I was dating a girl who had gotten out of a 3yr relationship, then went out with someone else, and then me. We were really happy together, yet i was going thru a sexual harasment lawsuit against my boss, and she was still having trouble getting over her 3yr ex, so things were difficult, we broke up last week, and she said that she still cares about me alot and its really difficult right now, but she wants to be good friends now, yet its really hard for me to just be a friend to her, how should i show her i care about her, but not cross the boundry as a friend, is it still okay to take her out places and such? Or should i just leave her alone for awhile? IM so confused.
2006-11-15 09:29:38 · 6 answers · asked by Bailey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her make the moves, let her recover and if it is meant to happen, then it will. Be there when she needs you. Don't be pushy, give her time.
2006-11-15 09:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely leave her alone until she starts contacting you. If you now have your sexual harassment lawsuit straightened out, then you can start other girls out places and such.
2006-11-15 17:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out, be cool, enjoy each other's company but be aware of the boundaries. In time she may change her mind but for now if you truly want to be friends, you have to put that thought out of your mind and conduct yourself with her as you would with your lil sister or something.
2006-11-15 17:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by PisceKween 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just try to stick with the being friends thing for awhile, if you want to go out and do things it dosent hurt to ask, the worst she can say is no
2006-11-15 17:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can keep it a friendship level then ask her if it is possible. , but you must follow her wishes
2006-11-15 17:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply follow her lead
2006-11-15 17:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋