me & my best friend since 2nd grade are fighting & it doesn't look like we're gonna make up?

Question

ok i have a friend well as of now EX-friend that i have known since 2nd grade. we have been fighting & haven't talked in about a week. the reason we are fighting is that tuesday i was waiting for my bus & we were playing around in line as usual. i said something dumb & she went and told this girl that i don't really care for & to be honest it was none of her business. well i told my friend plz not to & she did anyway despite my begging well i got mad and i was trying to calm down when another friend asked what was wrong & b4 i could say anything my ex-best friend brushed it off like it was nothing & i had no reason to be mad. well i snapped & told her what was really wrong & we haven't talked since. she is always ragging on my clothes, hair, makeup, etc. & i wear the best & newest stuff & whenever i try to talk about my hobbies she knodds and acts like she's listening & then goes" i don't really care" & she is ALWAYS calling me selfcentered & a brat

whenever i say something that she thinks is funny she tells a teacher or random person walking by & it hurts i feel like i am just there to be her private comedian i mean she says she's my bff then y does she enjoy my pain so much?
i am not going to apologize & she said it is my fight & that if i don't apologize it's over & i think i have more reason to be mad than she does
i am in middle school we've been friends since 2nd grade
bff= best friend

Answer 1

Your friend is very spiteful... Which means that she does things intentional knowing that they hurt you, and is not bothered by it, might be entertaining for her... Any who, No you don't owe her any apology.... I know that you want to fix this because you have been friends for so long, but she needs to mature, you should act like it doesn't bother you anymore.. the next time you go to school Ignore her.. talk to somebody else another friend.. act as if that person has takin your best friends place.. just sit back and laugh and joke with somebody else like you did with her.. If she really gives a Sh*t.. she will holla at you.. tryin to be cool with you again,

Answer 2

well first of all, i think it's terrible that your friend would go tell something you said about this other person after you asked her not to. sounds like she was just out to hurt you and i don't really call that being a friend. friends are suppose to stick up for each other unless they are doing something wrong. All the things that she is calling you seems to apply to her and i think i would just leave her alone and if you still want to be friends, she needs to apologize to you and act like a friend.

Answer 3

i think u feel u have no other freinds and dont know how to start...if shes picking on u all the time like u make it sounds, move on and make new 'bff'. keep acquaintaces with her, holding grudges is immature...but learn the limits.

Answer 4

i know it hurts but she isnt worth it. you dont need anyone treating you like that. if she has no problem dropping you like a bad habbit, she isnt a REAL friend.