Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

take my boyfriend for instance, when something is wrong he can tell. it bugs me so bad. But then again it is awesome to have a boyfriend that cares for you and always can tell when something is wrong.

2006-11-13 11:34:02 · 9 answers · asked by jack_attack0322 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm very close friends with 7 other women - we have been friends since grade school. I recently suggested that my girlfriends and I should go fly away for the weekend for our 40th birthday (2 1/2 yrs away). I'm married, 2 kids and the kids would be 9 and 7 at the time of the trip. My husband says I should not go on this trip because: 1. the expense of the trip will take away from the family vacation if I go on this trip, 2. he doesn't take any trips without the kids and myself and 3. he feels that as a mother my first priority should be the family and not out taking far away trips with old girlfriends. He also says he will divorce me if I go on this trip. I say he's overreacting and should let me go. Please give me your opinion on this matter.

2006-11-13 11:34:00 · 33 answers · asked by KD 1 in Marriage & Divorce

marriage to my boyfriend without it bein' awkward? He's been married before, but it wasn't a traditional wedding. He was married by the Justice of Peace.

2006-11-13 11:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-13 11:32:58 · 16 answers · asked by Thebronx 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother claims to have something wrong with him everyday. He goes to the hospital all the time for all his aches and pains. And whenever he does something or goes somewhere something seems to happen to him and he ends up calling a lawyer. I want to make him a gag gift basket for Christmas with stuff in it to help him "survive" the traggies life brings him. :-) Like a first aid kit. What else could I put in it? Any ideas what to use as the container?

2006-11-13 11:32:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my friends keep saying i should dump my bf because he is hanging out with this other girl i thinki can trust him but should i?????????and i dont know how to talk to him about it please help me

2006-11-13 11:31:42 · 7 answers · asked by rockchick182 2 in Singles & Dating

the boy that i like and the one who asked me out is aarin(ah-rin)i said yes i want to go out with you and he said ok lets keep it on the download!!!!!!!

2006-11-13 11:31:09 · 11 answers · asked by leka t 1 in Singles & Dating

i have no clue what to fix so can someone help me out please

2006-11-13 11:30:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

there's a girl i really like who says she could like me when she gets to know me better. we go to school together and have been e-mailing back and forth and seem intelluctually compatiable. problem is that this girl is so pretty and i think she is out of my league. when we are physically together, i can't be cool bc her eyes are so pretty. so i said to her that i couldn't look at her bc she as too pretty. she just said that this may be a potential problem, so how to be cool around her so she can get to know me?

2006-11-13 11:30:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 11:30:27 · 4 answers · asked by Tommy A 2 in Friends

A few months ago, while I was overseas and out of contact for a week or so, my bf started talking to another girl that he met online. She knew that he had a gf and she had a bf at that time too, but he claims that she was very blatant about liking him and flirting with him. After chatting for a week she asked him to hang out at the mall together and he went. They also had a drink together afterwards which he paid for. However, he felt guilty about it and didnt want me to ever find out so he broke off all contact with her soon after. I only found out about this accidentally weeks afterwards when I saw some emails from her in his inbox asking him why he didn't talk to her anymore. However, he tried to lie to me about some things that happened (eg. he lied about having a drink w her; he lied initially about meeting up w her, etc). Is this considered cheating?

2006-11-13 11:30:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy that i really like is always hugging me and laying his head on my shoulder, does this seem like he's really into me or what?

2006-11-13 11:29:59 · 8 answers · asked by honey_pooh2004 1 in Singles & Dating

it doesnt have to b something spectacular, just something that will make him feel loved and all fuzzy inside. i just want him to kno i love him more than nethin

2006-11-13 11:29:59 · 20 answers · asked by geomanach 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 11:29:26 · 14 answers · asked by Sarah B 1 in Friends

Im only 14 and he only 17. we have been dating for 2 months

I have really bad eatin habits and hes hates it, hes always tryin to get me to eat but im to stubbern and i wont ever eat infront of him. I have extremely low self confidence and i think im really fat and i need to lose weight. but he says that im not fat and he likes me the way i am but im never comfy around him because of how self conscious i am. Hes tryin really hard to break my habits but i got a feeling its getting worse. He says that i get to carried away with it and i could lose him. I starve myself and am sometimes bulimic. am i at risk of losing my loved one?

2006-11-13 11:28:03 · 9 answers · asked by hopeless_romantic_lee_lee43 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sposue left me for another...now I feel condemned to being alone...the stats don't look good for a 50 y/o woman...even though I am attractive, finacially stabel and professional...help give me some faith that it is possible and that the stats are just numbers. I am the eternal 'married lady', so being alone is slowly killing me.

2006-11-13 11:27:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or would it be your fault that you were unable to uncover that before you got married, and your punishment would be that you have to endure it forever???

2006-11-13 11:27:16 · 12 answers · asked by tspbrady 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i need them ASAP!!!!!Thanx!

2006-11-13 11:26:46 · 5 answers · asked by Cynthia Cynsational 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been with my girlfriend for two years and I love her very much but I dont know how too put it into words so she wont think im being mean.But,she is 5'5 and.... she use to be 120.... know shes 150 pounds and im not attracted to her right now her face is all puffy and her body is grossing me out,and she wonders why im never in the mood...how do I tell her in a nice way that she better shape up .....or im shipping out??Ladies no rude remarks....

2006-11-13 11:26:31 · 32 answers · asked by aggie f 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. im 21 he's 29 and all my friends think we should've got engaged on my 21st birthday, i actually had to warn him not to ask me. its not that i dont want to marry him as im sure one day we will, just not yet. im way too young to be gettin married and if i got engaged now we'd only end up being engaged for about 5 years which is pointless as when i do get engaged i want it to be for 2 years max. my boyfriend loves me and he would marry me tomorrow if agreed and i cant help feel like im letting him down by having to wait for me.

My main worry now is that ive always dreamt that when i do get proposed to it will be all romantic and spontaneous, now i cant help feeing like my lifes mapped out and il wake up one morning and it'l be like rite we'l get engaged. anyone else feel like this ?? or am i just being silly ??

2006-11-13 11:26:06 · 11 answers · asked by Caz 4 in Weddings

Ok this guy keeps looking at me and one time he came up and tickled me and just today he hit me with his jacket.Is is just me or does he like me?I need to know.

2006-11-13 11:25:16 · 4 answers · asked by LACANGEL9009 2 in Singles & Dating

we are both adults. he is 33 and i am 26. we are in love and we care for each other. things happen for a reason and theres nothin we can do. he said he doesnt want to be with me now & maybe in the future if we both dont find anything good we could be. or if its meant to be we wil be back again. i love him so much and i do want to give him space now but i really want to try again later.. i know i should move on..but how long can i wait til he calls me ( if he really cares he will right?) should i wait few weeks or a month?

our problems couldnt be solved cus there was no solution. neighter one of us coudl do anything about it.. he lives w/ an ex ( 13yrs ago) and i was havin trouble accepting it. i went crazy and started to snoop arond n stuff. which is so bad! i wanted to leave the relationship too and was planning on breakin up....but do u think we'l have a chance in the future? i know right now we dont.. is there such thing as fate and hope?

2006-11-13 11:24:14 · 6 answers · asked by julie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

thought we had a good relationship (7 years)till he dumped me (26) for and 18 year old is he (27) really thinking about this like he even lied about his age when he met her and i found that out cuz she got my number off his phone..ok and my friend at work got dumped after 3 years for someone younger than 18 why do people do this like replace a good,old thing with something shiny and new ? do people get tired of their relationships and they think someone newand younger would help make them better or is it all an immaturity thing they dont want or feel ready to grow up so they find someone younger so they dont have to grow up anytime soon? i heard this happen to a couple other people i know im probably just venting but i wanted to know other peoples opinions about it

2006-11-13 11:23:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive never had sex before and im ready but my bf i dont know about i love him so much ive gone out with him for 6 months but i dont know if hes ready were both 13 and i love him so much. does it hurt your first time?

2006-11-13 11:23:06 · 14 answers · asked by guy 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-13 11:22:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 11:22:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's about my mom,she called me and tell so much thing that depressed me. First of all she told me that I'm nothing and then I can't help anybody for nothing. She said that I never give her some money then I'm a bad girl. I said: but mom you know I have nothing(I don't work). She said yes but you have a husband.

She needs me take money from my husband for her and my brothers. I don't like that. How I can do this to him? I don't know why but I feel if I continue to listen to her my marriage will be ruined.

2006-11-13 11:21:44 · 15 answers · asked by lounalove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Explain similar dos and donts.? How are guys similar and different?

2006-11-13 11:19:49 · 1 answers · asked by kat 1 in Singles & Dating

Any tips?????????????

2006-11-13 11:19:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a serious problem. i met a very special man in ghana when i was there doing some humanitarian work. i will be going back soon (i am from the u.s.) and we plan to marry and come back here to start a family. the problem is with my family. they don't trust our relationship and they think that my fiance is a con artist and is only using me to have a way into the u.s. i think that they should trust my judgement and accept that we love each other and want to be together. what should i do?

2006-11-13 11:19:28 · 1 answers · asked by KylieM 6 in Singles & Dating