Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

Ok. all of the crazy teenager people who are out there having sex don't answer ok.
I have a bofriend who is 16. He is so different then all the other stupid crazy teenagers in the world as a kid and still going on now he goes through hell and his family has abandoned him. I love him.. you might not believe me but i do. he is 2 1/2 yrs. older than i am. My mother approves of him because of the way that he is. He loves me and cares so much some people ask if he's gay. He;s not. Because of the age difference their are bounderies that he and i are expected to stay within. Like no kissing,sex, etc... i don't want sex at all and neither does he.. I want him to hold me in his arms and kiss me though but then it would brake the trust that we have with my mom. in so many ways he seems like a big brother. its weird. but i want him to kiss me and embrace me but he and i respect my moms rules. Should we do it anyway.... if so how do i keep it from her i tell her everything she's. ug

2006-11-13 12:19:37 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole G 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I like this guy, but I am worried if we become BF and GF that we will have absolutely nothing to talk about! We flirt and tease alot right now,but... any suggestions for if we get together? (BTW, I am in 8th...)

2006-11-13 12:18:59 · 6 answers · asked by Unowen 3 in Singles & Dating

it's like some kind of nymphomaniac outbreak or something going on out there.
sigh.....

2006-11-13 12:18:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay there's this guy i like he went out with my friend and she broke up with him.he stilled like her but liked me too then today i found out they go back out i asked my friend she said yes but the only reason why she's gping out with him beacuase his friend kept bugging him about going back out with my crush.i really like him we use to flirt and everything.i think i should ingore him but not quite sure

2006-11-13 12:18:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently read my wife's journal...not a habit of mine...just messing around one day. Couple month's later, I told her about it in passing. She became extremely upset. She works out of town...before she left this latest time she left her wedding ring on the counter with a note saying that the marriage had to be re-evaluated. I know I screwed up...but this response seems so extreme at first light. Then I put myself in her shoes...I can understand trust was violated. I can understand that a spouse has no right to intrude on the other's private thoughts/dreams. I LOVE MY WIFE. I WANT HER BACK. I have apologized, but those words fall on death ears when trust has been violated. Help!

2006-11-13 12:18:39 · 23 answers · asked by forester 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She is ashamed of me becuz I am overweight, but I am also 18 years older and have a child. She has excluded me from her life since she went to college. I have never been invited for family weekends, or anything in four years. I have spoke to her a dozen times in four years becuz I made all the calls myself!! She has been engaged and now has another serious boyfriend and I have never been included. I met the one boyfriend after they were engaged for a year! Now she has a new guy and I have never even heard of him. She sucks. I send her gifts, clothes all the time and I have had it. She has never once visited her little "brother" or bought him a gift and I have spent thousands of $$ on her.
She is lazy and self-centered. I hope she gets fat someday and gets to see how it feels. Life is short and your family is all you got sometimes. This is why I spend all Holidays away from family. I will never go to my families house for a holiday again and risk embarassing her.
No more sister.

2006-11-13 12:18:36 · 8 answers · asked by texangirl 1 in Family

My friend is sick. I want to go over to her house with flowers and ask her how she is feeling. Since I haven't met her parents or gone over to her house, would it be weird if they didn't know I was coming? I met her just last year and nobody cares for her because all her other friends are selfish and don't wanna help anybody. Should I go?

2006-11-13 12:18:18 · 19 answers · asked by Aliza 2 in Friends

They say they will call you back but don't
If you're not going to call me back say so and don't make up a lie as to why you can't talk now.

2006-11-13 12:17:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am ok with being friends with benefits, and I have this one guy friend who I hang out with for that. Now this guy seems to say something to me everyday through email whether it's hello or he just wanted to see how my day was going. I asked my girlfriend why does he send me an email every day and she said maybe because he is trying to be my friend because if you don't have the friends part then you end up looking like a hoe because all you will have is just the benefits part. I thought that was the way it was suppose to be since this is a new phase I am going through and really enjoy. I like the no strings attached that's why I never really said anything to him until it was time to hang out again. She said I need to stop taking a guys approach to this, and ask this guy if he would like to catch a movie or go out to eat or something so we can get a better feel for each other even if we pay for ourselves when we do go out. My question is, is that really what friends with benefits do?

2006-11-13 12:16:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he just found out we have been lying to him and is avoiding us. I am his best friend.

2006-11-13 12:15:12 · 12 answers · asked by harry d 2 in Singles & Dating

I am ok with being friends with benefits, and I have this one guy friend who I hang out with for that. Now this guy seems to say something to me everyday through email whether it's hello or he just wanted to see how my day was going. I asked my girlfriend why does he send me an email every day and she said maybe because he is trying to be my friend because if you don't have the friends part then you end up looking like a hoe because all you will have is just the benefits part. I thought that was the way it was suppose to be since this is a new phase I am going through and really enjoy. I like the no strings attached that's why I never really said anything to him until it was time to hang out again. She said I need to stop taking a guys approach to this, and ask this guy if he would like to catch a movie or go out to eat or something so we can get a better feel for each other even if we pay for ourselves when we do go out. My question is, is that really what friends with benefits do?

2006-11-13 12:14:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Plz help....my boyfriend and i are in a fight rite now. Well its not really a fight but we're kinda slowly breaking up. I like him and he likes me but he always think I don't like him anymore. He doesn't talk to me anymore and I still REALLY do like him!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-13 12:14:21 · 10 answers · asked by gigglegeek 2 in Singles & Dating

is more likely to cheat later in life than those who had experienced many relationships before marrying?

2006-11-13 12:14:08 · 8 answers · asked by julvert h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here is difficult question for you, how does one have a 'successful relationship' with Asperger's Syndrome. I am refering in this instance to dateing and marrage situations. If you don't know what AS is then please research BEFORE answering. I thank you for your insights.

2006-11-13 12:13:31 · 2 answers · asked by Arthur N 4 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and his and 1 of his sis are very close. she lives oversaea,but came to visit us recently. i never had a problem with her becuz i never met her,but for the two mnths she stayed with us my boyfriend ignored me. i understand they haven't seen each other in 3yrs and she help take care of him when they mom died. the thing that scare me is when she comes to live in new york since he is fileing for her, we might break up because i will not me able to bare it if he ignores me again.

2006-11-13 12:12:55 · 8 answers · asked by ms attitude 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 12:12:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 12:11:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 12:11:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so let's say there's this guy Eric. and he is in one of my classes. now i'm really nice to everyone, so i tried being friends with eric this year. and all of a sudden he's helping me with homework, staying after school with me, and he even gave me his phone number and said i should call him if i need more homework help. i doubt he wants anything, cuz he's always staring at me in class too,
right now i was just talking to him online, and he wasn't really replying, so i asked him what was up and he said that he was being distracted, by another girl. so i said he should go talk to her because i'm obviously in the way... and he left. what's that all supposed to mean?

2006-11-13 12:11:10 · 16 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 12:10:04 · 13 answers · asked by julvert h 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok...so, I finally told this guy, we'll call him....Drake, that I liked him. He was very glad and said he likes me.He just broke up with his girlfriend and I was sad for her. Well, today, he was flirting with her...AND me...and had his arms on her waste, whispering in her ear something.....what am I to do? He loves this girl, but claims to like me too!! how do i cope with this mess????? I mean. I basically broke DOWN!....help me please!

2006-11-13 12:09:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We left our home that was paid for to come live by my grown son and his children,his idea...We have been here 6 months,my son is wealthy,lot of rentals,we picked a mobil cause it was close to his family..He said rent free,and so we did..all this was his idea.Now he dropped a letter in our mail box,telling me that I expected him to take care of us and ask us to move that he did not owe us anything,which I have never ask him for anything.It cost us lot of money to move here,and both myself and husband are onSS...I am so hurt,I don,t think I will ever get over this,but i do plan to move back hm asap..What do you think of this?

2006-11-13 12:08:27 · 16 answers · asked by slickcut 5 in Family

I have known this girl for quite a while...we began to become better friends this school year. But then something happened...i really do not know what though. She went from laughing and talking to me....to completely ignoring me. I have not spoken to her in a REAL conversation since thursday, when we typically talk all of the time between classes ,in classes,at lockers....ect.
It's like she decided to hate me over night!!!!!!
what is her problem?????????????? IT IS DRIVING ME INSANE.
and if i did anything to make her mad...i would know if i did!!!
should i just ignore her too.?

2006-11-13 12:08:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a best male friend who is a lot younger than me. We care a lot for each other but I also feel attached to him and would be devastated if our friendship ended He says we will be friends for ever but I always feel that he wouldnt be as upset as I am if the friendship ended. We hug a lot when we meet We argue at times but we always try to sort it out even if it takes a lot of discussion. I am scared that if he starts to date I will hardly ever see him I also dont know how we could have these arguments and sort them out as I feel sure a gf wouldnt like us having such a close friendship Would u mind ur bf having a close older female friend? Am i right to be scared?

2006-11-13 12:07:51 · 9 answers · asked by maryjane 1 in Friends

I'am 12 soon to be 13 and want a girlfriend.Plus how do you stick a love note in a locker without people seeing you.Do you know any good places for a note only they or there friends will find?Thanks!Have a good Thankgiving!!!

2006-11-13 12:07:01 · 14 answers · asked by Big Rig22 1 in Singles & Dating

why do bullies who think they are gangsters and pimps because thy talk dirty when in reality they can't get a girl for their lives think they deserve any better ?

and why do sluts who call themselves hot sexy beautiful and cute think they deserve better guys when in reality they only deserve the ones who want to take advantage of them?

2006-11-13 12:06:33 · 7 answers · asked by obvlious56 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 12:05:51 · 15 answers · asked by fuzzbutt_jr 1 in Singles & Dating

Im dating a guy and I was wondering what type of game is he playing if he keeps telling me He thinks im too good for him and that he wants me to find happiness with someone else. And he tells me bad things about himself like he thinks hes ugly on the inside. But then when I tell him ok fine I'll find somebody else he says he doesnt want to stop seeing me. WHAT KINDA GAMES IS HE PLAYING?

2006-11-13 12:05:32 · 15 answers · asked by miranda 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 12:05:24 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 12:04:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce