I love my fiance to death and he loves me too, we've had fights and problems before about a "friend" of mine. I don't talk to her often anymore because she's a big flirt and I try find every excuse under the sun to avoid me & my partner from seeing her.
Like I said, we've had fights over her before & he knows how I feel about her, he says he has no respect for her & that she just causes trouble between many couples but his actions speak louder than his words. She is the last person I would expect for him to tickle and wrestle on a bed with as he is only encouraging her to flirt. We had a massive fight last night about it and he walked home (10km) He says to me that he knows how I feel and he wont do it again. But he said that last time when he kept smacking her on the butt.
Has he learnt his lesson? I still have the doubt in the back of my head that we will fight about this again & that he will forget about what I've told him.
What should I do?
I love him so much.
2006-11-15 09:45:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yo men are only men and they make stupid mistakes
accept his apology and tell him NOT to let it happen again or 3x the charm and u will walk out
2006-11-15 09:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you love him so much even after he wrestled with her on the bed and smacked her good looking butt, you can do nothing but keep loving him. You are teaching him that he can do what ever he wants and as long as he says "I won't do it again" you will take him back. He has learned his lesson well and he will keep on doing this over and over and over and over and over. And you will keep on loving him and loving him and loving him. (Does this sound healthy to you?) I think you should give back the ring and cancel the wedding.
2006-11-15 17:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. u need seriously need 2 rethink ur reltionship with him. H eshould not have been tickling her & smakcikng her a$$. thats very inappropriate & not to mention rude. U r his fiance & he should be keeping his hands 2 himself! but if u really love him & are willing 2 give it another shot then maybe there is hope. but honestly, if he lied to u b4, then it may not be a good idea to give him a THIRD chance.
2006-11-15 17:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I cannot answer the question any better than anyone else, but he is definitely lying and he will keep lying because you love him so and he knows he can get away with it. Wouldn't shock me a bit to find out he is having an affair with her.
2006-11-15 18:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep that thought in the front of your head, not the back of it.. This guy has a real free hand, and I don't know about you, but I could never be with any one like that....
2006-11-15 17:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by P-Nut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump him and the friend they are both disrespectful to you. She should know her limits for flirting with your fiance and he should should know his limits because he is with you in a supposedly committed relationship. He may not have any respect for her but that won't stop him from screwing her, they are both garbage. Please don't marry this jerk or your next post will be, my husband constantly cheats on me, what do i do ? You may love him, but you should love yourself more.
2006-11-15 19:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is it about this behavior that you love so much? Keeping him away from your friend won't keep him from cheating. DUMP HIM NOW and save yourself heartache later on.
2006-11-15 17:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by msavagenoble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be very careful maybe hes telling you he doesn't like her for you not to hang out with her just so it can be easier for him to get with her behind your back ..............you never know i know if my man did that i would have kick the living crap out of that girls *** and him he would have hit the road because if he can disrespect you like that what other crap can or has pulled before ................good luck
2006-11-15 17:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by mari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋