we been going out for three weeks and he still seems nervouse how can i help him!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-13 11:17:55 · 11 answers · asked by rockchick182 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you guys have not been going out for that long so maybe you should give him a little more time to warm up to you, you guys don't know everything about each other yet. Or it could be your environment when you guys are together. Are there a lot of your friends or his friends around? Some guys don't like to show affection to their girlfriends in front of others they feel uncomfortable.
2006-11-13 11:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by curiouslisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push him into anything and give it time. Some people (guys included) just have a hard time opening up and need time to build the right feelings for the other person. Love isn't built on 3 weeks and neither is a good friendship... so just focus on having fun and being comfortable and try not to think about the end result. Hope it helps.
2006-11-13 19:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you are really smitten by someone you stay nervous around that person for a long time. Reassure him that he need not be nervous and he can tell you anything that is on his mind. Make him laugh about it with you and you will both become even closer. Sometimes I just act like a goofball and that breaks the ice.
2006-11-13 19:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by Renee C 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Three weeks isn't that long. He's probably just as nervous as you are but he shows it more than you do. Give him some more time. If he's still nervous, that may just be who he is.
2006-11-13 19:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by Mia C. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take him to a comedy club or some other place where you'll both be laughing. Laughter is nature's elixir for allowing us to cope with social situations that don't yet feel quite comfortable. Have fun!
2006-11-13 19:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that (as a guy) he probibly just really likes you and dosent want to mess it up. Just make a move and see what happens. Then you'll be able to tell whats going on.
2006-11-13 19:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by xblooded1x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's probably just gay. Help him maintain the charade of being straight for as long as he wants, then be supportive of him when it's time for him to come out of the closet.
2006-11-13 19:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by red_necksuck 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It just means he loves you and is nervous because he dosent want to make the wrong move around you and screw up.
just give it time, he will warm up to it.
2006-11-13 19:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by [blahh] ™ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he's STILL nervous around you i think you should call it quits. he's still obviously not ready like you seem to be.
2006-11-13 19:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by xJUiCY Bo0` 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him at shopping and take him too a movie and kiss him. happy to answer. GOD BLESS
2006-11-13 19:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by hannah montana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋