didn't). I need guidance.
2006-11-15 09:26:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think most of us in our 30's have thought of this. I can say I have but 18 that's a bit young I have thoughts of being with someone much younger than me like 21. I had a chance to do it but chickened out I was so afraid i would get caught. I say if you have the guts than go for it. I think he will like it just don't fall in love use him as your boy toy but of course let him know this I think he will be down with it goodluck chick
2006-11-15 09:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well think of it this way. What would you say to a man writing this same thing about a 18 yr old girl who was renting a room next door. Now, imagine it was your daughter. Maybe it is exciting because you can't get along with men your own age, or maybe you think he'll make you feel young again, or you feel like you missed out on something in adolescence. You can't go back.
Plus, what makes you think that he hasn't already been "de-flowered" and what if he wouldn't be interested in fulfilling this "fantasy" you have. It's creepy when guys do it, and it's creepy when women do it. Men are lead around through life by their genitalia, women usually aren't, you should sit back and reflect on that.
2006-11-15 09:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by Stephie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I may not be the woman that went through the act but I did observe and heard the whole thing from the begining from her. The relationship was completely based on a physical level and didn't pan out emtionally. He was too attached and she wasn't really looking for something long term. It really depends on what your intentions are, if he is a shy person you might hurt him more then you think should you chose to leave at the wrong time.
2006-11-15 09:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by asmidsk@verizon.net 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say no way. I am only 24 but when I was 22 I did a 19 year old, which isn't a huge age difference, but my point is he totally fell in love with me. At that age, guys are still so immature, especially when it comes to older women. So, if you just have to do him, you need to ask yourself if you are ready for an 18 year old to be in love with you. With him rooming next door, you seriously need to consider that.
2006-11-15 09:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by deliannathaniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he's 18 he may already be a little experienced. You are both adults and if he's willing I say go for it. I think it's great because most men could use a little "romantic education" as it were. Start that boy off right!! Hope it works out and have FUN.
2006-11-15 09:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by mpbaker29 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I say as long as your looking to sex him and not marry him or go out on dates GO FOR IT. I would do an 18 year old in a hot minute and I am 37. BUT I would NEVER get into a relationship other than sexual with an 18 year old.
2006-11-15 09:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like hormones talking here.
dont do it. i heard there are other ways to please your woman needs that this boys appearance may mislead to be the answer.
i seen alot of women i know try this and it always fails. i dont know why but it is great in the begining but then because there appears to be alot of insecurity between the two, it causes more friction than a normal relationship. but
there is a lady i know it does work out for. but she has made this young fellow her boy toy only. nothing else. that seems to have worked out for her for quiet some time. when he cant make it he sends another young bud. yeah, it is weird but success for her needs.
2006-11-15 09:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no guidance necessary . just invite him over for something u think he would enjoy. (TV LEMONADE, etc)and let him know how u feel that u r interested. usually that's enough. if u r an attractive woman he will jump. good luck and enjoy . i have done it several times deflowering a young man there is nothing like it .
2006-11-15 09:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by inna357 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WOW, how selfish are you?
have you thought about his feelings? have you thought about the fact that the kid might not be a virgin and might not be interested in a cougar wasting his time and energy? Have you thought about this AT ALL? life is NOT the movies. Get over yourself, and GROW UP.
did you even see the movie? if you did, you truly are selfish if you think you are doing him a "favor." Get a life, a REAL LIFE and find a real relationship, one that isn't so one-sided and all about YOU.
2006-11-15 09:34:27 · answer #9 · answered by KB 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
In my past I dateing younger men.I dateing someone 9 yrs younger then I and 6 yrs.younger etc.. as long as you and he is legal age theres nothing wrong with it. just be carefull he might full in love, a few men i dated did. it's fun for awhile. now i only date older men. now i'am the younger one.
2006-11-15 09:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋