I am totally depressed due to my wife's internet affair with a guy.She always fight with me for silly reasons and call me useless.I know about her affair for the last 7 years and waited till now for her to change and come back to me. But all my efferts are of no use. I am tired and living with out sex for more than 7 years.Please tell me if any one knows the best way to commit suicide.I dont think I can stand this anymore.
2006-11-13 02:18:11 · 24 answers · asked by sharkindo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your question is a real call for help. Don't you realize there are many of people that would of loved to live. Many of our Men and Women of Military are just a few. Then a problem arises, that isn't life or death issue. Yet, you want the easy, unforgivable sin, way out. Words spoken have power.
2006-11-13 03:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sharkando: Listen to me my friend. I've been down that road, there are other ways to get over this. You'd better think about calling a "hotline" for help, anyone even if you walk into a ER and tell them what's wrong.
Do not stay alone under these conditions. Call a relative, a priest, someone you can trust.
You will get over her with time. I've been there, it doesn't work and when I look back on it, I wonder why i thought that way.
Take care now.
2006-11-13 02:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to find the strength to find help for yourself. Suicide is never the answer for you, the one you want to effect, and your family and friends. Your wife seems to be absent of conscience, so your death will not impact her as you wish. It will traumatically effect the people who love and care for you. The pain will be with your friends and families. Instead of committing suicide, bury your old self and recreate yourself. Start a new life without the person or persons who causes you such pain. See your physician, clergy, or mental help professional. You can live without the pain and depression. You would be surprised to see the world from a different perspective.
2006-11-13 02:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death by lethal injection is supposed to be painless. Anything you would be able to obtain more than likely wouldn't be. Most pill poppers end up vomiting profusely before they die. That can't be fun. Many people who seriously attempt suicide, survive. Often with permanent disabilities. You think life is rough now? It sure want get any better when you are paralyzed, or worse have such sever brain damage that you need someone to wipe the drool off your mouth and change your diaper. Good Luck to you.
2016-03-19 07:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please please dont do this i just suffered the worst break up of my life and i had some suicidal thoughts i rode through it and its hard for me now to contimplate that i let anyone disturb me so much that i would contimplate not wanting to live dont let any one rob y0u including your self of the gift of life that is so full of wonders when was the last time you tasted choclate had sushi with friends felt the sand benieth your feet watched the sun rist held a baby took a nap sneezed laughed at a great comedy felt the base of music and lights flash through your closed eyes as you danced with recless abandon till all hours of the night when was the last time you sipped a good red wine felt the joy of volinteering fed a hungary person got in the car or on a plane to see a part of the world you have never seen tried painting or looked at the beauty of the master de vinches work when was the last time you saw your friends and family and thought about how much they loved you or sat and meditated on how God has something suprising and wonderful around the corner for you when do you really want to give all that up because a woman gave you great pain you could be helping the children in the middle east that are with out parents or the ones here too much to live for i am not going to tell you how to die just how to live
2006-11-13 02:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by dancfan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't commit suicide, leave her. Gather evidence of the affair and file for divorce and hang the whole thing on her. I hope you don't have kids because if you kill your self they will always blame themselves for it and you CAN'T do that to children.
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2006-11-13 02:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by eric_the_red_101 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is not the answer. Life is to precious to just end it cause you don't feel like going on. Take it from some one who has tried to commit suicide. Once your gone, what about all the people who really care about you, what about their feelings. I feel that's just not the answer. F*ck her! Let her go if she wants to. Go out and find some new pussy. Hell you said 7 years so I know you ready to burst, so go out and find some one who will care for you the way you want them to. There are plenty of women (and pussy) in the world so don't let your d*ck revolve around just one. Hope that helps.
2006-11-13 02:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by Pumpkin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you're better than that. Second of all, your life is worth more than a quick snuffing out. Yes, your wife cheated on you, hoewever, think about it this way...if she is the one doing the cheating and youre the one waiting for her to come back, this should tell you about her character! She is obviously a mean, cold-hearted woman who has no regard for your feelings! Just because she cheated doesn't mean you're worthless and need to kill yourself. It means that you fell in love with the wrong woman. The hardest thing you'll ever do is go to a counselor, but you need to try it for a few months and see if it helps. You need to learn to love yourself and respect yourself. Don't depend on someone else to love you. When you love and respect yourself, the perfect person will come into your life. You are obviously a sensitive, caring person, and that right there is worth loving. Don't focus on her anymore, get yourself some guidance and focus on getting you better, good things will come back into your life. Let her go, she's not worthy of you.
2006-11-13 02:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by mercymarie3 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to wake up and realize killing yourself is DEFINITELY not the answer here.
The answer is to move on and find someone that will appreciate you and love you the way you deserve.
I've been there and I'm soo happy I chose life, life is what you make it and you can make it whatever you want, that is what is so great about this wonderful country, we can make our life the way we won't.
If there are children involve please consider them as an important prospect in this and think of them, don't be selfish, they need you.
2006-11-13 02:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by LC 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't let ur wife win! There are so many woman out there! I wouldn't wait any longer if I was you to look for someone who will love you! Everyone needs to be loved and you deserve it. Then after you find her the sex part will come. 7 years isn't that long to be married. Maybe you can find a lady that you could be married to for a lot longer. Remember take things day by day...May God bless you!
2006-11-13 02:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋