This boy is really sweet and I just want to get to know him better. Maybe he is the boy of my dreams but I can't find a chance to talk to him because I only have one class with him. When I do see him he is with his friends or I can't think of anything to say. I am frightened because I don't want him to hate me and not give me a chance. I am scared that when I start to talk to him he will think I like him and horrible things will start to happen. Please help!
2006-11-15 09:14:19 · 5 answers · asked by clarecubbear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
next time you're in class with him, sit next to him and smile and say hi when he comes around. Just casually come up with something to talk about. The typical subjects of movies, music, or school always works. If you're a shy type like me, it will take a little time, but once you get more comfortable talking to him a little bit at a time. Don't be scared that he'll hate you, you're not giving him any reason to hate you so why should he have bad feelings for someone he doesn't know? It's not very logical is it? So just open up a little bit. Conversations will come soon afterwards and who knows, you might be on your way to a date saturday night!
good luck!
ps: it's not him who gives you a chance, it is you who creates the chance.
2006-11-15 09:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by mysticaura29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay! Don't go with that "ask him out" bull crap, this takes strategy. First what you want to do is get to know his friends first! His friends will give you info on him ;) next what you do is talk to him and get to know him, just make sure no one knows that you like him. Now what you do, is work on your weaknesses, for example, if you get angered easily, fix it up! Also increase your listening skills as well as your ability to start small conversations. THis is important!!!!: NEVER LET HIM KNOW THAT YOUR THE ONE CHASING HIM!!! He will freak out and be repulsed. Make him be the one to ask you out. One day, after you did all of the above that i stated, I recommend you go to school with a TOTALLY new look, makeup, hair, dress, pants, The works! He will be COMPLETELY off guard, thats your chance to ask him out, or he will ask you out ;)
2006-11-15 09:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by Onikura O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to a movie with a bunch of your friends so if you come to find out he's not the one for you, you won't feel uncomfortable being around him. Tell him he can bring his friends and it'll be a group thing. Go to a scary movie and sit by him and pretend to be scared and maybe you can "accidentally" grab his arm. OOPS!
P.S. Don't be afraid to talk to him if you go to the movies, maybe he's shy too.
2006-11-15 09:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are not ready for the boyfriend/girlfriend game yet.
2006-11-15 09:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afraid ull never kno if u dont try!! goodluck!!!!
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2006-11-15 09:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by senoritadolche 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋