there is a girl at his work that seems to me every time we fight or something he will call or text her. they never touched each other at all but for the first time (while we were on a break) thay hung out, still with no touching..he insists nothing is going on but?? why does he keep getting in contact with her when he knows i hate her so much.. she even quit cuz she is scared of me. should i get rid of him just because he is disrespecting me or am i a little crazy about it?? i tell him if he wants her he can have her and i will go, but he freaks then saying all he wants is me?? oh my god this is so confusing. help! what should i do.
2006-11-13 02:50:24 · 7 answers · asked by Melly R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went through something similiar to this and I put my foot down and told my boyfriend to either stop talking with her or I was history. He stopped immediately and things are great now. Sometimes you just have to lay down the law or they will keep doing stupid things because you allow them to get away with it. Good Luck.
2006-11-13 02:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you don't own him, so i don't think you should just straight out forbid him from seeing her...maybe they are just friends. do you trust him? i know even if the answer is yes, it's still possible that you remain suspicious. i think what you should do is stop freaking out about it, and talk to him. tell him that you won't stop him from seeing her because you trust him enough to not do anything wrong...and tell him that if he ever did you would be very dissapointed. that way, if he eventually even dares make a move on her, then you can just express how sad you are and dump him
2006-11-13 10:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider dating other people... you're only 19... much too young to be worried about problems such as this one!
2006-11-13 10:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Wedding Crasher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly maybe him and you need a break. it may be tempting for him to talk to other girls because he has been with you since he was what? 13!? yeah u both need to experience new things and meet new people.
2006-11-13 10:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would try not worring about it. Second stop trying to be all bad *** and talk to your man.
2006-11-13 10:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he wants to be with you... then have him to stop contacting her.
if he really wants you... he will stop.
No man should do any thing to upset his girlfriend
2006-11-13 10:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should try expanding your world a little.
2006-11-13 10:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by kerrieland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋