the continued what do you do when your in love with two men?

Question

you see the second man the one i was with for five years is a great guy too, and he has a stable job he just got his own home but like i told him yeah that stuff is great to have but i dont want to be with someone who works 90 hours a week, i want a capanion, i know he does care he, he always says he wished i could read his mind so i would know that he cared or he was great full. but i told him nobody can read minds you have to show it. he is a great dad but i just wish that he was with them more. he said he wants to be with his family and yeah we were a family but it seemed like i was the only one doing all the work, because he worked all the time. he says he works that much because he wants to have nice things and give us what he could not have when he was a child. we got along good but it seemed to me like we were best friends with sexual relations. we can talk about everything all the time and like to be in each others pressence. this is the last paragraph tell me what you think !!

Answer 1

Stop confusing yourself. Give your husband a chance.You guys should take time to set a schedule of time just for you and your family out of the week.my boyfriend and I do this considering I work full time and go to school full time. But on Sundays I don't work and it is just us time. It can relieve more stress than you know and help with some of those problems.

Answer 2

Make up your mind for Pete's sake and quit putting everyone through the ringer, including your children. If he is your best friend then at least be a friend to him. He's doing the best he can for YOU and the kids. Get over yourself. Go back to school, get a job. Keep the kids stable at least, geez.

Answer 3

Love only one men. Don't play around as you would not want people to play around with you either.

Answer 4

If i were you, I would ask a psychologist.

Answer 5

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