I will be going on a trip out of town this weekend to visit my family I will be travelling with my husband. I still keep in touch with my ex boyfriend who is in jail right now, I told him about my trip today and he is very upset with me for going out. I am still so in love with him that even though Im married I cannot get over him and sometimes when he calls me we make plans on getting back together when he gets out of jail. The reasons I broke up with my ex boy friend was because he cheated in my face all the time, he lied, he did drugs and he was always very agressive with me. He would always be accusing me of cheating. He did not want me going out of my house at all or talk to my friends. My husband is a nice and responsible person I could not ask for more from a husband but I do not love him.I feel very guilty that I will be going out to have fun and he is in jail. Please help me decide what to do. I feel terrible and very depressed.
2006-11-15 09:20:44 · 7 answers · asked by 0022 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a life and forget the creep....convicts make lousey lovers...they are always afraid to go back and be somebody's beeeeeoooootttcccchhhh....
Leave your husband if you don't love him, but do go back to the sleeze ball convict, he already proved is lack of worth....
2006-11-15 09:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think that what you are doing is very sad if you were not in love with your husband you should have not of married him because the only one that is going to come out of that hurt is him not you and if he did all those things to you in the past what makes you think he will not do those same things if you were to get back together. I don't think you want to go threw that anymore but you need to get your thoughts straight a figure out what you are going to do before you hurt your husabnd with all of this.
2006-11-15 09:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through a similar problem and I learned that as a human being you deserve love and respect especially from a spousal figure (your ex). In the end I decided that my ex and I went through good as well as horrible times but I was more in love with the thrill and emotions he provided than him. If you continue to let him cloud over you, you may find yourself in a trap that will be much harder to pull yourself out of.To make a LONG STORY SHORT, you need to love you self as over said as it may be and then maybe you can see through the shadows of the thrill and emotional roller coasters. You don't need the added stress!
2006-11-15 09:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by mrs.muldrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh, leave that man behind. You have a husband, and if you don't feel the love with your husband, and you don't tell him, that's unfair to him and you'd be doing to your husband just like your ex did to you. It sounds to me like you're not ready for a husband. I do hope he finds out soon, because the longer you keep it from him, the more hurt you're going to cause him.
2006-11-15 09:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by mysticaura29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you should tell your husband how you feel, because he has every right to leave you and find someone who will love him. then go to a shrink to figure out why you love a man that has completely treated you like piece of garbage but more importantly find out why you want him back and continue to talk to him.
good luck with all of those years in therapy. i am not trying to be mean but what exactly do you love about this man.
2006-11-15 09:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hold on to the past. Shame on you for doing that. NEVER look onto the past, all you do is let him win. One cannot create a new world while dragging the past along. If your married forget that jail hog.
2006-11-15 09:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by Onikura O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont love your husband y u marry him, its a sin 2 divorced u should had think before u said i do, if your heart was in your ex
leave your ex behind u have a husband
2006-11-15 09:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋