he is quite experianced and im not as experianced.
i am worried that he will expect me to do all sorts of positions and things he is used to where as i am not.
????
2006-11-15 09:28:56 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Coming from a mans point of view, if he's really into you and respects you it won't matter. also he may be glad you are inexperienced as you wouldn't know if he was any good or not!
2006-11-15 09:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by neilcoops 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, the guy I have a crush on & I slept together for the first time in July. This was the first time I had had sex in four years, so I can completely relate to this.
First off, remember that you cannot do wrong. Just let him lead. Ask him to get on top first...if you are unsure.
After you have sex the first time, be honest with him, tell him that there are some things that you might need to work on as far as positions are concerned. He will understand...and I'm sure it won't freak him out in the least, because you are willing to learn.
2006-11-15 17:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, just because a man has slept with a lot of women it doesn't make him the world's greatest shag. Secondly, if you're going to be intimate with this guy and you're nervous about his expectations then you have every right to talk to him about your concerns, and if he's any sort of a decent man, he will listen and not ridicule you or make you feel bad. If he starts critcising your performance just tell him 'you're only as bad as the person you're shagging'. If he starts saying you're crap then maybe he should be doing things to make you feel confident to learn how he does like things. Thirdly, if he expects you to do anything you're uncomfortable with then you have the right to say NO. Remember, your body - your choice.
2006-11-15 17:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Helen B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love being the "teachers". Sometimes, when a female is too experianced, that could set the tone for him to think you are "slutty". Let him be the one to show you all the positions of his interest....
2006-11-15 17:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say,that a man will exaggerate how many women he has been with by x3, and a woman will understate how many by x3. I don't know how true this is today, but you get the gist.
Just be yourself, be comfortable and communicate. That's the key to good sex. I'm hoping that thesex is not the only thing that either you or he want, so just relax and enjoy.
2006-11-15 17:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by TheJev 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey this is a fact of life , whoever you meet in life you will have these thoughts, do not worry go with the flow if your not happy with something dont do it if the guy is considerate and loving then he will understand.
however if he does not then dont continue the relationship.
it does not matter how far you go the minuite you say NO then thats where it should end if it does not then he is really breaking the law.
good luck
2006-11-15 17:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell him that you are willing to try different and new positions but that your past postions are limited. Being honest with him will make him feel like he is teaching you a new trick and will boost the male ego.
2006-11-15 17:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by joker:P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl I say just enjoy the ride and let him lead you. If there is anything that he wants you to do he will show you. Wow! You could learn a lot of moves from him!
2006-11-15 17:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by Heaven26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two care about each other then he won't care what you can and can't do. Experimentation comes later in the relationship. Let him know what you are comfortable with. No one can force you to do anything.
2006-11-15 17:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only to get experience is to do it!!! go with the flow and if he expects you to do something you don't like then don't do it! Anyone with loads of experience is still allowed to say no you know!
2006-11-15 17:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by Loobyloo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋