Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

i treat him very good!! i can cook very good and i keep a clean home. and still he chooses to cheat,why???????????????

2006-11-13 11:19:00 · 34 answers · asked by daddysgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

When a shy person is attracted to someone do they show it right away or does the shyness get in the way? Like suppose Person A feels attracted to Person B and maybe Person B is also attracted to Person A. Suppose Person B is wondering if there is attraction on a mutual level. Would a shy Person A be too shy and not talk to Person B and let Peron B slip by?
Thank you for your time.

2006-11-13 11:18:17 · 8 answers · asked by Hello K 2 in Singles & Dating

we been going out for three weeks and he still seems nervouse how can i help him!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-13 11:17:55 · 11 answers · asked by rockchick182 2 in Singles & Dating

I just started dating someone and we seem to be running out of things to do fast, mainly because I'm an unemployed full-time student right now. Our past couple dates he has insisted on paying because he knows I'm beyond broke and I don't think it's fair to him. Does anyone have any fun, simple ideas that don't require too much money or travel? (I don't have a car, he does, so driving would mean he's paying for gas)

2006-11-13 11:17:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey this girl i know has never gone out with anybody, or been kissed...since she's curious as to why, i was thinking to describe her on here and see what you guys think, just out of curiousity. (btw she's not single cuz she turned people down--no one's asked her out.)

Ok, she's 16, very laid-back,smart, & really funny..she has really long hair and is short (5'2" lol), doesn't wear makeup..um..kinda shy, talks a lot but she loves listening to you..she's sweet, likes to read, will never make you feel like you have to buy her lots of stuff; she won't cheat on you, doesn't dress like a skank, and will never drag you to chick flicks...some bands she likes are Analog Sway, Weezer, Linkin Park, and Papa Roach..uhh..she likes oldies, 80's,techno, some rap/hiphop too..and she believes that 3 things worth living for are chocolate, comics, and cheese. Lol. she's nuts, but in a cool way.
...if you want to see what she looks like, go to http://myspace.com/poor_ralph7

2006-11-13 11:17:46 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my husband and I have been married for 5years i had no clue he watched porn and masturbate why do men do this should it be because I am not satisfying him or why???

He doesn't know I found them should I tell him I know?

Should I join him I need serious answers?

I please him in anyway I can!!!

2006-11-13 11:17:00 · 11 answers · asked by Jazz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend and i had a "thing for just one day...and now we talk all the time...i left this guys phone number on my desk (so stupid of me) and my mom called him 15 times! when he checked his phone, it said "15 missed calls" from my number, and now his friend thinks he's cheating on her, with me...i've never met her...but if they break up, he will never talk to me ever again! i personally think his gf is insecure, and is suspicious anyway, and is now just blaming this on me...who is is the wrong here? and what should i do!!!!

2006-11-13 11:16:40 · 2 answers · asked by DevynFTW 2 in Singles & Dating

I wear underwear which fits me well. It's not too loose, but in the back by my butt it's WAY saggy. It always get bunched up and such.

I've tried numerous types, and this always happens. What can I do?

Commando - Not an option. It feels weird.

I'm a GUY, so no girly stuff.

And I don't go underwear shopping for myself, since I"m only in Jr. High and that'd be weird. Anything I can do to 'fix' my current ones. I won't ask my mum about this sorta stuff, its weird.

2006-11-13 11:16:36 · 11 answers · asked by Andy 1 in Family

I wear underwear which fits me well. It's not too loose, but in the back by my butt it's WAY saggy. It always get bunched up and such.

I've tried numerous types, and this always happens. What can I do?

Commando - Not an option. It feels weird.

I'm a GUY, so no girly stuff.

And I don't go underwear shopping for myself, since I"m only in Jr. High and that'd be weird. Anything I can do to 'fix' my current ones. I won't ask my mum about this sorta stuff, its weird.

2006-11-13 11:16:22 · 9 answers · asked by Andy 1 in Friends

2006-11-13 11:15:17 · 17 answers · asked by karl p 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I went with this girl to a movie, and afterwards we had sometime to go shopping, but she wouldn't let me pay for the clothes she bought. But she would ask me my opinion on how the clothes look. Before getting back we had dinner together, which I paid for. From talking to her before, she had mentioned that she doesn't have a boyfriend, and that she is shy, but I don't know whether if she wants to be my girlfiend. What should I do?

2006-11-13 11:12:26 · 12 answers · asked by Jared C 1 in Singles & Dating

im mixed- my mother is peruvian(spanish) and my father is guyanese (west indian). ive gone out with spanish girls but never an indian girl they seem to not want to even consider being in a relationship with me. is it my race?, if not what could it be. im not a jerk and im really friendly and nice and from what ive been told handome. so whats the deal?

2006-11-13 11:12:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told him - he doesn't have to worry - I don't want to marry him. He then says "You don't know how to take constructive criticism. Some people take help negatively or positively its all how you accept it. Does anyone think this is constructive? I am 5'2 and I wieght 135 lbs - I don't think I need to lose weight- especially for this loser! Any suggestions? Why would someone want to marry someone they if they don't like they way they look anyway?

2006-11-13 11:10:07 · 63 answers · asked by sdennisem 1 in Weddings

OK, so I started working with this guy, its more on a once a week basis and for an hour at a time…anyways, this hour that we have together is so cool and like we have a lot of chemistry and he compliments me and we talk about serious stuff, and it seems that he finds an excuse to touch my hand or back or arm, etc…Anyways, last week he mentioned he was going to the gym on Saturday and he invited me and said “we’ll call it a date”. I said no cause I thought I had plans, but they changed so I e-mailed him to see if he was still going and I got the notification that he read it but he never responded…When we are together I feel like he may like me, he says that we have a lot in common, and we have chemistry. Am I reading to far into this and he’s maybe just being nice by inviting me to gym to work out, cause I have hard time getting there on the weekends…or what?? He is kinda quiet and shy and I’m not…so I don’t know. I feel like a dork. LOL

2006-11-13 11:09:54 · 9 answers · asked by ANB 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to do something for christmas that will turn her on. Any ideas? Anything short of having sex please.
Thanks

2006-11-13 11:09:42 · 10 answers · asked by aureliusrocker 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 11:09:15 · 15 answers · asked by heide l 1 in Weddings

A woman tells you that she "needs some time alone" when you ask her out, because she's just come out of a bad relationship and doesn't want to jump into a new one.

A month later she asks you to come to a meeting out of State (2 nights) and tells you the reason is because she wants to see you because she likes you. She says she is happy being single and is not ready to date yet.

The 2nd night when you finally get to talk to her you ask her what she does to release sexual tension & ask her if she uses a vibrator. She is offended and tells you no. You press and she says there are other ways. You ask her if she still sleeps with her ex. She says no.

The next day, you tell her your ex cheated. You say forcefully you know what you want. You want someone who will appreciate you and want a family. You say girls call you, you never call them and even though you told her before you did date, you now deny it and say you just use girls for sex. You say you want sex from her

2006-11-13 11:08:34 · 7 answers · asked by coolstreem 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother told me that I was not "thin" and that my stomach was sticking out, although it wasn't. She constantly tells me to suck my stomach in, although my stomach is FLAT. (I am serious, it is. It will go out about half an inch and that's it.) I am 5'5" and I weigh 115 lbs. I constantly feel a drop in self-esteem when she does tell me that I am not thin, and it is hard to make me feel better. She is always judging me, but when I go to my room she immediately wants to make up, although I like to have about an hour to cool off. I think that she is lonely, but I hate how she criticizes me and judges me on what I eat. (She is a single mother). My mother is 56 and I am 14 years old so we have a big age difference. Could that be it? If I try to "talk" to her about boys, the discussion will not end well because she thinks she is right in the decision. I don't know what to do. I am an only child, but I am applying to boarding schools next year. Hopefully things will get better.

2006-11-13 11:08:30 · 18 answers · asked by Livy 1 in Family

i rele wanna kno what this is like my boyfriend asked if i would do it to him nd he could do it to me but i dont kno how to do it so i wanna kno

2006-11-13 11:08:20 · 6 answers · asked by Tiffany 1 in Singles & Dating

i 've been asking out alot of guys an all of the has said
no

2006-11-13 11:08:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

income is this right?

2006-11-13 11:07:54 · 11 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it helps people stand up for themselves.

2006-11-13 11:07:46 · 4 answers · asked by aliciloveyou 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in the middle of a divorce and the preliminary hearing is in Dec I spoke to my attorney today and although she was nice she had not read over any of the police reports I have turned into her and she seemed like she knew very little about the case. I have only met with her once and she is in a large very well known law firm put I feel like she is not acting fast enough and with enough fury any advice. I dont have money and cant just dump her. Is it normal for an attorney to not be familar with things until the hearing? How should I handle this? My ex is abusive drunk who is fighting for custody?

2006-11-13 11:07:06 · 11 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For example, in a child custody / support matter, the non-custodial parent has an attorney. The custodial parent does not. Non-custodial parent'y attorney threated custodial parent with further court proceedings if custodial parent doesn't agree to waive non-custodial parent's obligation to pay child support. Is this ethical?

2006-11-13 11:06:51 · 4 answers · asked by Tess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys, what types of hairstyles do you like on girls? Curly, straight, and so on...

2006-11-13 11:06:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and am I completely out of line by asking this?

2006-11-13 11:06:02 · 26 answers · asked by vteckoogie 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in the 9th grade(freshman) and 14...bu tI've never "been with" a boy or gave a bj? (I don't plan to for a while either)..i've never had a boyfriend or been out with a guy. I think it's okay but I just want your opinion!

BTW...there's a guy in my class that wants me to give him a bj.....what should I do?I don't want to but I still kinda like him and he just sits in class and stares at me....

2006-11-13 11:05:26 · 29 answers · asked by .::country gurl in a 4X4::. 2 in Singles & Dating

Where can I find a real looking fake engagement ring? I've been seeing this hot young girl who won't give it up. This has been going on for months. She won't do anything without a ring.

I just want to put a cheapie on her finger so I can nail her and call it a day. I've wasted a bunch of money on movies and dinners and am just trying to recoup the investment.

Afterwards, I'll do her a few more times and dump her. She can have the ring. I need a good fake though, where do you get them?

2006-11-13 11:05:18 · 16 answers · asked by Lou L 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 11:05:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometime last week, I had the oddest, and sickest dream. I was in some house upstairs. There was this elaborate bedroom, that looked very much like my mother's bedroom, but smaller. It also had these beautiful doors that you would find in the Sims 2. I was walking out of the closet in that bedroom, and my father (my parents are seperated), asked if I needed him to have sex with me. I said yes. We had sex, but when we had sex, it was not my father, it was some other man. I don't know who. When I was walking out of the room, a girl from my school, and her mother, were stading by that bedroom door with some man, trying to listen to the sex.

I don't really love my dad, as a dad or as anyone. He's okay. Really selfish, childish and imature. What does my dream mean? (I am 13)

2006-11-13 11:04:41 · 6 answers · asked by Addicted To Abercrombie & Fitch 2 in Family