Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

there is a girl at his work that seems to me every time we fight or something he will call or text her. they never touched each other at all but for the first time (while we were on a break) thay hung out, still with no touching..he insists nothing is going on but?? why does he keep getting in contact with her when he knows i hate her so much.. she even quit cuz she is scared of me. should i get rid of him just because he is disrespecting me or am i a little crazy about it?? i tell him if he wants her he can have her and i will go, but he freaks then saying all he wants is me?? oh my god this is so confusing. help! what should i do.

2006-11-13 02:50:24 · 7 answers · asked by Melly R 2 in Singles & Dating

i was wondering if there are any psycics out there reading this that can do a reading online or by phone i need help

2006-11-13 02:50:10 · 4 answers · asked by jessie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have a friend well as of now EX-friend that i have known since 2nd grade. we have been fighting & haven't talked in about a week. the reason we are fighting is that tuesday i was waiting for my bus & we were playing around in line as usual. i said something dumb & she went and told this girl that i don't really care for & to be honest it was none of her business. well i told my friend plz not to & she did anyway despite my begging well i got mad and i was trying to calm down when another friend asked what was wrong & b4 i could say anything my ex-best friend brushed it off like it was nothing & i had no reason to be mad. well i snapped & told her what was really wrong & we haven't talked since. she is always ragging on my clothes, hair, makeup, etc. & i wear the best & newest stuff & whenever i try to talk about my hobbies she knodds and acts like she's listening & then goes" i don't really care" & she is ALWAYS calling me selfcentered & a brat

2006-11-13 02:49:36 · 4 answers · asked by ♥lyssa-michelle™ 2 in Friends

2006-11-13 02:49:00 · 17 answers · asked by KEVIN D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating him for 4 months, and in the beginning we were both very offstandish from of our last relationships being very serious (both had been ended a while before we met each other) and still today we're both a little skitterish around commitment and such, esp him. He's probably going to be temporarily living with me for work purposes and we stay at one anothers house almost every night so i know that he's much more comfortable with our having a serious relationship.

I know that i love him even this soon, i want to tell him but i'm afraid to scare him because we've both been so odd about getting serious. Should i say it? It's almost slipt out a few times. should i make a deal out of it saying that he doesnt need to worry, or just let it slip out one of these days..

I feel like im a teen again....

2006-11-13 02:48:45 · 6 answers · asked by attila 6 in Singles & Dating

This past weekend, he decided to leave his toothbrush, shaving cream, deodorant, contact lense, some underwear, socks etc at my place....what does it mean??? As much as I want to ask for him to come "home", I don't feel it's the right time yet. How long should I wait?? What else should I do to keep this going??

2006-11-13 02:48:40 · 9 answers · asked by betrayed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have been together three years and married a year and a half. He has never wanted to have children i found this out after we were married unfortunatley.He had a vasectomy done so it would never happen. I had no say but respected his wishes and hoped one day to convice him to get it reversed or to adopt since i was 22 and thought i had plenty of time to convince him and i loved my husband enough to go along with it. Something went wrong with the vasectomy and now i am 7 months pregnant with his child.At first he did not even believe it was his till a doctor confirmed it had (vas) reversed itself.I feel like i am in a living hell my husband hates me.He has become verbally abusive and wont talk to me.He changed the locks on our home and left my things outside with my dog.I dont have any family in houston my family is in NJ so i am living with one of his friends.

2006-11-13 02:48:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

you know i want to know why we chicks take the long way out to dicover that seriously all i need to do is communicate with the boy?u see for me i slept with a guy i barely knew i then began to hear things from everyone and that pissed me off so i would hola at him everytime i heard something new and say ko why in the end it was becoming old!So after threatning to call my dad we decided to talk and we managed to get to the bottom of everything!So guys u shouln't let a chick go round in circles u shold try your hardest to get her to listen cz in the end it will pay off so girls is the guy worth talking to?

2006-11-13 02:47:59 · 3 answers · asked by babyA 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I like this guy and he likes me (he flirts and teases me all the time, and I'm the only one he does it with). However, I don't think he understands that I like him. I have tried flirting and chatting with him, but nothing seems to work. What should I do? Any tips? If I must ask him out, how should I do it?

2006-11-13 02:47:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always look forward to them but then stress my self out totally. I want everything to be perfect. Plus 2 years ago FIL died on December 17 and the last year my father died the same day, my uncle died on November 30 last year also.

2006-11-13 02:46:47 · 10 answers · asked by dixiedarling 4 in Family

I think im quite good. Im not ugly, Im not unintelligent, Im kind to animals and children. I like sport, play the guitar, and am an all around nice guy. What do you think?

2006-11-13 02:46:14 · 9 answers · asked by Luke H 2 in Singles & Dating

My parents anniversary is on the 16th and I'm at a loss as to what to get them. Last year, I had a picture frame engraved with their names and anniversary celebration. I'm pretty crafty and was thinking about making them something, but am not sure what to make. Online I saw throws that were monogrammed, but the shipping wouldn't get here until after the anniversary. Any ideas?

2006-11-13 02:45:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-13 02:45:15 · 19 answers · asked by gorgon9696 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating this wonderful for a while now He's great with my daughter and he is great with me he makes me happy and keeps my smiling,i know i love him but i haven't told him yet. the other night he slipped and said "i love you" but quickly covered by saying "i love being with you". I told him last night that i think i might be pregnant he asked "would it be a bad thing?" and than went on to say "i'm not goin anywhere babe" what does he mean?

2006-11-13 02:45:04 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

My son is so hyper, and he just will not listen. He is stressing me and my marriage out and the fact that he looks just like his father from a previous relationship does not help. His dead beat dad is about 40 states away so my husband has taken on the role of being his father. My son is very smart (and he has a smart mouth) but he will not buckle down to do his work and he cannot stay focused. I cannot teach him to tie his shoes for nothing which is a requirement at his school for kindergarden. He ruins every pair of shoes within days of us buying them. I used to have so much patience with him. I haven't had as much time with him because of a new husband and baby. We have been married for over 2 years now. Is he still acting out because of that or is he just being a five year old? Am I the only parent at her wits end? Does anyone know a good way to teach him to tie his shoes? It was easier to potty train him. HHHHHHEELLLLPPP!!!!

2006-11-13 02:43:42 · 16 answers · asked by Gina B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

where do you think that a couple who have been going together for 4 months but really dont go anywhere together except parties and eachothers houses together bc all we really do is party....where could we go in peoria...or pekin....to have some fun without being drunk? lol

2006-11-13 02:42:42 · 11 answers · asked by KaKes 2 in Singles & Dating

I believe my father may have married on board a ship leaving Southampton for Canada, where he was migrating, and am trying to find out what the ceremony would have been like together with where I could trace any such records without knowing the name of the ship.

2006-11-13 02:42:00 · 7 answers · asked by anne g 1 in Weddings

2006-11-13 02:41:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my male friend have had occasional sexual encounters in the past. He knows I like him more than a friend and he won't go out with me which I accept.
So my question is has anyone else been in a similar situation and did you or did you not remained friends with the other person after what happened. Did anything good or bad happen between you both?

2006-11-13 02:41:38 · 29 answers · asked by rainbow 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you do to 'release' your feelings of destruction and dismay at being shocked several times by a person
: What do you do whwn you feel stifled and dizzy and weak after your unfortunate shock? The shock is emotional here. Do you scream? Do you tell someone, or you just keep it inside your heart?

2006-11-13 02:41:30 · 6 answers · asked by rosyrose 3 in Friends

I have had this best friend for five years and he moved away to Texas. This past weekend I went to visit him and i had a little to much to drink and we got intimate. One my way back home I could not stop thinking about him, I now have feelings for him like I have never felt before. He is about to go off to the NAVY and this is just not a good time in his life. I told him how I felt and he said he felt the same way but it is not a good time. If I would have only been one week earlier. He also told me he has had a crush on me since like the 11th grade and now we have been out of school for 3 years.He is scared if we get together he will not want to join the NAVY anymore but I would never let him give up that dream!! Every minute I am awake I am thinking about him. What should I do??

2006-11-13 02:41:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has a lg collection of toys (bedrm wall to wall packed) His mother let this happen in her house. Dating I said I would end the relationship due to immaturity of living at home buying toys instead of saving money for the future. He stopped buying and advised me he would get ride it. We are now married and he never got rid of the stuff however I am not letting it move in with me. His mother didn't want it and passed the toys to another family member without husbands consent. The people are alluding to the fact he should take it. If these people didn't want it then they should have not accepted it only to harass my husband or send it back to where it came from. It’s causing a rift with me and his family because I feel they think I should give live with it. His mother let this happen in her home she can deal with it with my husband. Just because I married him doesn’t mean I will let what she aloud to happen in my home.

2006-11-13 02:40:46 · 14 answers · asked by Violet 4 in Family

wakes up at the crack of dawn.....how is that possible

2006-11-13 02:40:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Without seeming like you are haunting him for a proposal? My man is a very shy, and I think he wants to propose, but is a bit apprehensive?

2006-11-13 02:39:56 · 9 answers · asked by herbal_tees 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 02:39:44 · 21 answers · asked by Mukesh Lamba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I havent seen my little brother in over 7 years. My mom claims she has no contact information on him. He lives with his dad. His dads name is BILL MARTIN...I tried to people search him, but the name is too generic...I got over 2000 matches. My brother is Justin Brian Martin, and his birthday is November 19...I cant look him up because he is only 16 (well he will be in a few days). I dont want him to grow up thinking that his family does not care about him because of my stupid mom. Please help...anybody know him??? What can I do? I dont even know what state they stay in. I dont have any SSN's either.

2006-11-13 02:38:46 · 5 answers · asked by prudentzeta 2 in Family

me and my bloke have been together for nearly 5 years and we still have a very good active sex life but i would like some new tips to keep it all alive, any idears please also men what do you like best what works for you? thank you

2006-11-13 02:38:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married next year. My maid of honer is my sister. I didn't want her to be my maid of honor but she threw a hissy fit because I didn't pick her originally. I picked my best friend first but my sis got upset so I picked her.I luv my sisters kids to death. So I picked the older two to be the flower girls & they are counting the days to my wedding. Last week I found out from my sis that she does not like my fiance one bit. When I my fiance & I were having issues in the past I confided in her. My fiance confided in his family too. His best friend who is his best man was against our relationship so was my sister. Now my sis & his best friend are the best man & the maid of honor. I don't want my sis to be a witness at my wedding so I chose my fiances uncle & my fiance wants his father to be the other witness. But my mom says usually the parents or the siblings don't be a witness. Is that true? Because I don't want my sis or his best friend to be a witness. I am catholic.

2006-11-13 02:38:32 · 6 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1 in Weddings

i know that profiles are public - but my friend says that i shouldnt just flip through checking out profiles , but its fun, seems i only find young kids on here alot - anyone between 30- 45 on here anymore? Come on guys - make it easier for me .....

2006-11-13 02:38:11 · 19 answers · asked by beachnut222000 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for a year.. do this man whom i have a child with.. we got married for insurance for the baby.. (Yeah stupid reason, and we both admit that) but he says we fell in love with me... the problem is that my ex... who i was extremely in love with before my husband.. well he had called me during my pregnancy and told me that he loves me.. and he will always love me. I had been waiting to hear that forever!! and it messed with my feelings.. now i can't stop talking to him... you see, i just don't have these same feelings for my own husband as i do this other man. and i don't know what to do. The other guy said that if my marriage didn't work out that he would love to try things again.. and he thinks we are soul mates... but he is also very respectful and said that if there is any chance of happiness in my marriage he doesn't want me to give up... so i am in the middle...and my husband is exactly the nicest person.. he's in lawinforcement.. so can be very controling

2006-11-13 02:37:53 · 14 answers · asked by ashjmy5 1 in Marriage & Divorce