The guy I'm talking to is so frickin pig headed. Over the most simple things he makes them difficult. For example if I'm busy and can't do something and I try to reschedule with him he'll be wishy washy about it and say we'll play it by ear. Then it will just never be rescheduled. Or we will have something planned and he will wait till the last minute to confirm something. I'm not putting all the blame on him because I will turn around and purposely not be available because he was so wishy washy. He likes everything of convience and on his time and I'm like no way. When we are ACTUALLY together we are good. It is this control thing that makes me feel we won't make it. I feel like for this to work we both have to make some changes but I'm not so sure he thinks anything is wrong. I'm not ready to stop seeing him but I just don't think this is healthy. How can we communicate without annoying each other to death?
2006-11-13 01:59:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you either have to both want to spend time with each other and make time or give up cause thats lame if i want to be with someone i will be with them everyday
2006-11-13 02:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are funny. But I'm the same way. Try having serious talk to see if the both of you can work on changing your ways or working to some type of compromise. If not, Believe me, It will not work.
2006-11-13 02:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by divalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend and i of 2 years make it work. we are both stubborn hard heads, but we love each other, and we make it work. sure there are problems, but we have to learn how to work around the problems, the only change we made was to agree to disagree (most of the time), and that we have to make compromises. and it works GREAT!
2006-11-13 02:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well i had this saame problem it was horrible he was always trying to control me and it was making me really mad and we just finally broke it off
you know it can still work just tell him you think you both need to make some changes and if he doesn't want to then forget it and try something else
2006-11-13 02:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by bebegirl049 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. My very stubborn friends got married to each other. Now they are stubborn together.
2006-11-13 02:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,no one wants to give in.
2006-11-13 02:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋