ive never had sex before and im ready but my bf i dont know about i love him so much ive gone out with him for 6 months but i dont know if hes ready were both 13 and i love him so much. does it hurt your first time?
2006-11-13 11:23:06 · 14 answers · asked by guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STOP!!! Trust me, you are so not ready!
2006-11-13 11:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately wait.you may think your ready but that moment will come too soon and you wont be ready!wait till marriage!!what would happen if something would go bad, and say u got pregnant?there is no full proof way not too get pregnant.. just.. wait your married and it'll make the moment all the more special..sex isnt neccesary, believe me, you'll be fine if you dont have it... and for your information, yes ive heard it does hurt, alot. so much that the girl wanted to cry, and another time that a different girl..well ... bled.alot. so save it till ur older, and are married!
2006-11-13 11:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kember 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might hurt. you're young. you say you're ready but your question sounds like you're not sure. if he's not sure then you better stay away. boys get really manipulative about sex. your reputation could be ruined, even if you love him and really trust him. if he tells one friend and someone else finds out, just think of the consequences!
besides the consequences of sexually transmitted diseases, or pregnancy.
the longer you wait the better your first time will be. think YEARS. not months. i held off until more than two years after i first had my first serious boyfriend.
i still wish i'd waited longer, and i don't know anyone who doesn't think they should have held out longer. it's a big decision.
right now, you can always go back. once you've had sex, you can never be a virgin again. the point of no return is something you should consider seriously.
initially i wanted to wait until i got married! i'm glad that was my goal, cuz it kept me a virgin for two years longer. maybe that could be yours too.
there's so much more fun to be had without actual intercourse. it's just another thing to do, and many people enjoy oral sex more than intercourse! if you haven't learned to enjoy giving oral sex, i think you shouldn't be having sex.
receiving is even better, but you'll get more pleasure out of giving loving sex.
honestly, guys get a lot more out of intercourse than girls do. it's not that great, especially not at first.
i think you're too young, but the choice is up to you.
2006-11-13 11:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold up there how do you know your ready just because you love him doesn't mean any your both still very young me and my gf have been dating 1 year and 8 months and we still haven't had sex she's 17 and i'm 19 and we're both virgins so hold up before make any choices like that love isn't the only key to sex
2006-11-13 11:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by Craft 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why you feel you're ready for sex ... but at thirteen, you're not ready. And at thirteen, I guarantee he's not ready. There's a whole lot more to sex than the sex itself. Once you've done it, it opens up all these feelings ... to say nothing of the responsibility that comes with it.
Promise me this ... if you're convinced you're ready to have sex ... go to Planned Parenthood. If you're mature enough to make the choice to be sexually active, you're mature enough to protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy and STDs.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
2006-11-13 11:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by Bonny K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 and that is way too young to be having sex. Can you handle the risks and responsibilities. Can you handle STD's even AIDS. Can you provide for a baby. You are not even old enough to get a job. You need to think long and hard abut this and you shouldn't be asking strangers on the net you should be asking YOUR MOTHER!
2006-11-13 11:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by katiej47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both love each other so much you will both be willing to enjoy each other's company without pursuing sex at such an early age. Sexual intimacy outside of marriage is not about love, it's about lust and it opens you up to so much pain and heartache. Hang in there, wait it out, and enjoy each other in other ways besides sex.
2006-11-13 11:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do that your too young go to school and get into college one day folkes that make it to college make two to three times the money of others and heres a clue unwed mothers dont have a nice life it ends when they get fertilized so hev fun make out but keep it in your pants ,, or use condoms and foam and lube and dont tell anyone especially him cause the minute he does it hes gonna tell the world including all the folkes at school
2006-11-13 11:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 13 too but I think that you are too young for doing that cause you don't know if he might go around and say stuff about that moment or something
wait until you are older
2006-11-13 11:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by dumbchick911 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say u shouldnt do it u never now if he is enfected, and besides u are still to young i say wait tell ur older like 18 or tell ur marred trust me ull love me for it =D
2006-11-13 11:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not ready. You are too young. I'm not being mean.
2006-11-13 11:26:30 · answer #11 · answered by Tea-Jay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋