I've been dating him for 4 months, and in the beginning we were both very offstandish from of our last relationships being very serious (both had been ended a while before we met each other) and still today we're both a little skitterish around commitment and such, esp him. He's probably going to be temporarily living with me for work purposes and we stay at one anothers house almost every night so i know that he's much more comfortable with our having a serious relationship.
I know that i love him even this soon, i want to tell him but i'm afraid to scare him because we've both been so odd about getting serious. Should i say it? It's almost slipt out a few times. should i make a deal out of it saying that he doesnt need to worry, or just let it slip out one of these days..
I feel like im a teen again....
2006-11-13 02:48:45 · 6 answers · asked by attila 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a friend pointed this out to me, i never really noticed. he makes jokes about loving me or me loving him sometimes. As in if i do something (usually some stupid favor liking getting him a drink) he'll love me forever or if im jokingly upset with him he said that i cant even pretend because i love him and i dont have it in me to be mad at him
2006-11-13 02:54:04 · update #1
if i was u i would get brave.come on just do it already.listen,take him out 2 dinner be really nice n normal(don't get so nervous!! ) hold his had tell him how nice he is cute n everything. then at the end say i love u.( look at him in the eyes n say it so he knows ur very serious.) if he is happy before u say it,n then after u sat it he looks unhappy that means he isn't ready to take it to the next level .then u don't brake up with him you just give it time girl.and before u kno it he will say it and ask to marry u!!! n i Hope u will say yes. like i said give it some time maybe he will say i love you before u say i love u.give it your best shot. what my mother use to say. good luck n u always feel like a teen when this happens!!!
your girl
ammira :)
2006-11-13 03:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by ~deelishis kisses~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I've felt the same way.. sort of scared to reveal my feelings.
In this case, I think it would be best to just tell him you love him.
Someone has to make the first move, and if you are both being shy, nothing will happen.
2006-11-13 02:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by herbal_tees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Him. Far too often partners wait for the other partner to say it first because they are afraid of the reaction that they will get when in turn most times the feelings are mutual..Go For It
2006-11-13 02:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him tell you first, that way it doesn't seem as if you wanting more or that you trying to push him into something that he's not ready for
2006-11-13 02:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead tell him...
its been hella long
man if i had a man
i be sayin i love him in maybe
two or three weeks....
yup but dont go hurtin urself now...
2006-11-13 02:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by Precious J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE CAREFUL YOU MIGHT DO SOMETHING YOU WILL REGRET...... GOOD LUCK.........
2006-11-13 02:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by rachael s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋