Ive been talking on the phone/hanging out with a girl that I really like. She has a boyfriend.. but things are kind of on the rocks between them and she seems interested in me, and Ive liked her for a while.
When we talk on the phone, we talk for like an hour to and hour and a half. When we hang out, Im always trying to think of things to say and what we should do.
Im not looking for advice on how to steal her from her boyfriend, but I at least want to be somewhat interesting when we are hanging out.
What should I say to keep the convo going and what should I suggets we do when we hang out? I live in a pretty bording town, so there arent many places you can go, you have to be creative. Any ideas? Thanks all
2006-11-15 09:53:51 · 7 answers · asked by Uh Oh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to learn about something she likes. Find out what her interests are and then talk to her about them. She'll think it was nice you were paying attention to her.
2006-11-15 09:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd try to find things you have in common, and focus on those as things to do. Usually, if there is some activity going on, you can find something to talk about. Another idea is to find out the things she likes, and learn more about them. Then you can always talk about that if nothing else comes to mind. Sometimes, silence isn't a bad thing.....just don't let it get to where it's akward.
2006-11-15 17:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Eric B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Be interested instead of interesting, #2 Women need to vent and one should ask if she WANTS advice, #3 If you steal a woman away from her boyfriend she might be the type who can be easily stolen from you. #4 Be a friend
2006-11-15 18:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dhaircutta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, she's already talking to you way too much already, so she's obviously into you
just keep things as they are, coz if you have to start preplanning everything, then you won't last either, coz you'll not be yourself
that's the secret man, be yourself and let things happen at their own pace (esp since she's still got a boyfriend, coz you'd not like it if the situation was reversed, yeah?!?)
2006-11-15 18:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be suprised at what ideas you'll come up with when you go looking for them. My lil hick town has a cheap handmaking pottery class, and we get to keep what we make.
2006-11-15 18:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them break up naturally then be her shoulder to lean on
she will go out wtih you
but stay yourself and dont break them up
2006-11-15 17:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by XoSuGaRbAbiiXo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well. All I can say is, be yourself.
2006-11-15 17:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by itsallforyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋