sex tips please!?

Question

me and my bloke have been together for nearly 5 years and we still have a very good active sex life but i would like some new tips to keep it all alive, any idears please also men what do you like best what works for you? thank you

Answer 1

I've been married for ten years. I have a certain game I like to play with my husband when I'm feeling bored. I make up a certain minute rule. Like I'll say, we may not touch eachoters "areas" for 30 minutes. You can touch anything else until then. He loves it. It makes him crazy and he ravishes me like it was our first time. Sometimes he does it to me. Sometimes I wanna get right to the action and he'll start the rule and then HE GETS THE RAVISHING. I'll do just about anything to make him give up his rule. It's fun. Pure and simple. I hope you find some cool ideas. Sex is so much fun. Even for long term lovers.

Answer 2

Yikes, there are so many options. Not knowing what you have and have not done before will make it difficult to help here. But some suggestions are trying things like:

role playing, anal sex, getting other people involved (three somes), toys (for both of you), watching porn, light bondage, new positions (just pick up a book on the subject)... basically anything new will help to change it up. Spend some time in a self help section of a book store, you might find some answers there.

I hope this helps, and good luck!

Answer 3

When we get in a rut, I like to recyclye ideas from past (s)excapades. It depends how daring you are you could try:

1. Calling him during the day to thank him for last night and let him know you can't wait for round 2 (or 3 or 4)

2. Telling him you want to meet him for a secret rendevous (Like the laundry room or the dwnstrs bathroom or ...... the park.)

3. Leave him spicy notes in his pockets, or shave kit or somewhere he will be sure to find it, telling him what you want to do.

You get the idea, I have tons of ideas if you need more.

Answer 4

From a blokes point of view, a bl*w Job is always good. Or try something different. Different setting, clothing, position, etc...Just don't pressure each other into anything or feel embarassed. Have fun!

Answer 5

Why do u not share ur researches during the last 5 years to encourage others to do the same?

Answer 6

Try doing something slow and sensual. Make the room nice and warm and do evrything in slow motion. It's very erotic. Scented candles help too.

Answer 7

For me it's trying new things that make it more fun, as with time it should get better. My gf never liked to use her boobs before until she saw how turned on they made me. So for an example she will slide between my legs as I lie on my back and use her boobs to make me hard and if she really is in a good mood she will make me c-m and let me c-m on her boobs and face. Or she will do the same thing but lie on her back and I sit on her and put it between her boobs and slide it back and forth until I c-m on her, she has learned to like watching my c-m. She sees me get more into sex and different positions in which see can see my c-m.

Answer 8

it depends what he's into you know him better than anyone. dressing up is usually a good one. when he gets in from work, be cooking him a nice meal in a sexy french maids outfit. music he likes, candles, hot bath, then imagination and whatever takes your fancy. a few toys can be good aswell. good luck relax and enjoy.

Answer 9

there are a number of things you could try. Outdoor sex, public sex, 3somes, dressing up, role play etc

think of somewhere youve never done it and is a little daring and then take advantage.

Answer 10

Cleanliness, new lingerie, leave a (clean) pair of panties where he will "find" them. Undress him as soon as he comes in the door, join him in the shower. Cook his favorites more often.