Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

For the past year, we've been basically living off of my paycheck (because my hubby's business hasn't been doing well). I have to admit, I've been feeling upset and used. I know he's struggling to make his business work, but I'm tired of being the one who's bringing in all the money every month. And he doesn't even seem to appreciate it either. I really don't know what to do.

2006-11-13 02:15:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

anyone want some company on this monday morning?

2006-11-13 02:15:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that whoever you are with, they can never except you for who you are and they bulldoze your brain with their insecurities to the point of thinking you are the mad one..... How is it that I have gone from being ultra confident, lively, full of zest, smiles to this paranoid, doubting my ability, lack of confidence wreck.... What can I do to make me into the person I was? To rebuild my confidence, and self esteem, to be happy within me? Anyone got any suggestions to how to feel good within you again?

2006-11-13 02:14:36 · 17 answers · asked by Girl of Spirit 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't get in troubles, get good grades and have a kinda good relatioinship w/ my parents. I talk to them and never lie. But saturday I ended up giving in to per pressure, joined a crowd my parents don 't ike that much and went on a motorcylcke ride w/ a 15 yo boy. Murphy law, we had a small accident. Nothing seriuos, I just hurt my knee a bit. My dad saw, asked what had happened,. I was so ashamed that I said I had slipped on a stair. He said Oh hun, washed my wound, put a medicine on it. I felt terribly bad cause I was lying, and even worse cause dad gave me a kiss and said Now it won't hurt any more. Well, apparently everthing is OK, but my conscience hurts really bad. My parents are nice, trust me, dad belived me though my shirt was torn, and I wasn't enough honest to admit I had messed up. I can't sleep, but Im kinda ashamed. Should I tell them the truth and apologize? I'm afraid they do'nt trust me any more. Should I be punished?

2006-11-13 02:13:49 · 17 answers · asked by Angela 1 in Family

and you've even discussed what each others concerns were but still you don't see any signs or indication of things changing for the better. What would you do?

2006-11-13 02:13:02 · 14 answers · asked by Mr. Incredible 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last October I met this guy at my best friends house (my friend's boyfriend at the time cousin). He lives in Michigan, I live in Alabama. However, we hit it off great but he had to leave the next day. We e-mailed each other every so often but left it at that because we stay so far away from each other. About two week ago, he e-mailed me and told me he was sorry for not keeping in contact and gave me his number to call him. I called him yesterday and we talked for hours catching up. He said that he would try to make it down here soon to come and visit so we could get reacquanted. He wants me to go back with him, but I'm not so sure about that. I just got out of a bad relationship and am not about to hop into another one. Should we just remain friends and leave it at that?

2006-11-13 02:12:58 · 12 answers · asked by divalicious 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 02:11:50 · 11 answers · asked by :(_I,suffer 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok...what would you think if, your g/f went to a friends house with 3 of her other girl friends and got drunk but you couldnt be there bc you had something else you had to do....

and there was another guy there but he was there for one of her friends, but since she wasnt really interested in him after she was drunk and so he went to your gf...and left bruises on her bc she didnt want to do anything with him bc she loved you and didnt want that guy....and the day after she told you about it


would you believe that she didnt do anything with him?
would you even have to ask her more than once?
what would you do?
why would you do that?

2006-11-13 02:11:46 · 11 answers · asked by KaKes 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 02:09:17 · 9 answers · asked by Brian M 1 in Singles & Dating

she says every time she calls he says he is to busy to talk. and she emailed me this:
ok so how do i tell my boyfriend to make more time for me because what is more important than me i already said this to him once so if i say it again its bitching and i dont do that and i dont want to not call anymore because thats playing games and i dont do that either what do i do I am supposed to be numero uno priority and puffy you know this.....

can anyone help her????

2006-11-13 02:09:09 · 5 answers · asked by Dustin S 2 in Singles & Dating

i am d lady who loves a guy who is currently living with a woman ,i have finally left,but he wants me back,what do i do

2006-11-13 02:08:07 · 20 answers · asked by lilly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't love my husband but a divorce is not affordable. how am i going to get through this lonely life?

2006-11-13 02:07:34 · 13 answers · asked by jeannepetit2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-13 02:07:06 · 15 answers · asked by reginuta 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy for about 5 months now. We have alot in common and we spend all our time together. At the beginning of the relationship, he was out of the state and so we wrote letters and talked on the phone. We really got to know each other through the letters and such. Now that he is back, we spend alot of time together. I even have a three year old son and he treats my child great. I've never been with someone who cared so much for me and my son. A few days ago, he asked me what I would say if he asked me to marry him. I care alot about this guy and I've never really felt this way about anyone. We have talked about the future alot and we both want the same things out of life. We love each other and want to spend forever together. Would it be ok if we got married now or should we wait? Also, I have met his family but he hasn't really met mine. My mom is in the military and so she is in Iraq right now. Should I get the approval of my mom first or do what I want?

2006-11-13 02:07:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was talking to my gf the other day about it, and we thought about trying it but she said it might hurt her. I wonder does it really hurt, will she enjoy it as much as me or is it just a myth that it's pleasurable. I would appreciate feed back from females. Thanx

2006-11-13 02:06:53 · 15 answers · asked by world's greatest hero 2 in Singles & Dating

I pay for 90% of everything in my relationship. We've been together two years and are engaged. When we started dating she was in school and worked 32 hours a week. - Eventually she wanted to move in. Of course I assumed she was going to split the rent with me. It turned ou she did not plan this and it became a big issue. I loved her and thought I could take care of her... two years later she is paying $200 of the $1200 rent and pays for food.... however when we go out I pay 100% of the time.... I buy everything around the house... we've been out of decent eating utensils (down to three forks) and I ended up having to buy these too... the sheets on our bed are old and shrunk - not fitting the mattres... I waited for her to buy these (asking her, she said she couldn't afford it - and that I'd be waiting for a long time). ... I'm SO frustrated... this is daddy's little girl, and she and I are both 31.... ugh!!!.. I don't know what to do.

2006-11-13 02:06:30 · 9 answers · asked by byroni 2 in Singles & Dating

I pay for 90% of everything in my relationship. We've been together two years and are engaged. When we started dating she was in school and worked 32 hours a week. - Eventually she wanted to move in. Of course I assumed she was going to split the rent with me. It turned ou she did not plan this and it became a big issue. I loved her and thought I could take care of her... two years later she is paying $200 of the $1200 rent and pays for food.... however when we go out I pay 100% of the time.... I buy everything around the house... we've been out of decent eating utensils (down to three forks) and I ended up having to buy these too... the sheets on our bed are old and shrunk - not fitting the mattres... I waited for her to buy these (asking her, she said she couldn't afford it - and that I'd be waiting for a long time). ... I'm SO frustrated... this is daddy's little girl, and she and I are both 31.... ugh!!!.. I don't know what to do.

2006-11-13 02:05:57 · 12 answers · asked by byroni 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why are you, men so mysterious at times, if you have sex with a girl for quite sometimes, call her only twice, hold hands in public, never kiss her does it mean you have feelings for her or its all about the sex?

i need to know, i want to know how your mind works when it comes to women and i need honest opinoins, very honest.

2006-11-13 02:05:26 · 17 answers · asked by Princess P 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been together three years and married a year and a half. He has never wanted to have children i found this out after we were married unfortunatley.He had a vasectomy done so it would never happen. I had no say but respected his wishes and hoped one day to convice him to get it reversed or to adopt since i was 22 and thought i had plenty of time to convince him and i loved my husband enough to go along with it. Something went wrong with the vasectomy and now i am 7 months pregnan ith his childt.At first he did not even believe it was his till a doctor confirmed it had (vas) reversed itself.I feel like i am in a living hell my husband hates me.He has become verbally abusive and wont talk to me.He changed the locks on our home and left my things outside with my dog.I dont have any family in houston my family is in NJ so i am living with one of his friends i cant work so i am cooking and cleaning for his friend Pat so i can stay there.What to do?

2006-11-13 02:04:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I looked at him in class last week and we definitely had a strong eye contact for a second then I looked away. What's up? Is he not interested? I am pretty but do think it's that I'm older? I wonder if the eye contact is just my imagination?

2006-11-13 02:04:45 · 6 answers · asked by Sandy K 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband and what he have together. I don't want to divorce him and less I don't want to change him. Latley I been wanting to just hook up with someone else. I don't mean a person I know, or a randome person. I don't know why I'm feeling this way. I feel like a horrible wife...Theres no person in particular...I just get the desire of being with someone else....for a couple of houres. Why do I feel such a strong feeling towards cheating ? The truth is that I have done it in the pass, but I tould him and he forgave me and we moved on...these feeling has come back and I need to get it stoped, helpe me!!!!

2006-11-13 02:03:17 · 29 answers · asked by I think of you I touch Myself 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in need to interview people who are engaged or recently married (within the past year) for a survey on buying behaviors for engagement rings. I am having a hard time finding people to interview and really need some assistance for my project. I am a MBA student at USF and this project is for a marketing research class. I promise that all of your information is just for my project and will not be shared anywhere or with anyone (except for my professor, but even then your name won't be there) It is a phone survey and only takes 10 minutes to complete. PLEASE HELP!

2006-11-13 02:03:17 · 5 answers · asked by USF MBA 07 1 in Weddings

She is uncommited to anything in her life except being uncommited (if that makes sense). We had a "great" relationship for about 3 months, then she started to pull away. She got scared and she says she always does (we have talked about it extensively, I assure you all). So, how do I put it gently but firmly, that if she wants me in her life she needs to commit? This ambiguity is not working for either of us, and we both know it and recognize it, but she seems unwilling to do anything about it.

2006-11-13 02:02:36 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Last year i was involved in an accident that left me paralysed from the chest down i still have use of my arms but limited hand functions. At first i just didnt want to be alive because its not the life i wanted to lead but then i met a girl who was a relative of a fellow patient. We hit it off right from the start and we fell in love. This made me realise that maybe life wasnt so bad and i accepted it. I had to spend a year in hospital and through this time we planned our life for when i got home and to be honest i cant remember ever being happier even before my accident. But then lightening struck me again in the same year! Two days before i was due out of hospital my girlfriend told me that her feelings had changed she said she loved me but wasnt in love with me anymore! I've been out now for 6 months and she is in love with someone else and i just feel empty inside! And just to make my year i recently found out i cant have kids! It just seems nothing is getting better and i am lost

2006-11-13 02:02:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And when is it developed in a relationship?

2006-11-13 02:01:36 · 9 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Singles & Dating

my grnadparents like him. my mom hasn't met him yet becasue everytime every time she comes we have toleave for something importan

2006-11-13 02:01:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband left late for work this morning, and as I'm on all fours digging under our daughters crib for a lost toy, I hear him in the bedroom on his cell phone. Of course, I overheard something that sparked my interest and continued to listen. He was confiding in his (female) business manager all the details of his relationship....and basically all but said he planned on leaving me, or US rather. And as I sit hear crying I'm sure the occasional jackass will feel the need to make light of this and say something insulting. And trust me, I realize how odd it is for me to be talking to a bunch of strangers, but you don't me. I don't have to look you in the eyes and feel like a failure. Cuz, God knows I wouldn't admit it to anyone else.
I did confront him when he got off the phone....that just turned into a screaming match. I just don't understand the need that he had to tell her all of the things he did, while I just sit in the dark?!?

2006-11-13 02:00:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Given the level of s e x u a l frustration on this site, is it safe to say that there is at least one person a second m a s t e r b a t i ng
to something i have written?

2006-11-13 01:59:55 · 12 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my best friends are dating these guys who are also best friends we've been dating for 3 mths and me and my friends boyfriend are beginning to like eachother.... What do I do???

2006-11-13 01:59:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy I'm talking to is so frickin pig headed. Over the most simple things he makes them difficult. For example if I'm busy and can't do something and I try to reschedule with him he'll be wishy washy about it and say we'll play it by ear. Then it will just never be rescheduled. Or we will have something planned and he will wait till the last minute to confirm something. I'm not putting all the blame on him because I will turn around and purposely not be available because he was so wishy washy. He likes everything of convience and on his time and I'm like no way. When we are ACTUALLY together we are good. It is this control thing that makes me feel we won't make it. I feel like for this to work we both have to make some changes but I'm not so sure he thinks anything is wrong. I'm not ready to stop seeing him but I just don't think this is healthy. How can we communicate without annoying each other to death?

2006-11-13 01:59:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating