Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

I have been married 4 times.Only the first one lasted more than a year. We were together 12 years, married 7&1/2. I guess I am Lousy @ finding the right guy or lousy at being married! I am strong, and don't take well to being dominated, which they all seem to do. They are jealous of my Children, other men,any activity or friend I have etc.. I am obviously not a very good judge of Character, and (evidently) don't take enough time getting to know them. I don't want to be alone, every guy I date falls in love with me and immediatly wants to "own" me. I have never really played the field . But obviously "fall-in-love" way too easily. What do I do. I'm scared to try anymore.

2006-11-13 02:37:37 · 7 answers · asked by the23FireKeep 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do when you have a 17 year old son that is totally out of control? He calls me names, gets suspended from school for calling teachers names and getting into altercations with other students (fights). He is on probation however from another state and because the state that we leave in now does not think that his behavior is the extent and because he is not a delinquent (yet). No he just disrespects his mother and does what he wants to. He has served 10 days in a Juvenile Detention home just recently and it had no affect on him at all. If he doesn't get his way I am called Bitches on a daily basis and was just called a ***** when I picked him up from school on Thursday from a suspension. We are doing counseling but its not working. Please, please somebody tell me what I should do. It’s to a point where I have to throw my son out of my house. By the way keep in mind that this is a kid that is mentally challenged diagnose with Trauma Brain Injury at the age of 15 months...

2006-11-13 02:37:28 · 14 answers · asked by Pamela R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, quick scenerio, I have a child,boy 10yo born in florida , and a new born baby girl with my fiance whom I used to date 20 years ago we got back together 5 years ago. We are having major communication problems. I have tried to talk to him and he always defends the other person. He is surrounded by people who have not even graduated high school and are not too bright. He is treating me like I am one of those people. I asked him not to and he told me I was being small minded and to shut the f---- up among some other choice words. I get soo frustrated because he will not listen to me about anything. He makes things 2x as difficult for himself and me by not listening and/or communicating. Don't get me wrong it is not always like this or I would not have agreed to marry him or had a child with him. But everytime we get in a discussion about someone in our life he defends them and makes me feel like everything is my fault. I'm at the point where I am ready to leave.HELP! Any advise?

2006-11-13 02:36:30 · 9 answers · asked by Karlee bug 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont like all those silly silly type gals who just love to complain at the back of those absent ones and talk allthrough the time about shopping,accessories and sandals and dresses.i know most of the girls are like this(sorry to say gals but i have to solve my problem,PARDON!)and i dont get any friend in this way i only have a friend who is a boy and he is my first and best friend but i want someone living around my house.plz i cant tolerate such type of gals.help me out plz.in this i cant find a friend.so plz.

2006-11-13 02:35:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-13 02:34:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my guy friends at school always talk about how i hang out with my cuz.my cuzis a guy. well why would they say i chose to hang out with my cuz instead of them. i try to make plans with my guy friends but they keep brining up me hang with my cuz alot.

2006-11-13 02:31:29 · 10 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Friends

The last four guys I've been involved with have all let me down and hurt me in the same kind of way: i.e. giving me mixed messages, leading me on, messing me about...How can you tell if a guy is not going to treat you this way? I did talk to them about what they wanted and I took it into consideration but it made no difference. How can you tell if a man won't mess you around?

2006-11-13 02:31:10 · 20 answers · asked by rainbow 1 in Singles & Dating

I am friends with the guy I like. He is kinda the shy type, so I am doing little things to hint to him that I like him. Anyway, he came over saturday night, and picked up dinner on the way. He called and said "If you want somewhere besides where I chose just let me know.." I said "No..." he said "...cause I aim to please.." I laughed and said "Well, that's a GOOD thing.."

he got silent on the phone, then said "let me rephrase that..." and I said "huh, my mind went straight to the gutter there.." he said "Speaking of, where is your mom tonight?" (she is in the process of moving out of my house) "At her boyfriend's." "Ah."

The 'speaking of..' and then wondering if my mom is home got me to thinking that he was hinting.

So, while at my house, after we ate. We were sitting on different ends on the couch. I said "Can I cuddle by you?" and he said "Uhhhhhh.....uhhhhh....I....guess...if you HAVE to." I said "no.." "I mean if you absolutely MUST.." I said "no, no..I was just asking, no big deal." he said "Why am I cuddly?" I said "yeah." he said "Thank you for the compliment."

About 15 minutes later he left.

What did I do? He wigged! He hasn't called or anything since then. Anyone have any idea how to fix this?

2006-11-13 02:30:04 · 18 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

do you answer questions within a certain yahoo clique? i have been through about three cliques since i found this site, presently i lean towards a promiscuous intelliegent witty sexually oriented bunch, expressing/exploring the perverse part of self.

Who you hanging with? What is the focus of your answers and questions? WHAT YOU GETTING/GIVING TO / FROM THIS SITE ?

2006-11-13 02:29:14 · 13 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

And sexy videos (heterosexual)... I don't believe it-- doesn't that make them bisexual? Please explain *confused*

2006-11-13 02:29:14 · 19 answers · asked by reba 1 in Singles & Dating

If so, how much?

2006-11-13 02:29:08 · 27 answers · asked by Rachel S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 02:29:07 · 9 answers · asked by devin102791 2 in Singles & Dating

Whos word would you believe family or husband and there is not prove just words??

2006-11-13 02:27:19 · 38 answers · asked by jules 4 in Marriage & Divorce

of her psycho garbage. She and the Dad are not together and she HAS to have control over every situation and if not, she yells at me! I have my own kids and life, don't need this. She is one of those 'poor me' people who twists anything anyone says depending on her mood. I have tried to be nice and supportive of her- but it is time to cut the ties. Suggestions on how I do this since she is so darn dramatic???

2006-11-13 02:26:57 · 9 answers · asked by Smilingcheek 4 in Friends

2006-11-13 02:25:57 · 10 answers · asked by Thiery H 1 in Singles & Dating

we jave 2 children and we both work full time. All I ask of him is to pick up after himself, and take the trash out, i do all the rest of the household duties. Is this to much to ask? I am busy with the kids, a 2 yr old and a 7 monthold.

2006-11-13 02:25:49 · 21 answers · asked by treecesherry 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-13 02:25:44 · 17 answers · asked by Craig W 1 in Friends

With reference to "personal Hair style" ;-) do ladies prefer men to be natural, trimmed or bald?

2006-11-13 02:25:02 · 14 answers · asked by gnrryan 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that people don't want to believe that this happens more than what people want to admit? I am 35 yrs old,I suffered from every abuse there is,,,but now that I'm grown I have chosen to break the cycles.How often do you think sexual abuse occurs?

2006-11-13 02:24:42 · 7 answers · asked by Mother of 2 girls 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i asked my best guy friend out and now we are together

2006-11-13 02:24:37 · 3 answers · asked by amber_crrr 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend on and off for three years. We have lived together in the past, but it lead to arguments as he was out of work at the time, and I was a student. Lack of money fuelled the tense situation.

We got back together about a year and a half ago. I live in the family home with my brother and sisters (our mum left it to us whem she died). He lives in the pub where is is a manager.

It just seems as though we have such a childish relationship. We see eachother twice a week if that.

If I go to see him at the pub when he is working I don't get the chance to speak to him as he is so busy. The pub closes at 12am, and I have be be up for work early.

If he has a day off and comes and sees me, he doesn't like to stay as I have to be up early and he would like a lie in.

The moments we spend together are usually in the pub. I get so angry with the situation that I often start arguements. I have spoken to him about it but nothing has been solved

2006-11-13 02:24:19 · 26 answers · asked by sweetcheeks 2 in Singles & Dating

I find myself going on & checking throughout my day/nite...even while I am at work...it is very addicting & consumes you...sometimes I wish I didn't go on...but it's like a train wreck...you just can't help but look...*LOL*...how about you?

2006-11-13 02:24:19 · 14 answers · asked by godsmacksun23 3 in Singles & Dating

ive been chatting to a girl that i met on th einternet for about 3 years..we have met up only once...(we live about 400 miles away from each other) but we seem to really get on well and have so much in common...we have been speaking more about marrige..but how will i know if im ready? im 26 shes 27

2006-11-13 02:21:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i heard michael jackson has converted to islam is that true :(

2006-11-13 02:21:16 · 13 answers · asked by missing u2323 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 02:21:07 · 12 answers · asked by brandiamour 2 in Singles & Dating

his bday is 10 days b4 xmas iv'e already got that sorted out.i.e goin t a concert , meal out, some gadgets..now its xmas pressies that im stuck for!!

2006-11-13 02:20:28 · 9 answers · asked by spink20 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there anything worse than a nice looking girl with a moustache?

2006-11-13 02:20:01 · 25 answers · asked by Jamieson 5 in Singles & Dating

seriously. i'm conducting a poll to answer this questions for an article.

every old woman i've ever known has disliked animals--especially indoor pets. what are you're thoughts??

2006-11-13 02:19:56 · 11 answers · asked by blah123456 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bestfriend moved overseas for work.. we promised that wed stay in touch no matter what. He and I had a lot going when he was here. We used to hangout every single day. he's more than family to me. He's been gone for about a month, and I thought I could play it tough. But really it's very hard it hurts, I barely am happy... Ive tried meeting new folks, but they dont do it for me. He and I email almost 2-3 times a week. I know he is busy with work, and has limited internet access. Sometimes when I dont hear from him in a week it drives me nuts. What should I do? I honestly dont want to sound pushy and ask him to do more... But he's emails make my day, I just feel so alone sometimes. He went to Europe, I have to stay in the US to work on my MBA.

2006-11-13 02:19:44 · 3 answers · asked by dustin m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am totally depressed due to my wife's internet affair with a guy.She always fight with me for silly reasons and call me useless.I know about her affair for the last 7 years and waited till now for her to change and come back to me. But all my efferts are of no use. I am tired and living with out sex for more than 7 years.Please tell me if any one knows the best way to commit suicide.I dont think I can stand this anymore.

2006-11-13 02:18:11 · 24 answers · asked by sharkindo 1 in Marriage & Divorce