Ok...what would you think if, your g/f went to a friends house with 3 of her other girl friends and got drunk but you couldnt be there bc you had something else you had to do....
and there was another guy there but he was there for one of her friends, but since she wasnt really interested in him after she was drunk and so he went to your gf...and left bruises on her bc she didnt want to do anything with him bc she loved you and didnt want that guy....and the day after she told you about it
would you believe that she didnt do anything with him?
would you even have to ask her more than once?
what would you do?
why would you do that?
2006-11-13 02:11:46 · 11 answers · asked by KaKes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok well when he left the bruises on me i was past out in the bath tub and i woke up to him trying to get his hands in my pants so i pushed him away and then he got pissed!
2006-11-13 02:24:44 · update #1
for myself i would be wanting to leave bruises on the other guy --- preferably from being manhandled by big ugly characters in jail after being arrested for assault
yes i would believe her and would not need to ask more than once
2006-11-13 02:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I trusted my girlfriend I would believe her and wouldn't need to ask her more than once. I would go talk with the guy and tell him to stay away from my girlfriend--and if that didn't work, I might have to kick is A*?*--if you know what I mean. I would do that because I love my girlfriend and need to protect her when she is in danger.
If I didn't trust my girlfriend, then I might not believe her and I would want to ask her more than once about this story and then ask the guy about it and see where the lies are. Then I would get mad at my girlfriend and most likely not be with her anymore. I would do that because I don't like being lied to and not taken advantage of.
The question you must ask is: Have you given your boyfriend any reason in the past to NOT trust you?? If he didn't trust you before this incident, he will not be able to trust you after this incident. If he did trust you before this happened, and he's a smart guy, he will trust you after this happened.
2006-11-13 10:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a case of assault and battery.. He should be going to jail over it. Why hasn't there been charges pressed?
Now as for the g/f; I would have to question her about how she makes choices in life. Why was she there without supervision? Why was she so drunk that she could not defend herself? Why didn't she get help from the others? Is she really that stupid?
Someone here has serious maturity issues. I suggest you grow up some before asking anyone to trust you. Until you can make better choices he will not trust you. What you do now will continue to build your reputation in the future. Unless you want to be called drunken trash the rest of your life.
2006-11-13 10:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by my_iq_135 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would wonder why if the girls went somewhere and started drinking they had just one guy there with them. And, I would really wonder about the kind of guy that would try to take advantage of first one drunk girl and then another...and hit her when she said "No" Sounds as though both of you need a new set of friends.
2006-11-13 10:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like your girlfriend was abused or attacked.
although it was not good for her to get drunk to the point where she was in a state of being unable to defend herself, but it's not her fault that this guy came on to her.
i would encourage her to file a report with the police about this. whomever this guy is, we don't want him to be able to attack more and more girls every time he's at a party.
2006-11-13 10:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I'd believe her and that guy would be feeding through an IV for the rest of his life.
2006-11-13 10:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take my girls word for it, because i trust her. Then i would find the guy who did it and beat the living snot out of him. Then pee on him probably.
2006-11-13 10:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by edu_jr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no guy, but the girlfriend needs to report this sexual assault to the police QUICK!!!
2006-11-13 10:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok umm you no umm i dont know what to tell you sorry never happened to me
2006-11-13 10:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda Fay! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, yes i would believe her and i would be on my way to kick his a_ss.
2006-11-13 10:15:26 · answer #10 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋