2006-11-13 02:49:00 · 17 answers · asked by KEVIN D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a divorce! you'll be happier!
2006-11-13 02:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman tells you she doesn't care... trust that she has either someone else or she has a plan in the making to see someone else. I would wait patiently for her to make the first move because once infidelity takes place, alimony is the last thing the courts are going to be willing to award her. If she wants to see other people because she no longer loves you then at least she could do is have enough respect for you as a man and separate like a lady. Not throw you to wolves and ask for support. I don't think she should be rewarded for such tasteless behavior.
Good Luck
2006-11-13 11:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care you her and who else your children.... do you really think that she means this? Okay you and your wife don't get on, and she is saying that you can sleep with who ever you want just as long as you take care of her...okay you go ahead and sleep with someone else and as soon as you do this your wife can divorce you on the grounds that you slept with another party, and if she takes you to court and if you do have children, she can use that evidence against you to get your kids and then you will have to look and take care of her, and you will get a lot more grief as well. Is it worth it?
Have you and your wife tried to work it out if you have and have got no where, maybe you should move out, but at the end of the day the choice is yours if you want to sleep with someone go right ahead
2006-11-13 10:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and....what? Either she is joking with you, or giving you a reason to cheat so it will make the divorce alot easier, and the alimony too. I would think about this before diving in head first. If she said that and is not joking, then maybe you need to seek therapy. If she is still serious, then you need a divorce, and get out while you can. Good luck! :)
2006-11-13 10:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by metallicachic82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can take care of the kids without being there if its going to bed like that. and i think you'll have a hard time found a decent looking woman to get sleep with u while you stay married
2006-11-13 11:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship is too damaged to repair then get a divorce. If you have kids and are raiseing them is a loveless house then you are causing harm to them. If you begin sleeping around the kids will eventually figure it out and that is not healthy either.
Either fix the marriage or get out.
2006-11-13 10:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by eric_the_red_101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her? Are there children? Why do you disagree, fight, or whatever? Communication is important. If there is no love, trust, communication, you will get tired of supporting her, "taking care" of her with no happiness, love in return. Seriously think, try counseling. Good luck.
2006-11-13 10:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your question?
It's not going to work. For an open relationship to benefit a couple, there needs to be security and love, neither of which you two appear to share.
2006-11-13 10:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not healthy!!! But if that is something that you are willing to deal with go for it. But I would try marriage counselling. If that doesnt work you two should get an divorce..
But you have to follow your heart and whatever your heart desires you go for it
2006-11-13 10:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a man and take care of them , but move out a.s.a.p. that way the lady can not keep tabs on you .
that's what she really is saying you you ( see if i can trust this guy)
2006-11-13 10:55:23 · answer #10 · answered by lorencarrierpocatello 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋