OK, so I started working with this guy, its more on a once a week basis and for an hour at a time…anyways, this hour that we have together is so cool and like we have a lot of chemistry and he compliments me and we talk about serious stuff, and it seems that he finds an excuse to touch my hand or back or arm, etc…Anyways, last week he mentioned he was going to the gym on Saturday and he invited me and said “we’ll call it a date”. I said no cause I thought I had plans, but they changed so I e-mailed him to see if he was still going and I got the notification that he read it but he never responded…When we are together I feel like he may like me, he says that we have a lot in common, and we have chemistry. Am I reading to far into this and he’s maybe just being nice by inviting me to gym to work out, cause I have hard time getting there on the weekends…or what?? He is kinda quiet and shy and I’m not…so I don’t know. I feel like a dork. LOL
2006-11-13 11:09:54 · 9 answers · asked by ANB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are a dork j/k. He does like you. If a guy is confident enough to find a reason to make physical contact, verbal contact, and lots of eye contact then he likes you. Ask him out maybe he isn't confident enough to ask you. If he says no then tell him you feel like a dork for asking him but would still really value having him as a friend. Plus he did attempt to ask you out by asking you to the gym. Good luck. Also you said no then tried to say yes (almost desperate to a guy) so he decided to play hard to get. Guys are just as good at that as girls. Later.....L.G.
2006-11-13 11:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by michael a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of you're. does not sound like he crossing the line to me. He probable potential not something irrelevant by making use of it. despite the fact that if it nevertheless bothers then you definitely tell him the subsequent time you talk. I even have an previous chum (we dated some time past in extreme college for a quick time) that I chat with on fb in some circumstances. He calls me "fantastically lady" and that i take it as merely a extreme high quality compliment. I determine if it became into something extra desirable than that then he could attempt to speak with me extra desirable than merely some circumstances a 365 days. so as long because it is your merely concern, then I doubt there is something to it.
2016-10-17 06:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him inviting you to the gym and calling it a date may be his shy way of telling you he likes you and wants to go out with you. Also, a lot of people don't check emails regularly and he may have been too shy to send one back.
2006-11-13 11:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gurl u shoud've went to dat gym. It does sound of funny how he would get ur message and not respond,but u should still go 4 it. He said ya got chemistry gurl!!!! ooooh!!! lol Good Luck
2006-11-13 11:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You kinow, to me, it does sound like he is feelin you.
Usually a guy doesn't make such an effort if they don't really like you in that way.Especially, since he is touching you and callin it " a date". I think if you feel the same way he apparently does, you should ask him to a movie, or somethin a little more casual, see where it takes ya!..
Hope it helps!
2006-11-13 11:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He asked you to go for a workout because: 1) He wants to show off his bod to you. 2) He wants to check you out.
When you told him "no," he probably went to plan B and asked another girl out who said "yes." Guys always assume that a girl is going to reject us. Yeah, I know, guys are totally insecure. So, naturally, we are going to have a backup plan.
So, I think that's what happened. YOU need to ask HIM out now. Go for it, if you like him. Just because he went out with another girl doesn't mean he still doesn't consider you first on his list of prospects. I don't like to put it that way, but that's how it is with guys. We don't put all of our eggs in the proverbial basket.
2006-11-13 11:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's shy and he said, "We'll call it a date", that's what he meant. He probably was worried you weren't interested when you told him you couldn't make it so he crawled back in his shy hole. Just ask him when you can get a raincheck. He'll come right back around.
2006-11-13 11:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obsessing and this can lead to anxiety hon'. Just ask him to go another day or some other date. Be bold and see what happens.
2006-11-13 11:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by determined26a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well confront him ask him if he was just being nice or if he's really interested in you.
2006-11-13 11:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋